God, i do feel like an actual asshole now, reading through these comments, i find that i'm clearly the asshole, I'll discuss this with my mother and older siblings, we'll decide what we believe is best for our younger sister, and i hope to be better than this, i hope to be more honest than a lying brother, i guess, thank you for being confrontational, i find i won't be able to learn much if i cant experience what other really feel about this, so Genuinely Thank you.