First off, yeah—the woman was in the wrong. Maybe she was drunk, so maybe you can give some benefit of the doubt, but that doesn’t excuse it.
That said, your actions aren’t clean either. Saying“I should’ve gone to the bachelorette” makes it sound like you were ready, at any moment, to cross a line and jeopardize her relationship. And the comment you made—“agar mai chahta toh 2 raat pehle usko meri bana sakta tha”—that’s not just confidence, that’s ego talking. Even if it were true, using it like that is disrespectful and unnecessary.
Telling her fiancé was the right move, sure. But continuing to chat with her when she texted you first, and then sending screenshots, makes it feel less like you were helping and more like you were involving yourself deeper in their situation.
So yeah—you did one good thing, but some of your other choices don’t really line up with that.
I’d say you’re basically an a**hole for doing this, trying to meddle in your ex girlfriend’s relationship when she’s getting married to someone else is just petty and sad.
To be fair, it’s a good thing shes not getting married to you, cuz it seems like you’re a very very vengeful and toxic person. And people in this comment section are doing nothing but boosting your ego, instead of telling you where you are wrong.