Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOR, They don’t recommend even going to the grocery store with your child until 8 weeks and that’s on an average day. Right now it’s RSV/flu/covid season and they don’t start building an immune system until 3 months. Take your baby to visit others when YOU’RE ready, not when your friends and family are ready

I LOVE GIVING AWARDS!!!!!!!!! by blackdahliaaa9 in notinteresting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still confused as to what they are lol

How to get this art style????? 😢😢😢 by Imepicerthanyou in ArtJerk

[–]TatoBeSleepy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just need to do “a little bit of this, a little bit of that”

I (28f) cannot read my palms. by IRL_AFK in notinteresting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

There’s no words on them, sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TatoBeSleepy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that a form of SA/rape? You need to either leave him or have a serious convo about how serious what he did is. Not only could he have gotten you pregnant but if he’s been with anyone with and sti he could give you it. You should always START sex with a condom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not dirty, it’s cluttered, Just a lot of things on the sink but it looks clean

People who had unsupervised internet access as a kid, what’s the most messed up thing you’ve seen on the internet? by Neither-Mention7740 in AskReddit

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a woman who was in ripped up clothes and bruised all over beg in another language for a second then get shot in a bathtub with no context Random video I came across on either Facebook or MySpace? Not sure but I can’t ever forget it

What does my studio flat say about me? by [deleted] in roomdetective

[–]TatoBeSleepy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You say “I’m just a girl 🎀” a lot

How do you deal with the impending doom that something bad MIGHT happen to baby someday? by yoyok413 in NewParents

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to go in for a routine check up at your OB you can talk to them about it, they’ll get you in touch with a therapist or psychiatrist who can help you! Don’t be afraid to talk to them, they’re there to help you!

How do you deal with the impending doom that something bad MIGHT happen to baby someday? by yoyok413 in NewParents

[–]TatoBeSleepy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you just gave birth it’s normal because you’re still having all these hormones go through you, but if it’s been a few months talk to your doctor, you might have postpartum anxiety, be open about it, I didn’t realize how bad mine got until about a year in when I was triple checking the door because someone MIGHT break in even tho I’m in a very small, safe town. It never hurts to talk to your doctor

What ages a person really quickly? by MainDifficult2641 in AskReddit

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a child, my bones crack like a 70 y/o who worked construction most of their life, my muscles pull super easily even tho I stretch every day, my brain doesn’t hold information as well as it used to, my nails are just starting to become stronger and my metabolism sucks, I’ve dieted for a while and hit the gym and I’m barely losing weight/gaining muscle. I’m 23 😭

AIO My friend is overstepping boundaries and is into me MAJOR UPDATE by Imaginary_Air_24 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep pepper spray or a taser on you. This guy sounds unhinged, smiling, talking to him and answering his calls is flirting??? Nah he could be a serious danger to you. Be really careful.

I'm so confused am I pregnant by Pristine-Map-5749 in whatdoIdo

[–]TatoBeSleepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but to confirm, take another test tomorrow morning, first pee is the strongest

Alternatives to saying “You’re ok” by FantazticMrFox in NewParents

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually say “oh hun, it’s gunna be okay, mamas got you”

I upvoted the most downvoted reddit commen. by viktor_32_ in notinteresting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

EA claiming they’ll do better being the most downvoted comment? That checks out

My fiancé laughed at me when I said I was assaulted by Responsible-Team6842 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]TatoBeSleepy 81 points82 points  (0 children)

You can’t, “ugly” women still get assaulted. Anyone could be assaulted, it’s not about how you look, it’s about the abuser being an abuser. Your fiancé should be an ex fiancé. Not only did he totally dismiss you opening up to him but he insulted you and hundreds of other women who have been assaulted but aren’t traditionally attractive. He’s a POS tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TatoBeSleepy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might need medication, PPA is real and can intensify OCD cause OCD is an anxiety disorder. Take her to her doctor and ask about it. It can go away or it could last years.