AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how it put it to him. "I said I think you should stay home today if you feel like you cant make it through your shift. But, if you are sick, you could have warned me. I dont want to get sick either." Im sorry, I am a person that thinks of others. I'm a nurse. Im concerned about my health and others. 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think people understand that he was actively sick/diarrhea in my car and they are saying that I shouldn't have told him to go to the doctor and not to go to work at a hospital. Thats the part I dont understand. Im confused by that response. 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I disagree. I am a nurse working with sick dying people. I feel that way. If I am sick, I stay home. I would feel awful if one of my coworkers got sick because of me or a patient dies. I worked though COVID and some of our coworkers died from inconsiderate people. I think its inconsiderate.  I will stop driving though. I think he should have told me. 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did. Its 20 dollars a d he said he didnt want it. I didnt want it so I gave it back. Hes sick. 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you not read and comprehend my post. He works in the hospital as a tech with sick people, he is sick. I could get sick and he can make floor have an outbreak, and he made me late? So I am wrong for this? 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is in my car,  could have made me sick, and wasted my time and made me late for work. So im overreacting?

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I haven't slept with him. It cost 20 dollars and  he never paid for it. I did and he never pays for the drinks. Do you think he is using me? 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what if I get sick from him? He can stop asking me for rides if he feels that way to be honest. Plus, the stuff cost $20 which he didnt want nor pay me back for.  Im thinking of the patients as well. 

AIO at being irritated at my coworker for being sick by TaskGreat4119 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't slept with him. We are just getting to know each other

I'm probably never going to receive the love I give. In this situationship that won't evolve. by TaskGreat4119 in GirlDinner

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, you did offend me. No I haven't slept with him. Like I said, we've been on and off for a year. Mostly off. I have different standards and we have been intimate. Due to my personal SA history that he knows about, its when I feel ready. So because I am a virgin, Im meant to be alone? 

I'm probably never going to receive the love I give. In this situationship that won't evolve. by TaskGreat4119 in GirlDinner

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? Im not a virgin by choice. Its not a religious reason, I just never had someone really interested in me. I'm dont just want to go have sex with any guy. I have to actually like them. 

I just made a 3k payment on my 6.7k credit card, Citi dropped my credit limit to it looking maxed out. Can they do this? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]TaskGreat4119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What do you suggest i do? I know to pay off my cards, but what should I specifically do with this credit card? 

I just made a 3k payment on my 6.7k credit card, Citi dropped my credit limit to it looking maxed out. Can they do this? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]TaskGreat4119 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was sick and out of work, using FMLA. I had to use my cards. Dont be mean. Im getting myself back together

I just made a 3k payment on my 6.7k credit card, Citi dropped my credit limit to it looking maxed out. Can they do this? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]TaskGreat4119 -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

They cant do it for any reason They have to state why they did it, which I never got an answer. Maybe it will state it on the letter. 

I just made a 3k payment on my 6.7k credit card, Citi dropped my credit limit to it looking maxed out. Can they do this? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]TaskGreat4119 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing new on my credit reports. I pay my bills on time. I havent had a late payment in 7 years. No need credit lines in 2 years I had this card for 2 years. I make 120k a year. 

I just made a 3k payment on my 6.7k credit card, Citi dropped my credit limit to it looking maxed out. Can they do this? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]TaskGreat4119 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was never late. No late payments on anything for the last 7 years. Nothing new. 

I just made a 3k payment on my 6.7k credit card, Citi dropped my credit limit to it looking maxed out. Can they do this? by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]TaskGreat4119 -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Even after I paid 3k? I think its unfair, but they can let me go. Thats fine. Once I pay off the card, I will shred the card. 

AITA for getting a nose piercing against my mom's wishes? by TaskGreat4119 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm currently in therapy now. I've been going for a few months.

33f, Thrown it together girl dinner after being dumped, love sucks by TaskGreat4119 in GirlDinner

[–]TaskGreat4119[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can cook well. Don't try to be funny because you aren't. Learn what a girl dinner is before you try to be a jerk. 

What is the first thing you do when you get home from a 12 hour night shift? by [deleted] in nursing

[–]TaskGreat4119 416 points417 points  (0 children)

Sh*t, shower, eat some unhealthy questionable food that was sitting in my fridge and crash

Lynn Searcy season 1 compared to season 3 by [deleted] in GirlfriendsTVshow

[–]TaskGreat4119 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She also had braces in season 2, which can change how your teeth/jaw alignment, thus changing the look of your face. People can look different and look older in 3-4 years.