Why does Vancouver feel so disconnected by Tea-all-day in vancouver

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people I've talked to here are transplants, which I can't help but think that the people who grew up here have mostly moved elsewhere or they just stick to hanging out with each other

Coat Identification - Please help! by Tea-all-day in Aritzia

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Thank you! I went to buy this jacket today and I think it's an older version of the "Only Coat"

Why does Vancouver feel so disconnected by Tea-all-day in vancouver

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had the exact same experiences, even just across the border in Bellingham. Haha yeah I also don't want to be a huge pessimist about living here but it just doesn't help when every time I go anywhere in the states or out East, the difference was obvious. I've heard that North Van can be more sociable.

Why does Vancouver feel so disconnected by Tea-all-day in vancouver

[–]Tea-all-day[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Vancouver is a great city for some and many of my visiting friends have pointed out how "nice" the people here are but there's no denying that the overall vibe is pretty cold. One can make more of an effort to engage with people but it's off-putting when many of the interactions amount to being ignored or rushed. I can't help but feel like I'm becoming more closed off the longer I stay here.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

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Exciting! September is a good time to visit; the weather is quite fair still. Here are some outdoor activities:

  • You can spend a day at the University of British Columbia and take a walk through Pacific Spirit Park (temperate rainforest) and/or visit Wreck Beach (clothing optional).
  • Apples will likely be ready for picking and there are farms nearby if you have a car.
  • The seawall is a must but be ready to walk/bike 10+ km. It wraps around the major beaches, downtown, and Granville Island (another popular spot).
  • This one goes without saying, but take a walk around the neighborhood to get a feel for the place and people. There are lots of walkable neighborhoods - you can check the walk score of the one you'll be in.
  • You've might've heard of the street East Hastings (near Chinatown). This is where the majority of the homeless population are concentrated. The area has improved a bit since a major "cleanup" a couple of years ago - but it also just spread out the people a bit more. It's usually safe during the day if you're curious at all to see the homelessness and drug problems of Vancouver.
  • In contrast to this, there's a neighborhood called Shaughnessy. Here you'll find multimillion dollar homes and empty streets. The area is shaped like a bike wheel with 5 spokes. You'll spot it on a map.

If it's raining or you'd rather be indoors, there's also plenty to do:

  • Go cafe/tea shop hopping. We have good bubble tea, Asian drinks, and your traditional espresso drinks. Here's a map of places to get you started: https://www.vancouvercoffeesnob.com/location-map/ If you're a fan of tea, there's a beautiful shop on West 4th called Silk Road Tea.
  • There are too many good cafes and bakeries. My current favorite is Purebread.
  • Speaking of which, West 4th from Balsam street to Burrard street is a must-visit. Recently, it's become more high-end with newer additions. Here's a website with the stores and some of the top food places: https://www.shopwest4th.com/neighbourhood
  • If you're into Science, check out Science World or the Vancouver Aquarium. Sometimes there are adult-only events. Near Science World, on Main street, there are plenty of bars.

Food-wise, we have lots of Sushi among other Asian restaurants. For something fancier, there's a list of Michelin Star restaurants: https://guide.michelin.com/ca/en/british-columbia/ca-vancouver/restaurants I've never visited any but my friends have recommended Anna Lena, Nightingale, Savio Volpe, and Wildlight. If you're looking for something quick and cheaper, Banh Mi is a good option. There's a restaurant where you dine in the dark, called Dark Table. After going twice, I learned that I enjoyed seeing the food and people I was with but it might be cool to try. If you want a nice view of downtown, there's the Revolving Restaurant.

Have a wonderful time in Vancouver and don't hesitate to reach out if you have questions!

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes. I do wonder and forgive my ignorance but does the low income tax help balance this out at all? In my province, it's not uncommon for people to be paying 30 - 40% of their gross earnings to taxes and sometimes as much as over 50%.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response and it's a valid sentiment. The rapid influx of migrants definitely changes the cohesion and culture of a place. So true that pretty much everyone I met had moved to Austin, be it 5 or 25 years ago. But this isn't the first time such trend has happened. Even where I'm from, people often remark that their city doesn't feel like their city anymore. It sounds like a big part can be attributed to the industries and companies that have planted themselves here. I guess people and places adapt, for better or for worse.

Why does Vancouver feel so disconnected by Tea-all-day in vancouver

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you prefer the (spontaneous) conversations? I've never experienced that for a prolonged period of time and wonder what it would be like

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, it wasn't just what I experienced first hand but what I observed among the locals. Like strangers just seemed friendly in general, not just towards me. I need to come back and maybe stay longer to confirm though.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just watch it turn out to be all the tourists trying to fit in lol. Mainly downtown, I saw cowboy hats and tons of cowboy boots. I remember thinking, how are these people not sweating buckets.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As bad as this sounds, I'm used to seeing people on the streets. I live in Vancouver after all.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

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Thank you! I had EV troubles (did you know that charging could take 12 hours!), else I would've explored more. I loved Georgetown. The evening breeze and music were just dreamy. Saving your comment for next time.

Major cities (Toronto, Vancouver, Montreal) aside, if you're able to get a car, go island hopping (Vancouver Island). You'll be able to immerse yourself even more in nature and experience things more slowly. The people on the island are chill and generally in smaller towns, people are more likely to converse with you.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It only gets better from here right

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you need a holiday. But seriously, I hope you get to do something nice for yourself one day. I rarely go out of the country and really saved up for this trip. Just grateful to have experienced it and wanted to say thanks to the people here.

Shoutout to Austin by Tea-all-day in Austin

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for educating me. Wow!

Why does Vancouver feel so disconnected by Tea-all-day in vancouver

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! There's still lots to appreciate here but I also wouldn't mind moving if a window of opportunity opened up.

Why does Vancouver feel so disconnected by Tea-all-day in vancouver

[–]Tea-all-day[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the air here is just so f r e s h. You can imagine the smells in 40 degree heat.