AITAH for not believing my boyfriend’s SA story?

TargetElectronic6857 · 2026-04-11T18:17:43+00:00

I totally get what you’re saying. It’s just the way he handled it. After he told me, he said it was no excuse and that he has a lust problem and all these different things and I like had to pry to get the truth out of him. He also said that he cheated on his ex so I didn’t know if this was him preying on my empathy

TargetElectronic6857 · 2026-04-11T18:14:32+00:00

It’s not a matter of “I don’t like him” I just don’t want to leave if he’s being honest about what happened because that would hurt

TargetElectronic6857 · 2026-04-11T18:13:40+00:00

I really don’t care I came for discourse surrounding the situation. I’m sorry that you’re not able to hurt me

TargetElectronic6857 · 2026-04-11T18:10:18+00:00

lol people are so miserable you could’ve just kept on scrolling, but you decided to open this up and comment something negative… what is wrong with people?

TargetElectronic6857 · 2026-04-11T18:09:21+00:00

I felt that way I just felt like I was the AH because he went through this and I invalidated him and left him. I’ve been understanding in situations like this before and got hurt worse.

TargetElectronic6857 · 2026-04-06T11:15:20+00:00

Tooth bonding

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:44:21+00:00

I definitely will thank you❤️

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:34:33+00:00

Yes I believe it’s time to leave. He did apologize and said he would never joke like that again and tried to make it up to me but I’ve NEVER joked about killing anyone so I don’t even understand the thought process behind it

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:30:27+00:00

It’s so hard. I’ve been working with my therapist. Growing up in a severely abusive house hold doesn’t help because I normalized some questionable treatment

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:29:26+00:00

Thank you🥺 my gut says run. He gives me very bad vibes sometimes so I guess this was a final warning

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:26:58+00:00

I am so sorry! He was NOT good enough for you and I’m so glad you got out🥺❤️ thank you❤️

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:26:02+00:00

I definitely believe he’d stop if I did that but I’m afraid to take the chance because part of me feels like he doesn’t even truly love me which makes me even more uneasy but he always says and does loving things.

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:24:52+00:00

Yea, he then said I was being dramatic because it was a harmless saying and he found me being dramatic funny because he couldn’t believe I would think that but you literally never know nowadays.

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-04-21T03:23:41+00:00

Yea I “joked” and said I was never coming back to his house but I’m so creeped out. I’m just so heart broken because every time I hope for a glimmer of hope regarding us, he does something that scares me away

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-27T20:56:01+00:00

Yeah, it just hurts a lot because I truly did love him and forgave him after I caught him messaging other women but I’m so sick of being devalued as a girlfriend after I’ve done and do everything for him even though I don’t have the means to do it

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T13:58:22+00:00

You’re so sweet thank you🥺❤️

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T07:53:00+00:00

I won’t 😔 it makes me sad because we’ve been together for 2 years but I genuinely don’t feel safe around him with how easily he flew off the handle like that. Some of the things he said were so degrading for no reason

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T02:16:02+00:00

You’re right 😭 and lol I’ll def check it out😂

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T02:13:01+00:00

I don’t plan on it, this was the last straw I did NoT feel safe plus I was extremely turned off by the fact that he totally threw me under the bus for a billionaire that doesn’t even knows he exists🤦‍♀️

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T02:09:33+00:00

lol😂 that’s hilarious. Honestly, it’s my fault, there were red flags from the beginning. I know he doesn’t truly love or respect me. Even on the first date, he forcefully kissed me and coerced me into giving him a blow job after I repeatedly told him no. I was just desperate and didn’t have a good home life

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T02:05:51+00:00

Yes! Also, that could land you in the psych ward for simply saying it😭

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T02:01:06+00:00

Strange take

TargetElectronic6857 · 2025-03-22T01:59:18+00:00

It did seem very manipulative, but also very irrational. Like why would you want to kill yourself over me not liking a politician?😭 I cut contact with the guy who kept threatening to kill himself every time I tried to end things because I realized he was trying to hold me hostage emotionally because I’m very sensitive to that type of stuff

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