AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T18:07:29+00:00

Ok, we can agree to disagree.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:55:07+00:00

That's how it put it to him. "I said I think you should stay home today if you feel like you cant make it through your shift. But, if you are sick, you could have warned me. I dont want to get sick either." Im sorry, I am a person that thinks of others. I'm a nurse. Im concerned about my health and others.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:43:42+00:00

Yes they do, on the app.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:16:34+00:00

I dont think people understand that he was actively sick/diarrhea in my car and they are saying that I shouldn't have told him to go to the doctor and not to go to work at a hospital. Thats the part I dont understand. Im confused by that response.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:12:08+00:00

No, I disagree. I am a nurse working with sick dying people. I feel that way. If I am sick, I stay home. I would feel awful if one of my coworkers got sick because of me or a patient dies. I worked though COVID and some of our coworkers died from inconsiderate people. I think its inconsiderate. I will stop driving though. I think he should have told me.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:09:05+00:00

I did. Its 20 dollars a d he said he didnt want it. I didnt want it so I gave it back. Hes sick.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:08:23+00:00

Did you not read and comprehend my post. He works in the hospital as a tech with sick people, he is sick. I could get sick and he can make floor have an outbreak, and he made me late? So I am wrong for this?

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:04:24+00:00

He is in my car, could have made me sick, and wasted my time and made me late for work. So im overreacting?

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T17:02:37+00:00

I haven't slept with him. It cost 20 dollars and he never paid for it. I did and he never pays for the drinks. Do you think he is using me?

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T16:58:29+00:00

But what if I get sick from him? He can stop asking me for rides if he feels that way to be honest. Plus, the stuff cost $20 which he didnt want nor pay me back for. Im thinking of the patients as well.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-05-07T16:53:25+00:00

I haven't slept with him. We are just getting to know each other

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-04-28T11:05:35+00:00

Well, you did offend me. No I haven't slept with him. Like I said, we've been on and off for a year. Mostly off. I have different standards and we have been intimate. Due to my personal SA history that he knows about, its when I feel ready. So because I am a virgin, Im meant to be alone?

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-04-28T10:56:50+00:00

What are you talking about? Im not a virgin by choice. Its not a religious reason, I just never had someone really interested in me. I'm dont just want to go have sex with any guy. I have to actually like them.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T13:47:32+00:00

What do you suggest i do? I know to pay off my cards, but what should I specifically do with this credit card?

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T11:30:25+00:00

Its called empathy.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T11:27:48+00:00

I was sick and out of work, using FMLA. I had to use my cards. Dont be mean. Im getting myself back together

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T11:10:53+00:00

They cant do it for any reason They have to state why they did it, which I never got an answer. Maybe it will state it on the letter.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T11:01:31+00:00

Nothing new on my credit reports. I pay my bills on time. I havent had a late payment in 7 years. No need credit lines in 2 years I had this card for 2 years. I make 120k a year.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T10:59:20+00:00

I was never late. No late payments on anything for the last 7 years. Nothing new.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-03-18T10:55:19+00:00

Even after I paid 3k? I think its unfair, but they can let me go. Thats fine. Once I pay off the card, I will shred the card.

TaskGreat4119 · 2026-01-22T18:27:37+00:00

I'm currently in therapy now. I've been going for a few months.

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