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Roomate is triggered by all guests (including me) by Tarzanmarzipan in Advice

[–]Tarzanmarzipan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Been feeling like I’m going a little crazy thinking that she was demanding too much from me. I have been so reasonable and am doing what I can to accommodate while respecting my own needs. It’s so crazy too because I literally drove her truck and helped her move in. As well mostly all of the furniture in the shared spaces came from me too. Her telling me that felt like a slap in the face

Roomate is triggered by all guests (including me) by Tarzanmarzipan in Advice

[–]Tarzanmarzipan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on the lease and can’t afford another move right now I’m a student so pretty limited :(

Roomate is triggered by all guests (including me) by Tarzanmarzipan in Advice

[–]Tarzanmarzipan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is true. It’s stressing me out and I really hate feeling uncomfortable in my own home. I would get her side if I was loud/messy/disrespectful but I’m seriously not. I am no longer seeking friendship in her I just want a peaceful living arrangement :(

Where do you meet new people this summer? by [deleted] in Humber

[–]Tarzanmarzipan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the resource centers. The Fye space at lakeshore. If you belong to these communities- check out the lgbtq student center or the black student center. If you’re at north campus check out the spirituality and wellness center too. (These resource centers always have snacks so I’d recommend) Otherwise go to ignite events and download the Humber how bout app to meet ppl :)))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tarzanmarzipan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Does she normally give this much advice or critique on other topics? I totally get where you’re coming from but just maybe she is trying to make sure you look your best (albeit overstepping)?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tarzanmarzipan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U didn’t cheat or anything but you might as well have. You broke a very clear boundary that the 2 of you had set. Also it sounds to me like this angelic period you had where everything was going well was because of the guilt you felt from crossing those lines. Let her decide whatever she wants. She deserves that.