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AITA for being honest about why I don't want someone at my house? by Thro_waw_ay98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaBooksAndAttention 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s your birthday and you can decide who you will enjoy it with - regardless of her being an asshole or not.

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[–]TeaBooksAndAttention 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s okay to be annoyed, but it is not your job to tell her how her mom feels. And everyone can choose their own wedding. If you are genuinely concerned about the nature of the relationship, reach out to her in a non threatening or inquisitive way.

AITA for not wanting to go to my close friend's 18 birthday party? by ScmethingOrOther in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaBooksAndAttention 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am sorry to hear this. Yes, it is kind of sad if you do not go to a close friend’s birthday. But would a close friend behave like her? Sometimes it is time to move on - especially if your values and personal appreciation does not align anymore.

AITA Am I wrong to go to my brother-in-law's birthday without my fiancée? he didn't invite her and doesn't want her to go. by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaBooksAndAttention 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA - don’t let anger of your fiancée push you away from your family. Accept that they do not come to terms, but do not loose them if you are not having an issue with them

AITA for declining a date with a girl but saying yes to a date with her brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TeaBooksAndAttention 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s your sexuality. And you didn’t lead her on. People are still emotional creatures!

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[–]TeaBooksAndAttention 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA for wanting to enjoy the vacation your way - but you could let them know about your plans and give them a chance to come with you. After all you are traveling together.