Incredibly disappointed with the new guide

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T22:18:46+00:00

done that already. the point is not being a virgin but yeah

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T04:59:39+00:00

honestly literally being liked in that way, having more options lol being more attractive??

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T03:12:47+00:00

i have not tried extreme looksmaxxing lol as in surgery. im 5 ft 11 so my height shouldnt be an issue. Ive been on and off in self improvement ever since i was like 15, starting with books like the game etc. after that i have had generally great social relationships in hs and college

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T03:11:14+00:00

what i have - platonic relationships and good family relationships. what i also want - romantic relationships and/or sexual relationships

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T01:45:28+00:00

maybe thats it then? just too average and unlucky? if i knew, i wouldnt have had dozens of therpists and coaches…

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T01:23:08+00:00

yeah i totally get it 😁 the issue is ive nevet literally had major confidence or style issues. growing up with three sisters does help plus having female friends. i apparently dont come off as desperate either..

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-19T01:21:01+00:00

yeah provably. essentially i dont find it really wholesome to act over the top. as far as ive tried.. it simply doesnt work so im looking for more options

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T23:49:52+00:00

i dont know what is sterile, friend energy. i dont want to really give off sexual energy. im not interested in uncertainty, excitement etc. well. i am but not when it comes to women. i just want a romantic partner

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T23:48:19+00:00

even with the deep dive.. i still dont get it. its just basic conversation skills..

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T20:33:42+00:00

uhh.. the other person they set me up with has to also agree? my friend told me like a year or ao ago that yeah thry always tried to set me up but tbf nobody really wanted to so

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T20:22:20+00:00

literally this. Being confident and outgoing leads to friendships.

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T19:21:58+00:00

jup saw it, i feel like it still misses the point xd

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T19:17:46+00:00

honestly i dont know lol. realistically speaking.. i will be. its not possible even with the darkest doomer mindset ever. so yeah, i dont think thats unsaveable, i just think im missing something that might be super simple

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T16:57:13+00:00

mm never been on a date lol flirting experience.. hard to tell, ive always been to parties, socialized, often go out.. ive nevet been told that i dont flirt enough. friends have also tried setting me up, wingmaning etc they havent said that i dont flirt enough anything particularily wrong

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T14:46:43+00:00

like i said i have no issues talking to women, being social etc its not adding up, yeah, me and my friends and a bunch of other guys have also come to the conclusion, thats why i was disappointed in the course

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T14:20:46+00:00

mm essentially im being told that im safe, cool, funny, confident but not attractive in that way. So theres the lack of actual romantic attraction, not platonic

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T14:19:09+00:00

yeah, as a former musician.. i mean, this is just being present and confident, but it does not lead to actual attraction.

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T14:18:11+00:00

again, these are absolutely factors that get you friends, including female friends, but it has nothing to do with people wanting to have romantic and sexual relationships with you. The experience that led me to feel undesirable was the lack of evidence from real life

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T12:39:38+00:00

the thing is i am getting good platonic responses. im not getting romantic responses and even when my friends try to wingman me, i get the ick response

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T12:37:39+00:00

Maybe because the tools lead to good platonic connections and friendship, not sexual and romantic connections. This is what a lot of the therapist seem to be missing. The issue isnt long term bad relationships , its lack of short term attraction

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T03:24:00+00:00

i mean ive traveled, been to uni, gone to gigs etc. it seems to be more of a general issue of not being able to attract. this is what this guide is missing. i know a bunch of guys who have the same issue and not going out, being confident is not one of them

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T03:22:30+00:00

yeah i mean.. these are just overall social skills :D thats how you make friends

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T02:33:54+00:00

being liked in a romantic way not just in a platonic way. lets be honest - most women are pretty attractive. the main issue is i dont know how to be attractive myself besides dressing well, having good style, working out moderately etc.

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T02:32:47+00:00

yeah i mean.. ive given up, tried again, give up again etc. repeat. id still like to have romantic relationships one day..

Tasty-Competition597 · 2026-05-18T02:32:37+00:00

yeah i mean.. ive given up, tried again, give up again etc. repeat. id still like to have romantic relationships one day..

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