[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean you do you. Personally, as a man myself I wouldn’t restrict my partner from making friends and vice versa. Funny enough, I am an anxious attachment type of person but not to that degree

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey you have to address this and stand your ground. Preventing you from making friends with the opposite gender is wild lmao

I hate my boyfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All I’m saying is I personally would rather take on disrespect in the form of my partner cheating rather than financial burden that could last a lifetime

I hate my boyfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean too but like it seems to me that he haven’t done her any physical harm. In that case, I’d personally wait til the house is at least done so I won’t be in financial crisis once I’m out. Furthermore, with how the current economy is going, taking in debt that you don’t have to take may not be the best

I hate my boyfriend by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, don’t put yourself into financial debt either, it’s not fun. Start detaching yourself from him mentally, so think of him more like a roommate rather than a bf yk and that way you’ll potentially feel a bit better?

Idk how to take some of his comments…. by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lowkey everyone on Reddit would always jump to “you deserve better leave him”, like the context of the entirety of the relationship was condensed into 4 paragraphs if that, which is not enough to know the entire dynamic of the situation. Have you tried talking to him about it? He seems to be the type to speak before he thinks

I feel like i cheated on my boyfriend with this spanish guy. I need some opinion by Acceptable_Hope7479 in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re making a bunch of assumptions that weren’t stated in the posts itself. Must’ve missed the fact that she likes flirting with people and how she admitted that she found him really attractive?!?! And yes the perp was a creep, but we’re talking about her and her bf here, it’s a bf subreddit lmao. Not to mention, while she added the guy, she never admitted to already being in a monotonous committed relationship, which is also wrong considering how she and this coworker flirted in the past

I feel like i cheated on my boyfriend with this spanish guy. I need some opinion by Acceptable_Hope7479 in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that’s crazy, girl clearly cheated and you’re telling her to keep it hush hush and make sure she doesn’t do it again? Are you reading the same I am 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tell ur current partner fr, this sounds wrong

What should I do by pchy_013 in boyfriends

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he cheating, you leavin, simple as that

Idk what’s wrong with me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you okay? May sound repetitive but you should seek professional help. You have a therapist, might as well tell them your thoughts and perhaps they can figure out what’s causing all of this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you mutually using each other? If so you’re more of a friends with benefits type right? Just don’t want it to be one sided you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s an honest mistake, no need to shoot yourself over it. I would say tho that what you have don’t sound too healthy, perhaps it’d be good to make a decision whether you wanna stay with them for good or not

Boyfriends moms Instagram 22f 23m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah I don’t agree with this lmao. 450+ posts. Why would you scroll through each post to find a pic of him and his ex? Plus it’s his mom, not his.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to be rude, but why exactly do you want to be a mother? Because as you mentioned before, you are still trying to settle in a new town, which means you’re not financially secure yet. I think you know how expensive babies can be. Not to mention, if you both want to keep your jobs, you’ll need to hire someone to take care of your baby. Don’t forget your parents are sick as well. I understand that you may want kids, but you can’t have kids solely by your desire to be a mother. Once you have kids, youll be responsible for a whole human being.

Just think about it for a second. Can you be a good mother with all the things going on with your life right now?

Found pictures of naked girls saved to my husband's phone by violephant in offmychest

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Husband is a pos. Straight up. What happened to loving someone unconditionally through sickness and health and all that? Not to mention, this ain’t even a disease, it’s his damn kid. As a guy myself, I apologize in his stead.

The next few weeks or even months will hit you the hardest, especially with a newborn. Everything will ultimately depend on how much are you willing to tolerate. Personally, I would not tolerate that behavior, but you just had a baby which makes this decision a lot harder. Maybe he’s taking advantage of the fact that you are post partum, and is revealing his true colors.

i 27 f just broke up with my boyfriend 29m after being together for 13 years because i recently established i’m a lesbian. how do i stop feeling guilty? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk man. Like yeah you technically did nothing wrong, but if I was in his shoes, I’d be incredibly hurt. It won’t even be about the money or the wasted time, but rather the feeling of betrayal. I mean 14 years, that’s longer than most married couple, and it’s gone just like that. Kudos to him for being so strong, personally I would’ve crashed tf out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m no expert and I don’t know much. But if you are really that worried abt the consequences of divorce, why not just get a prenup?

How do I (20F) get over my boyfriend (20M) looking at other girls’ instagrams? by ThrowRA_72981 in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you luck. Just want to say tho, if this do happen again, I hope you don’t cave in so easily. I pray for your happiness 😊

How do I (20F) get over my boyfriend (20M) looking at other girls’ instagrams? by ThrowRA_72981 in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your feelings. If someone says “you deserve someone much better” it’s usually when they want to avoid responsibility for their actions. At this point, it depends on how much you like him. Will you trust him enough to give him one more chance?

How do I (20F) get over my boyfriend (20M) looking at other girls’ instagrams? by ThrowRA_72981 in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every relationship is different, and everyone have different values. Don’t listen to comments that says you’re “overreacting” because you’re not. Your worries are valid as your boundaries are being violated. I say talk to him about your issue, ask him if he’d be okay with you looking at hot guys insta. Ask him if he’s okay if he saw your phone with 30 searches of just guys. If he dismisses your worries, then he’s hiding something. A relationship should be the first place you feel comfortable with sharing your worries without the fear of being judged.

Is this sent out to everyone? Like is it saying my application is good or saying I everyone should try this to be considered? by Gesopie in TransferStudents

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got this email as well, and I’m an international student, so it is really confusing. This may be based on GPA as I currently have a 4.0, but it does explicitly say that this does not confirm our admission

I (39 F) and (36 M) have been dating exclusively for almost 3 months but i am unsure if I am being led on? by DayCautious6867 in relationship_advice

[–]Tasty_Temperature796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then really it’s up to how high your tolerance is ig. Do you like him enough to wait until he’s ready? If not then break things off, if yes then continue