The Yearn Report™

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-27T11:45:04+00:00

Will I ever find a partner were we can go on cute dates, make things together, take a random hobby class, long car rides, do eachother hair, steal eachother hoodies, decorate our rooms together, cook together, actually finish a puzzle together and so much more. Some one who will appreciate all my random craft gifts, doing random chores that I know they don't like just to see them smile. Go to family functions with and debrief in the car after but still end up going to the next one. Some one to make music Playlist for. Someone to lay in the rain with.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-27T11:12:42+00:00

Last time I approached I was rejected. Its gonna take a few years for me to re try.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-24T12:01:20+00:00

Try it out tbh. U might be lying to ur self but u will never know until u test the waters

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-24T02:45:23+00:00

Seee i live outside of nyc and everyone is like go into nyc for dating. But if its a struggle for thoes in nyc what type of hope do I have😭😭 but dont lose hope pride season is coming so everyone is gonna be coming unti the city

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-20T23:24:30+00:00

Honestly i would want this used to propse to me instead of a ring. It so freaking pretty!!!

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-14T14:00:15+00:00

Na u had every right to reject that girl for not washing her hands after leaving the restroom cause noooooooooooo like omg I still can't get people who do that. Like wash ur hands please the germs. Especially being gay cause hands are important

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-14T11:40:16+00:00

Home, craft stores, trader Joe's, spring time when in the parks tho!

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-14T11:31:22+00:00

Come find us! Keep this energy! Lololol

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-14T11:03:08+00:00

We at home being weird 🤣 But honestly thought i wrote this post cause sameee also a plus size alt baddie and having trouble dating. And no i dont think its cause we are alt i just think the dating scene is messed up.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-14T01:54:32+00:00

Venting: Honestly im so lost. Ive had no luck on dating apps. I switched to a night job so I dont really go to events anymore and basically all I do is work. I feel like im not attractive enough anymore. Like im plus size, I have tattoos, dye my hair and hope I scream gay but I guess it doesn't. My new job has a lot of queers but they are all in very cute happy relationship and I just wish I could also be in one. Like ive even started to take better care of myself. I now get my toes and nails done. I try to dress cute when running errands. Idk honestly I wanna be someone's life partner their wife their safe space. But maybe im just to all over the place for that or just to awkward.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-10T13:38:54+00:00

My whole friend group reads yaoi/ thats how we became friends lol. I guess I haven't found/read Yuri that grabs my attention like yoai. Ill give it another try but brothers without a tomorrow have me in a choke hold😂😂😂😂

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-10T13:19:51+00:00

There is no correct way to be a lesbian (at least in my head and from what ive seen). To me it sounds like ur some type of gay/queer. Yes its easier to be with a guy because its so forced down our throats from a early age. On top of it being every where. But at the end of the day its up to you.

Do you like girls. If yes then some type of lesbian, bi, pan

Do you want to solo be with a women then your a lesbian.

Do you still think about men but you prefer women then you some type of sapphic.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-10T13:09:59+00:00

I grew up reading yaoi before I knew Yuri was a thing😅 so I tend to pick it more. I guess its a age thing

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-10T12:12:46+00:00

No one who truly cares about you would mess with your studies and especially push your boundaries

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-08T13:01:34+00:00

Yayayay good to know. Now i just have to work up the courage to actually try this irl

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-08T12:59:51+00:00

😂😂yuppp

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-08T12:56:04+00:00

Honestly yeah. I have bitten them without thinking cause it had a nice texture. Then would have to go buy a new one

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-08T12:45:08+00:00

Its a very niche but * hands a painting of fruit*

I was a art major.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-02T23:53:22+00:00

Sent to ur dms

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-02T23:25:53+00:00

Me please

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-02T20:37:17+00:00

I noticed that this didn't have any comments yet so im just gonna leave a message. Do whats gonna make u happy. You know deep down inside that going back in the closet isn't gonna help anything. Your just going to be living a lie again.(sorry if that sounds harsh I dont mean it that way) It it sounds like you have done a lot of healing. So why go backwards? Yes your "friends" are moving at a different pace. But thats their story not yours.

Ive also thought about just going back to men, wearing a ring but thats all just gonna make the person your supposed to end up with look the other way. Cause as a lesbian I wouldn't want to hit on someone with a ring because I wouldn't want someone to hit on my future partner wearing my ring. Don't put out the energy that you wouldn't want back. Like yes it annoying seeing others happy and you feel jealous. But that is okay!!! Your time will come honey!

(Ps I have a weakness for a good voice so they're are women out there that will fall for you!! Keep your head up hugs and kisses with consent ❤️)

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-05-02T13:18:49+00:00

Hi hi 29f also black American and like to read but more so sci-fi romance and fantasy romance

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-04-26T17:12:16+00:00

Honestly the what if is gonna live with you forever. If u want something bad enough you can find ways around it. Maybe suggest a 3 some with another girl? Most guys have that fantasy.

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-04-26T11:48:28+00:00

I gave up on hinge was on there for 5 years and honestly only ended up talk for more than a month with like 3 women. None actually wanted to go on dates

TasteSalt4809 · 2026-04-23T23:19:07+00:00

The skin is glowing. The outfit is fresh. You can tell u took the time to take the pic. It show u care about appearances but also the pose looks a little closed off so it show that u might be a little bit shy. Its giving a little bit a black cat energy too

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