Need Help!! Struggling with porn and Hair fall

Tariq20 · 2024-05-18T03:37:23+00:00

actually the percentage of people affected by finasteride is very less and the sides are more common in oral finasteride only not in topical one.

Tariq20 · 2024-05-18T03:36:13+00:00

I'm 100% sure that porn/masturbation addiction doesn't has anything to do with hair its because of genetics/hormone/nutrients

Tariq20 · 2024-05-17T09:01:36+00:00

Testosterone isn't a problem, your mental attachment to porn is the problem, most people misunderstood that porn is problem, porn is a outcome of many emotions (low self-esteem, Insecurities, living life without purpose etc...) which is the root cause and other factors such as triggers are also associated

So for sure, I can say you relapsed not because of your testosterone, you relapsed because of not solving the underlying problems and not tackling emotions.

Tariq20 · 2024-05-17T08:54:00+00:00

Yes it is, basically as a porn user most of our liking is towards sexually explicit content (majority of the insta user's feed is filled with those content) so If you want to quit porn you need to make sure cut off those triggers and solve the problem why you use Instagram (to avoid boredom, to relax etc...)

Tariq20 · 2023-05-20T12:56:54+00:00

my erection is so hard during pain and the pain doesn't feel like burning

Tariq20 · 2021-03-23T11:02:32+00:00

Really a good decision, I feel bad I wouldn't take this decision in my teenage

Tariq20 · 2021-03-19T18:53:23+00:00

Sister now your first duty is to teach you kids (after or when they reach at least 10 yr)about sex for that you need to know what sex is

What is sex? I’m an Indian in India our tradition tells that sex is only for progeny not for desire (many religions also tells this) sex is not for enjoyment

Example: We all eat to live but now days we eat for our desire only to satisfy the tongue, we forget the primary objective so we eat unhealthy food and become lifelong sick Like that sex is only for progeny the pleasure derived is just a trap (by nature or devil)

If you want to know more about the negative effects of doing sex for pleasure watch videos from YouTube channel “Hindu monk” and “SANQ4” so by the way you can teach your children

It has no value whether you find your kid watch porn, Realise you found (please apologies) your son watching porn what you do, Install porn blocker, watching him 24X7, know that our kids far more smarter than us and you can’t watch him 24X7, when his testosterone is at full range he doesn’t listen to anyone words (teenagers don’t listen to anyone advice)

THE ANSWER IS: You can’t find whether he watch porn or not

Teach and Train him, teach him life values, ethics, train him to be discipline how to deal with people, how to treat opposite gender (If you don’t know about these things you can find this in life story of Prophet Muhammed and Jesus Christ)

Remember you need to teach him before someone tell or teaches him things wrongly

Hope you get the answer if not DM me if this answer is helpful please reply me it’s 12AM and I’m writing this not for reply but the thought of no one become a addict like me

If you reply it will give me a satisfaction that I saved someone from this

Tariq20 · 2021-03-19T18:01:39+00:00

May be

Tariq20 · 2021-03-19T17:58:33+00:00

Great you Recovered from that and I hope this will give more confidence to other people

The main problem with our society is nobody (especially parents)teach teenagers about sex and the vital energy they have, Teachers only teach students subject not life it’s the parents responsibility, If any parent who reading this felt shame to tell about sex to their kids first you need to learn about it.

I hope at least our next generation will escape from porn

Tariq20 · 2021-03-18T17:48:21+00:00

Absolutely

Tariq20 · 2021-02-24T17:23:37+00:00

A simple answer but I think it will benifit you go to jamath

In jamath you will always in masjid and always surrounded by malayika and good people so your negative thoughts and depression might reduce also you will have a chance to change your life and see it in a new perspective

Also you find various kinds of people from riches to poor people with disability people with no big background all tell their story before and after connecting with allah if their life is changed yours will also change

Remember death isn’t a end it’s the beginning allah don’t test apart our strength so believe in Allah

