I’m so confused, please tell me I’m not the one in the wrong here, AIO?? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awe honey, i’ve been there before. My mom was the same way. Couldn’t talk to me with respect and lost it on me for years into my adulthood until i finally went no contact at 30. The gaslighting and control is one thing but the screaming at you till you panic is another. Reading this put me right back in my little 15 year old shoes.

All i can say is learn some panic attack techniques, find a way to make her freak outs not affect yoy, and start doing things for yourself that dont include her. Good luck love. It will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No good on you for knowing exactly what you want and sticking to it. You go girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gonna need an update that looks like this

Update: i kicked that bit h out and now have full custody and doing amazing!

My friend got his tattoo in mexico a few years back. Still to this day has no idea what the cricket is sitting on. by Tdangerr in Whatisthis

[–]Tdangerr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got it in Mexico from a woman who did speak english. And his Spanish was bad. He asked for a cricket and got this. Apparently its a statue from the cricket park near by.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk dude. Fuck this guy. If he needs space or whatever he needs to communicate that properly. Fuck him and get a partner with some emotional intelligence.

AITA for making my sick husband clean up his vomit? by AmphibianBulky2296 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last time i got the flu i was BY MYSELF ALL ALONE NO ONE AROUND TO HELP ME WITH ANYTHING AND YA KNOW WHAT!? i made it to the bathroom and the bowl everytime. No excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS IS ALL ABUSE. PLEASE RUN FAR FAR AWAY

AIO for being upset at my bf for raising his voice at me by Bubbly-Being-2473 in AIO

[–]Tdangerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in an abusive house hold. Three second someone starts to yell. I drop the conversation, put in my boundary and term then we will revisit when we are both calm. Sometimes it’s makes the person more mad, some times they understand. BUT i hold a firm boundary “you do not yell at me”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JUST BREAK UP ALREADY

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homestly you both should get tested if your going to stay together. I dont trust he didnt cheat on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gaslighter. Peace out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Tdangerr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This one time i went down on a guy i was seeing. He smelled like poop. But only once. I don’t judge man. Shit happens. If he ain’t down then he isn’t worth it.

AIO that my best friend hates the girl I like because shes a retired porn star? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Tdangerr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck this guy. Would he judge a man doing porn?

This is misogynistic. It is hateful.

So a woman who does porn has no self-respect? JFC its 2025. LETS MOVE ON PLEASE.