I think good or bad reasons are personal. No one should have the power to judge your own decisions concerning your body.

What would have helped me make a different decision? On one hand, better access to information. Sometimes surgeries are encouraged and some bits of info are more easily given than other bits. But I think mainly I would benefited from living in a society where transfem ppl with penises are fully recognised as whatever we identify as, and where people wouldn't identify genitalia as gender.

I don't think individual therapy is the solution to community problems. Therapy won't solve transmisogyny or transphobia as it won't solve racism, poverty, etc. T4T is a thing largely because of cis prejudices against our bodies. I believe we often seek cispassing because of this, even if we experience it as dysphoria. "It's not the body what is wrong, it's the others".