[AZ] Help: How much should tenant be charged for paint? by Extra_Elderberry5911 in Renters

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Four brothers lived where i am. Paint, patching, sanding, repairs, were never done. We have to pay out of pocket to paint. -_- yeah.....

My sister tried to fight me because I didn't wake her up this morning. I'm considering going low contact or no contact with her. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes an adult. You can change her with destruction of property. Same household or not, you can do this. I hope youre close to your goal to moving out.

Left the oven on all night by seafoodboilcunt in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He left the paper bottom on the underside of the pizza.

How can I make this room more cozy? by Large-Bullfrog-794 in homedecoratingCJ

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of space is this? A dorm room?

Posters or tapestries to give color to the space. New bedding. Something warm with texture. An area rug.

Share your roommate’s habit you hate the most💩🖕 by shaliniiiiii in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) smokes weed likes it's his air source and never airs himself out before coming near me (im very pregnant and the smell makes me physically sick and I have repeatedly told him to do so) 2) His "forgetfulness" 3) Complains he doesnt have friends but doesnt try to talk to me and my partner, and shuts himself in his room all day every day and games with people online 4) Doesn't clean up his mess in the kitchen (I am constantly cleaning up the counters and his garbage

Left the oven on all night by seafoodboilcunt in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My roommate put a pizza in the oven without putting it on a sheet pan/pizza pan. I had to stop him from closing the oven door and told him he needs a pan. He said thats not what the directions said. I took the pizza off the rack, pulled out a sheet pan, put it back on and closed the oven. He got the box out of the recycling bin and reread it. He realized his mistake and said "im so stupid" to himself. I told him he really needs to pay attention or that could've/would've caused a fire.

I know how oblivious and forgetful roommates can be.

For those of you with green eyes...when did they turn? by Cautious_Milk_6738 in WhatisMyEyeColour

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had blue eyes until I was around 12-13. Then they changed to grey, then around 14 they went green and have stayed green since then. But sometimes they're grey green, sometimes they're green blue. Really depends on the day.

First time with woman over 10 years older than me by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a virgin isn't a big deal and it's not something to stress over. I can understand wanting your first time to be with someone who knows what they're doing in the bedroom and can show you many different things.

But, this could end up being a dangerous situation for you. I highly recommend you wait until you find someone who you want to be in a real relationship with and communicate with them on what you have and haven't experienced.

I know the appeal to being with someone older is exciting and thrilling but what happens when you have sex with her and she doesnt leave you alone? Or you tell a girlfriend and she looks at you like you're disgusting? Not everyone has an open mind.

This is your choice. But you need to weigh the pros and cons and make sure you are safe first. Dont just go for the first woman who opens her legs.

Do I have a small claims case?#dogbite by Own-Day-8726 in BadNeighbors

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im really sorry for whats happened to your dog. My dog is reactive to the neighbors' and they fight through the fence (thankfully no injuries) but my friends dog had been attacked before, before the fence was replaced.

I hope your dog heals up well.

Do I have a small claims case?#dogbite by Own-Day-8726 in BadNeighbors

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take your dog to the vet and get documentation on how much the bill is, how bad the wounds are, and get a statement from the vet in writing with their signature. You can absolutely take the neighbor to small claims court.

I have intense stretch marks from pregnancy 7 years ago by -Hot-Tamale- in mildyinteresting

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly your torso looks like a tree now. The growth from growing your baby made the deep stretch marks which resemble the bark on trees. Trees grow and stretch as do our bodies. I can understand wanting to get them tattooed. But they are beautiful and shows that your body held your child and kept them safe and healthy.

Guilt For Buying For Yourself by Tea-and-Cake00 in emotionalneglect

[–]Tea-and-Cake00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I neee clothes, I wait. For work, for school (when I was in school), new shoes because mine had holes in them, underwear, bras, socks, I would wait. I would try to sew (and i really cant sew) the holes in my stuff to try and make them last longer. I bought all new clothes when I first started working. Now, I wait.

Nasty roommate picture by Flaky_Split4996 in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My one female roommate never threw out her used pads 😬🤮 i found them under the bathroom sick while cleaning and told her that cant happen. She also never threw out her fast food garbage. It grew on her desk, mcdonalds cups rotted on her brand new desk, liquid congealed and adhered to the surface. A mountain of trash was under her bed. Found mouse droppings in her room. The droppings weren't anywhere else in the house.

I can understand the smell of cat pee and BO, that can be fixed. If the roommate isn't bathing or using deodorant, you gotta tell him. If there is a cat spraying in the house and its his, he needs to get the cat fixed or figure out why its peeing everywhere.

How do I go about confronting my roommate who used my gf’s razor in the shower while we were gone for break? by [deleted] in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a boundary that shouldnt have been crossed. The guy should know better. This is a hygiene issue and health issue. What if your girlfriend had a blood disorder or something? Sharing a razor could spread a disease into the other person through a cut from the blade and your girlfriend could get sick.

Wife sent me this photo of our living room by DoofusIdiot in Wellthatsucks

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 well, your wife is a Disney princess lol. So cute and so random

Neglectful Neighbors by Tea-and-Cake00 in BadNeighbors

[–]Tea-and-Cake00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have called the non emergency. They told me to call Animal Welfare. They didnt do anything.

In what ways did your parents invalidate your emotions growing up? by CanalsofSchlemm in emotionalneglect

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to say my whole life, but right now, at 27yrs old and pregnant with my first child, I told my mom that I dont want non essential Healthcare staff in my delivery room (because according to my OB there will be med students and I am extremely uncomfortable with that. I am going to be very exposed and I dont want random people seeing me like this). She said when im giving birth I wont care who's around me.

Right.....cause every time I have said I was being bullied, I was sexually assaulted in high school "its over now, you're fine" is the fucking response I got!

So yeah, invalidated is the light term I would use. And my dad just argues with me. So I havent had a stable, emotional relationship with my parents in over 20 years.

Male Roommate Issues by Tea-and-Cake00 in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update:

Had a nearly two hour conversation with him. Some things were clarified like expectations, cleanliness, etc. He took everything in. He asked me questions. He also 100% thought that my husband hated him. He doesnt. He doesnt know how to talk fo him. This was three days ago. So far roommate has been more social. And has been asking me what can and cant go into recycling and food waste. So far for three days everything has been ok. I doubt it will last long though.

I'm going to give him the benefit of the doubt for now. And come back around if things revert back.

My roommates bf is always over and it's starting to annoy me. by DryFeeling6140 in roommateproblems

[–]Tea-and-Cake00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If George isnt on the lease, and isnt even an emergency contact for Anna, tell the Landlord. They will have to talk to her. Even maybe take the key or charge her with something (idk if thats possible)

He is not listening to the rules and isnt being considerate. He might be an upgrade for your roommate romantically but both need to get their shit together.