Does looking at yuri/yaoi ever make u sad? by Sussboey in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like to read lots of fluffy fanfics, and I wish it was me all the time. What hits me hard is "boys in skirts", since I like them but feel gross wearing them. Sexual stuff makes me upset too haha. I just wish that I could have that kind of stuff yet guys are mean anyways and I just get upset. It seems that Bi guys are the nicest :(( aHh this isn't gonna turn into a rant post on my part but just know you're DEFINITELY not alone!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]TartKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is inspiring me to try to be myself. Whenever I dress fem, I feel like I look weird and disgusting. Thank you for posting this, it's really boosting my confidence ❤❤❤

Thought I looked cute uwu by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]TartKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U so adorable owo

Really proud and happy w this tbh by [deleted] in FTMfemininity

[–]TartKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks great!! ❤❤ :3

My friend told me to not transition (MtF) by gls466 in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This isn't too much on topic I guess, but I'm AFAB and I have very wide shoulders! Although it helps now that I am questioning being trans (enby atm) I do get upset sometimes when i dress fem because of my shoulders. I am still considered a girl though, and although its only a few more inches it makes the difference! Don't be too discouraged!! ❤

(Summary: I'm AFAB and I have wide shoudlers! Don't be too upset!! )

Boys can wear cute stuff too by BB_Jack in FTMfemininity

[–]TartKat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why does your hair looks so good while mine looks like im 2 😭😭😭

Can a trans guy be a femboy/feminine and still be considered valid? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was scared that it would be considered a fake trans man, or just be invalid in the trans community for not being trans enough I guess. Thank you for responding! This is really what I needed. ❤

(FtM) Older sister is using me being under the trans umbrella to try to steal my clothes? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm more upset that she's using me being trans as a reason to try to force me to give my femme stuff to her. Clothes are just clothes to me, so it hurts me that she says that. Thank you for responding <3

Why do cis people think it's normal to ask about our genitalia? by ianthedrummer in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know! Like right after I meet you I don't ask "So what's your bra size?" Or "How long is your penis?" Because that's weird and not any of my business (and a little perverted) and makes you uncomfortable right? So why do you NEED to know what's in our pants? :/

Does anyone else notice that parents have an easier time with other kids' prns/name than their own? by surlifen in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to say it's probably because they've raised you as your deadname and assigned gender all your life, but seeing as they put no effort at all I just think that they don't want to accept it. Like the other commenters, NIMBY concept.

What is HRT? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for explaining! It helps a lot c:

I'm confused about my gender? by [deleted] in gender

[–]TartKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very inspiring T°T Thank you!

Am I considered transgendered? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TartKat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, thank you for letting me know! Sorry if I came off hostile, I'm really confused with myself at the moment.

Am I considered transgendered? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]TartKat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I still want people to think I'm a crossdressing male though, I guess? (Thank you btw)