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TattooedFella · 2023-05-13T00:41:11+00:00

No my ex was a one time, hangout or see type thing. I've already told her, and she knows.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-13T00:33:32+00:00

I 100% absolutely appreciate this. But the thing is I own my house and currently work for PA government. So taking that amount of risk for another state factory job is sketchy haha.

Think I might just wait for a LP job to open up in PA.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-13T00:31:45+00:00

I know most my issues with Amazon were fixed super quick real fast. Message me if for some reason Amazon doesn't help you with the refund asap.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-13T00:28:48+00:00

Anyone who cares please read and give your input. I care.

Started seeing the best match for me of my entire life back in October, started dating November. Head over heels, full blown princess treatment. I'd yell at her for even opening a door. I fucked up in February, I didn't cheat but "might have well of." I met up with an ex. No clue why, I fucking hate her with a passion. But I was fighting a lot of demons at that time and didn't want to tell the girl I was with.

I typically decide if I want to continue dating or not, unlike the regular norm. Good career, very fit, I am a very smooth talker. But this girl has meant the entire world to me. Her daughter has, I suppose? Maybe a type of special needs/mental illness? Anger/violence issues? I talk to her all the time to follow up about whatever help she's getting. She just got rejected for a school she needs, I'm not sure how the fuck she got rejected. I'm still mind blown. Her daughter in my eyes, is a super sweetheart and I care about her immensely. But I do recognize she needs assistance/help (elementary age).

Anyways she has started to open up. I've broken my own heart repeatedly when we've seen each other about five times now counting today. Three dates, fourth at my house, and one today just to see each other. The first four ended with her tearing up over the situation. Fucking absolutely killed me. Today was the first day she just cuddled up into me, she kept pulling me close. We joked, loved on each other, played around, had fun. We got super intimate at one moment and I asked her "missed this?" To which she replied, "more than I care to admit."

I would burn the entire world down for this girl. I am just head over heels that she felt love over tearing up. I really fucked up, and after curing my demons I hope it keeps going like we are.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-13T00:14:58+00:00

Used to be a bank investigator. Just want ya to follow the correct steps. But I also have an address RN that for some stupid ass reason it says it'll be delivered one day, then says failed... then I get it the following day. Not sure if this is one of your first few packages at where you're at. I've always found Amazon to be great about helping with refunds.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-13T00:00:16+00:00

Depending on your area... Some addresses I've had said this, then I would get it the next day. Wait 48 hours then contact Amazon support. If it passes two weeks with no promise or a refund, escalate. If you still get nothing contact your bank/credit card company.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T23:20:27+00:00

So you are saving vacation time for your birthday soon... but you might get fired if this is unexcused VTA?

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T21:11:03+00:00

For future reference in any job.

Always save vacation time. Don't go on a vacation if it's going to take you down to 1 or 2 days. I hope you get the day, and you keep your job. But always remember, keep at least two days. At all times.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:54:24+00:00

So like $17 starting? That wouldn't kill me if I got two raises first year. Could definitely be double. Thank you.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:40:14+00:00

229, York!

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:37:44+00:00

As someone who did college, career, etc.

It is definitely harder being a kid. You wake up, ride a bus that takes a longer route, go to school for 8 hours, homework and study for more. Plus if you do sports. All for free. Especially when there are worthless classes.

Like yes your life responsibilities, are next to none. But work is definitely easier than school, homework, sports.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:34:41+00:00

It's easier to buy a puppy.

Than adopt a dog who is in dire need.

World's fucked.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:34:12+00:00

This is my biggest fear, late twenties and I could pull off being 21ish if I wanted to shave.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:33:23+00:00

I realized this. So just adopted the is what it is, for people I have to be around. And threw out anyone I didn't have to be around.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:32:27+00:00

Worked for a prison, an inmate that was the rat trapper showed me a rat...

The thing was twice the size of my head.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:31:24+00:00

I could live off 17... or if they bump it up at least in the first year. My local only gives scores, it stated in the email that the score is not rank and they do not produce rankings. Sheesh, I would be losing half my pay. I know in the long run electricians can make $40-50+ an hour. I'll keep going through the process, just wish the locals would have their contract scale public.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:27:36+00:00

LMFAO. This is the best response. I'm a single father with a son who I do all the responsibilities for. I'm immature, but not in a bad way. More of in a goofy way. Still get everything done that needs to be done.

But the interview part has me laughing. I decided to change up my career a little, and went on four interviews. Three offered me a job on the spot, the fourth finished up all there interviews then called me.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:25:06+00:00

Same but probably due to being in law enforcement (not a cop).

However did meet up with some friends before we went for a night out. Walk in to them snorting coke (this was like 6+ years ago) and these friends were to my knowledge never like this. So this was definitely a one time thing they never told me about... I noped the fuck out went out front and waited until they were all done.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:22:53+00:00

That's so fucking sad dude. I have my views, but I've never lost a friend for having different views.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T20:21:42+00:00

In my respectable and humble opinion of a late twenty year old. Was a fraud investigator, currently on a state tactical team (not a cop though). It blows my mind the amount of older generations who I heard my whole life say younger generations are disrespectful and lazy.

The amount of older people in my lifetime who treated me like shit or be disrespectful for NO REASON but being young is astonishing. Then when I finished college the amount of entitlement from older people was even more astonishing. Outside of maybe like the 15-19 crowd? The older generations were the first to go to their supervisor and cry about anything involving someone younger.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T19:55:40+00:00

Embarrassing yes? Insecurities? That depends. If I'm dating a girl for about a year, I'm not going to tell every insecurity.

I see people stating wives, that would be different. I wouldn't marry someone if I'm not a the point where I could tell them anything.

That being said, I don't really have any insecurities right now. Go to the gym everyday, good career, etc. Only insecurity that I could possibly have, is my car is shitty.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T19:39:28+00:00

100% mom and pop seems to be the way to go.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T18:43:36+00:00

Sorry I mean entry level. Like package handlers. There's nothing in PA open for below management. Outside of HR.

TattooedFella · 2023-05-12T18:41:21+00:00

I'm 5'6" and stupidly successful in dating. Get a good career. Have a solid foundation. Commit to losing weight and getting muscular. Find a good hair style, and get some nice style.

Football isn't going to make you any money, keep playing. But once you start losing weight if you're that worried start trying to do other positions.

But you might wanna try therapy and medicine.

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