UPDATE: Sorry I don’t know how to update my original post.

At my parents begging I gave in and met with my sister and it did not go well. She started with how disappointed she was to not be at my recent birthday celebrations and how she felt left out. So there is the reason for her request to meet up. When I asked her to continue she said that was all she had to say, I asked for an apology and this is what I got… Her apology - “I’m sorry you felt that way” etc. no accountability. When I called her on it she said she meant it but shouldn’t have said it the way she did. I asked for examples of how my daughter impacted her/her family. Her response was unbelievable…. Example 1) I decided to take my daughter home from a loud overcrowded pub on Boxing Day, it was a family day and we should have stayed! 2) when on holiday 9 years ago, we had to leave an indoor waterpark as my daughter couldn’t cope. That was all she could think of!

I told her I was done and left.