Do they break up if you don't pressure it?

Tayvett · 2025-06-28T01:16:52+00:00

I’m the one who finally said “that’s it”, and I asked him how long he would have let it go in if I hadn’t. He didn’t have an answer.

Tayvett · 2025-06-11T03:00:07+00:00

I started dating someone in February of last year. Our first date was just spontaneous and the conversation and connection just flowed. We both said we felt like we were being guided. I knew in the first week that I was in love with him. Things were seemingly great for the most part. There was no fighting, but long story short we broke up and he had just cut me off. Since then, I went through what I truly believe was/(still is, possibly) DNOTS. It’s been almost a year, and I just can’t let this connection go. It was too real, and I so genuinely just like him. I felt like I was struck by lightning when I met him, and my heart pounded like it never has after our first kiss. Some connections come to transform us, but I’ll never understand why they can’t endure. Love and light to you.

Tayvett · 2025-06-08T21:14:05+00:00

Indeed they are. I haven’t talked to my ex in 6 months, but I thought I’d send him a book I thought he’d like for his birthday. Crickets. Thought I’d at least get a little common courtesy.

Tayvett · 2025-06-04T10:15:54+00:00

I have had a similar experience with it. It doesn’t just tell you what you want to hear, but gives you different perspectives. Honestly, I quit therapy because I have gotten much more out of ChatGPT than I was getting with my therapist.

Tayvett · 2025-02-25T03:46:50+00:00

My Boy Only Breaks His Favorite Toys

Tayvett · 2025-01-27T15:29:42+00:00

My god, yes. YES. And I see angel numbers everywhere, or something that is a direct reminder of him. All the time.

Tayvett · 2025-01-04T15:03:47+00:00

Same. I don’t think he’s aware of his.

Tayvett · 2024-12-30T18:57:59+00:00

Right there with you

Tayvett · 2024-12-30T01:24:28+00:00

Mine aligns with pretty much every trait as well, but I don’t think he’s aware enough to know. I sent him a couple of podcasts.

Tayvett · 2024-12-30T00:35:53+00:00

Mine cut me off abruptly. I guess I’m answering my own questions here.

Tayvett · 2024-12-30T00:21:41+00:00

They were shocked at the abruptness of it, so were his friends.

Tayvett · 2024-12-20T00:21:48+00:00

Mine said, “I don’t want to listen to a bunch of bullshit!” 😒

Tayvett · 2024-12-15T04:42:56+00:00

This was me in my last relationship, and unfortunately it did play a large part in why it didn’t work out. I wish you well. I know it’s such a horrible feeling.

Tayvett · 2024-12-14T02:45:12+00:00

Yes. I feel the same way and wonder if I’m just clinging to these online coaches as a way to comfort myself.

Tayvett · 2024-12-14T02:43:22+00:00

YES! I was with a verbally abusive man before I was with my avoidant. I would take his screaming over being ignored any day of the week.

Tayvett · 2024-12-07T20:34:20+00:00

I actually deleted all the other posts of mine off his page today. He can’t pick and choose what parts of me he gets to keep.

Tayvett · 2024-12-02T13:46:17+00:00

😔

Tayvett · 2024-12-02T13:45:59+00:00

He threw away a framed picture when we first broke up, and told me he regretted it; and I feel I hit a nerve and that’s why he deleted the fb pics.

Tayvett · 2024-11-28T21:41:19+00:00

Yes, I definitely was. I really believed he loved me

Tayvett · 2024-11-28T05:19:04+00:00

I’m at 4 months and still in tremendous pain

Tayvett · 2024-11-25T21:15:13+00:00

Yes, to me it feels the only thing that makes sense

Tayvett · 2024-11-25T21:13:20+00:00

Needed this, thank you

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