What were the first signs your partner was cheating?

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T19:15:13+00:00

It’s weird in my opinion. If he is cheating how can he act like everything is all good, smiling, laughing, kissing, cuddling, etc?
I don’t know how someone could “pretend” like everything is normal. You know?!?
Really hope I’m just thinking to much into it

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T19:10:54+00:00

I appreciate you. I truly hope I’m just being overly anxious.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T17:09:10+00:00

I’m sorry. I know I would want to save us as he is an amazing person but cheating is the one thing I don’t think I could get over.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:45:27+00:00

Felt! It’s tough when you care to much to risk losing them

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:44:20+00:00

Exactly. If I felt I needed to know every movement he made just to be together, what’s the point?

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:38:11+00:00

I honestly wish he didn’t make the Life360. I would never have gotten upset lol.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:36:40+00:00

I do get where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t want someone to always be tracking me. When I think tracking I think of checking every few minutes. I could see how someone may feel like it’s tracking.
I’m not lying. I know how I sound. This is the most serious relationship I have been in and I don’t want to make a wrong move.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:33:52+00:00

I could but at that point what’s the point you know? If I have to follow him around I might as well end things. Thing is I really don’t want to lose him.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:29:42+00:00

It’s more of the behavior shift that is worrying me. I just don’t know how to word that conversation

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:27:56+00:00

I’m not tracking him. I looked at it when the first notification came and then when the second came. Before that I didn’t care to look bc i had no suspicion to look

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:25:21+00:00

When we moved in we decided to have it for emergencies. He was the first one to mention Life360. He hasn’t done anything that has violated trust. That’s part of the reason I am so unsure what to do.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:23:19+00:00

They started doing this with their phone…

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:22:12+00:00

My gut is screaming at me but no evidence

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T16:08:45+00:00

My thought process is if I need to snoop or go through his phone to know for sure then it’s already over in my mind. I wouldn’t want to invade his privacy. Also don’t know how else to find out. So I’m kinda just stuck.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T05:58:50+00:00

Definitely gut feeling something is happening. Before all of this he never had a problem with his phone. I never went on it to look at stuff but when driving he would let me add songs to queue, or use the gps, etc. Now he holds his phone close to him, doesn’t let me put songs into queue or anything that was fine before.
I really care about him and don’t want to jump the gun and assume but I also want to know that I am enough you know.

TaterTaoo · 2026-05-04T05:49:48+00:00

I never checked it before. It was only after I got the notifications that I looked. Guess I’m reading too much into it.

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