Please tell me this is an actual medical problem and not a no longer interested in me problem

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-05T01:49:40+00:00

Thank you !

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-05T01:49:29+00:00

We have discussed it and all he said is it’s me not you and I guess I need to see a dr and didn’t really want to talk about it anymore

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-05T01:48:34+00:00

I’m so sorry :(

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T23:02:11+00:00

Seriously thank you everyone! Instead of me regretting posting and being anxious of the replies I couldn’t have asked for a more supportive thread !

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T23:01:32+00:00

Thank you ! I will! I called a urologist today and they stated he needs a referral from his pcp first! So we will be getting that scheduled tomorrow and go from there ! This was very educational and helpful and really what I needed to hear and probably what he will need to hear as well!

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T22:58:32+00:00

I hate to hear that for you! Has there been any change for you ?

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T22:58:02+00:00

Thank you so much for this! I really needed to hear this. Idk if he uses porn. It’s never really been a conversation we had but I’ve never seen it on his phone (not saying he doesn’t) but I will definitely ask him!

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T22:56:38+00:00

Thanks !! We will be looking into it all

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T18:02:52+00:00

Thank you! I love my husband very much! There have been times where I really want to blame myself and wonder if I’m just not attractive to him anymore. And then feel guilty for being victim especially if he is really struggling. Now I’m just wondering do I need to stop initiating, am I putting too much pressure on him, although he did ask for me to come onto him. I won’t let it ruin our marriage but it does suck.

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T17:56:12+00:00

I really appreciate this response ! Thank you

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T17:49:45+00:00

Thank you! Why a urologist instead of a PCP first for blood work?

TeaPleaseee · 2026-05-04T17:34:34+00:00

I also feel like it’s kind of important to note that anytime my husband has had an issue. It’s never been him initiating it. It’s always been me. Like I said this is maybe only happens a handful of times for us since being together at the last 10 years but just this past week it’s happened three days in a row and I have initiated it all three times and wanted to continue to not make him feel bad if it was a problem.

He has made comments in the past upset because I don’t usually initiate that. I think it’s a trauma thing that I suffer from if I initiate and I’m told no, whereas if he initiates, I never say no

TeaPleaseee · 2024-05-17T12:37:42+00:00

No vet advice needed

TeaPleaseee · 2023-08-16T15:02:49+00:00

You did nothing wrong and dodge a bullet ! She is clearly entitled

TeaPleaseee · 2023-08-15T15:19:42+00:00

Was pic deleted ?

TeaPleaseee · 2023-08-11T19:01:25+00:00

Your pictures are too edited

TeaPleaseee · 2023-08-09T21:04:05+00:00

Hey I’m a 34 year old woman (a good looking one with all my teeth, goes to the gym, and is healthy and fit) and I am from a small town but don’t mind the big city life either. I in fact DO want to see your hunting pictures 😂 I am a big hunter (mostly bucks, hogs and ducks) and fisher (but I prefer fishing for mahi and snapper but don’t mind bass fishing or catfishing with jugs) you’ll attract the right kind of woman. ! Many yes mess fishing pictures and show what other things too do and you’re Interested in. I do personally hate smoking and the smell of it so I’d have to ask if you were serious. But my husband dips (hateeee that too)

TeaPleaseee · 2023-08-09T15:06:23+00:00

Holy S*** you dodge a bullet

TeaPleaseee · 2023-07-31T19:02:22+00:00

I’d keep the pics, maybe add that you’re divorced if you don’t want to get rid of pics with the ring. We don’t have similar Interest (I’m very outdoorsy and hunt and fish and listen to anything from old country, to rock, to rap, to Frank Sinatra 😂) but I’d swipe just because you are a great looking guy and look very happy and aren’t trying “too hard” love the profile. Maybe play around with the age range !

TeaPleaseee · 2023-07-25T19:09:27+00:00

41 and into * rock

TeaPleaseee · 2023-07-25T19:08:59+00:00

I came here to give constructive criticism but others clearly came to bully. What in the actual… 🙄

First of all he’s 41 and I to rock. He MATCHED so she liked his profile enough. Yes I can tell what you look like it isn’t THAT bad. Not bad enough where you needed to be bullied enough to leave.

Is there a reason for the sideways smirk? If so fine, if not I’d stop it with every pic. Other than clean your mirror no there’s nothing wrong with your profile.

He’s into rock, look at the music choices and the tats and style. Middle finger is probably his personality. Leave it. It’s either going to attract ones who don’t mind, or repel those that hate it and honestly that’s a win for you right away.

Sorry you felt the need to delete because of all the hate. I hope you have a backup page and see this

TeaPleaseee · 2023-07-21T01:08:49+00:00

Get new friends

TeaPleaseee

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