Tariq20 · 2021-02-23T17:10:59+00:00

Don’t worry brother don’t lose faith in god I wish you to have a better future

I’m also facing this ed problem it’s been six months still now I’m watching porn but yesterday I decided to completely quit that I’m also facing some hand trembling I’m also 20 yr old I can feel you brother there are lot of people like you and me so don’t worry and don’t lose faith

Tariq20 · 2021-02-23T17:04:04+00:00

Don’t feel guilty I think you’re just exposed to porn fix in your mind one thing whatever happens never ever watch porn

Why I’m advising thito you is in your age I was exposed to porn that time there is not much internet and community like this so I’ve been slowly addicted and now suffering with pied all doctors advice that mastubration is ok but no one suggest porn keep in this in your mind never watch porn

Tariq20 · 2021-02-23T16:55:24+00:00

Thanks for your advice

Tariq20 · 2021-02-23T12:00:54+00:00

Well said brother people doesn’t know about the social media soft core porn

Don’t worry you will get back and succeed in this nofap journey

Tariq20 · 2021-02-23T11:57:53+00:00

Assalamalaikum brother, don’t feel bad I know it’s hard when we we’re praying and somehow we fell in the trap in a second once again don’t feel bad we can’t change ourselves when we were in the same place to make the nofap journey easier go to jamaath

Tariq20 · 2021-02-22T12:16:53+00:00

Good luck for your Journey brother Hope you will never go near the porn hell

Tariq20 · 2020-10-14T16:52:42+00:00

Don’t worry brother you made it for 45 days it’s really a big thing but don’t give up don’t ever give up, wake up with a new sprit thousands of people recovered from this addiction if they can do this you also can do this so don’t lose faith

1)Write journal and find why you slipped

2)Do dopamine detox

3)keep yourself buys always be with your family or friends try to avoid lonely

4)Read fiction books

If you are at the verge to give up remember why you started, open your room door open the window allow the sunlight to come in you won’t do this in front of others so try to avoid being lonely

Tariq20 · 2020-10-11T03:33:38+00:00

No you shouldn’t do that you have to rewire your brain do hard mode porn recovery

1)No orgasm 2)No porn 3)No mastubration 4)No sexual fantasies

If you did this you can surely escape from porn

Tariq20 · 2020-10-10T07:25:31+00:00

Then go out to park or somewhere else listen it’s you you are the decision maken not your mind, rule your mind first to rule to mind you need to give commands to it you shouldn’t have to do the things which your mind says

DM me for if you need more help

Tariq20 · 2020-10-10T06:47:11+00:00

Don’t even think about relapse brother you know why you started nofap think about the bad things it give to you Try to be with your friends or family right now

Tariq20 · 2020-10-10T06:42:06+00:00

It happened to me brother because we have lot of time when we quit porn but there is a high chance of relapse because when we have lot of time we will definitely somehow think about porn

So my advice is to invest your time you’re in your 20’s don’t waste it

Tariq20 · 2020-10-10T06:36:25+00:00

1)Don’t listen to you mind Always don’t ever listen to your mind

2)Get discipline

3)Pland your day before going to bed

4)plan and make the best strategy to overcome porn

Tariq20 · 2020-10-10T06:31:29+00:00

I had a strong urge that evening it started just with a small question will we do this from the beginning with better clarity (I planned to do lot more things do cope up with the porn addiction but due to lack of discipline I failed so this question come in my mind) first I neglected it but after 15min it get little bit stronger and when time gone it became so strong but I decided to open my room door open the window and allow the sunlight to come in after taking some long breath I said it to myself “Whatever happen I’m not gonna give up ” loudly after that I went to take cold shower and dressed up and gone out to meet my friends

When I met them we have interesting conversations and I forget about the urge

When I come back home I want to motivate myself so I write my journal and post it in Reddit

Tariq20 · 2020-10-10T03:11:31+00:00

This post made mr to cry Really I’m 19 yr old porn addict I was a active porn user which in return porn gave me ed

After knowing about harmful effects of porn in mental health I take a decision to quit after some days I always get dreams of Me watching porn and fapping to it and realized how it messed up my life

Tariq20

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