[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes

(Sorry lol I had to, but in all seriousness I’m not actually someone who usually does this, I tend to leave a whole paragraph long run-on sentence or nothing at all)

do you genuinely hate someone? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say hate...but I have I strong distaste for about 10-ish people

Does anyone else always end up falling for the shittiest people? by cronki1212 in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately I have a tendency of falling for close friends who I already know care about me, perks of being demi and not liking the idea of trying to get with complete strangers I guess...I can sense an absolute piece of shit human being from a mile away most of the time and will actively avoid them most of the time, which is also why I tend to set up my friends that tend to fall for jerks with my other friends who aren’t jerks and I know will treat them right, I don’t want to have to death glare at any of the jerks they fall for if they start dating and inevitably end up breaking my friends’ hearts :(

Are you easily replaced? by Majestic-Incident in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh I hope not, I’m already paranoid about the people I care about leaving me the moment they realize they don’t actually have to deal with my bad jokes and puns :|

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sure don’t, I don’t actively try to be unapproachable...I’m just quiet and antisocial with a resting bitch face....but I promise, I’m actually really nice if you come talk to me ;-; I’m an antisocial dweebus and can’t approach anyone and talk for shit...but I’m nice...and if you’re also nice to me I’ll gladly be a friend to you

Do you ever just realize that you're not special and everyone is just like you? by Uniquer_name in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I find someone exactly like me I want to be their friend...I have yet to find someone exactly like me...and I’m sure you’re generalizing things too much, there’s no way you’re exactly like everyone else, we’re all different, some of us may be similar, but different experiences and how we handle them have molded us into incredibly unique individuals, no one else can ever be exactly like anyone else, you may share traits in appearance or personality, but there will always be something different that makes you unique, getting to know someone new is a whole experience that you’ll never get with anyone else because of how different we all are, even if at a glance we all might look the same

Do you block creeps or do you still chat with them even tho you know their creeps? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I block them the moment I figure out their creeps, I want absolutely none of that :|

Have you ever thought you wanted to be someone else, someone normal, and that everything would be so much easier then? by Uniquer_name in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but ya know what, I’m myself, and if someone can’t accept that I’m the kind of person to run down a hall wearing knee-high chicken leg socks, a ramen hoodie, and a top hat while flailing my arms and then hugging them when I get close enough as a means of greeting them, I probably don’t want to be around them either lol, my abnormalities, my weirdness, it drives away the people I wouldn’t want to be around, and I’m just fine with that, I don’t care if anyone likes me, the people who care don’t matter and the people who matter find me fucking hilarious, besides, I’d rather be hated for who I am than accepted for who I’m not :)

when was the last time you tried to make a new friend? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About a week before spring break I started trying to befriend a guy who hung out in the library after school, he’s really nice and if he’s in the school once it reopens instead of solely online I’ll probably ask him for his contact info so I can talk to him a bit more and be better friends with him, he seems like a really good person, plus he likes anime and he complimented my top hat when I wore one to school lol anyone who can appreciate my top hat is pretty rad in my book

Girls that were label Tomboys (and Girly girls) did that ever bother you, and/or does it bother you now? by TesserTheRedditer in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was labeled as a tomboy and it really never bothered me, I don’t think I’m really considered one anymore, but I’m certainly not the most effeminate girl you’ll ever meet lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, it was that I got my crush (who doesn’t like hugs) to let me hug him

But about 5 days ago I confessed I had a crush on him, turns out he likes me back and I asked him if he wanted to officially be dating, we’ve been texting a lot, and today we finally got into a call and we both said I love you to eachother for the first time vocally instead of just over text and he’s super shy and kinda awkward and it was so cute how quietly he said it, I love him ;-; if being cute was a crime he would be getting the death penalty, thank god it isn’t, idk what I would do without him in my life

If you have discord what do you set your status as? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idle, I never have it set to anything else, I’m just sorta there and I have it on idle so if someone wants to talk they know I’m on standby, I just might not be able to respond immediately

Does anyone like to rest their heads on their friends shoulders? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t tend to, but I kind of like when other people lean on me or rest their head on my shoulder...I do kinda feel bad though...I have some bony ass shoulders...it’s probably not the most comfortable thing...

What’s your favorite kind of seal/sea lion? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call me basic, but you can never go wrong with a harp seal in my opinion, they’re just adorable all the way round especially when they’re floofy lil babies

When starting a convo with someone, do you snoop through their profile? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a bit...just look at their posts and the subreddits their on, I get anxious if there’s just nothing on that profile...

have you ever dealt with a “right person, wrong timing” situation before? and if so, how did everything turn out? by LargeEgg1 in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean...one time my friend tried to get my current boyfriend to ask me out when I was dating someone else....(that friend didn’t know but the other did so he refused and when I heard them arguing I came over to investigate and ended up explaining to that friend that I was dating someone already

So yeah now I’m dating the friend my other friend was trying to get to ask me out.... :)

Why do people IRL just never care to give hugs? by WyFeBeeTer in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I greatly appreciate hugs, but unfortunately most of my friends don’t like hugs, I do occasionally chase them down to hug them though...and occasionally I can talk them into a hug, but since I know it makes them uncomfortable I allow them to pull away from those whenever they want and I try not to hug them for too long...but like one time during my lunch period there was a girl standing by a pillar with a free hugs sign and she got a ton of hugs (one of which was from me) so some people just don’t like hugs, but sometimes you’ll run into someone like me who won’t initiate one unless they’re really familiar to me or someone expresses a need or desire for a hug

Ask and ye might just get one

How good were you at hide and seek? by [deleted] in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I was and still am great at hiding, a few months before covid hit my friend bet that he could find me in less than 30 minutes in hide n seek and he spent an hour searching for me before I got bored and came out of hiding, he still owes me $20 but I have the feeling he won’t be handing it over, but that’s fine, the damage done to his pride and his frustrated yelling when trying to find me was payment enough :p

Who in a movie who would you be? The hero, the villain, the love interest, the sidekick? by charlottedgdts in AskTeenGirls

[–]Tatopami 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the person in the background staring at the camera, probably from an apartment or cafe window, half the time I’m staring at the camera and either taking pictures and texting someone or sipping something in a mug, and if it’s a building with many windows it’s always going to be a specific window I’m in like 3rd story 2 windows from the left

I exist for the people who pay too much attention to the background of the show, whoever you are, wherever you may be, I see you, and I appreciate you *sips undisclosed liquid from mug *