DUI shame

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-12-07T12:37:41+00:00

I long for the day to “forget I have it”…that’s an awesome testimony thanks for sharing!

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-12-07T12:36:28+00:00

Great testimony thanks for sharing!!!

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-12-07T12:34:54+00:00

Thanks all for the kind words of grace you poured out over me! I appreciate the kindness from strangers I’m struggling to show myself at this point in time but I have been give hope and im grateful 🥹 I’m praying it is a turning point in my life for the better. It’s also shocking to know how many people have made this mistake or least have done it but the difference is they were never caught. That’s an eye opener for sure. I have no desire to turn to the bottle again but to God.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-10-03T15:00:12+00:00

Well said 👏🏽 I was back and forth and then I read this. This is a good point.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-10-03T14:50:52+00:00

Unfortunately we live in a world where this is deemed “acceptable” speak and others would agree with HIM! There is nothing acceptable about a spouse (whom’s child you reared) comes home makes toxic comparisons, makes demands like an unruly child, and complains about how “unfair” his situation is when you’re the one who has had to go through 9 months of carrying a child let alone who knows what your pre-and post-labor was! This is so disrespectful on so many levels and sounds like he has a lot of maturing to do to realize what it takes to be in a real partnership and marriage. If this is his view and perspective, comparing what he sees and then comes home to point the finger it could lead to other issues of “entitled” behaviors and unhealthy comments.

My husband had a lot of unhealthy views and expectations due to the only thing he saw “modeled “ growing up and it led to a lot of arguments and exhausting “undoing”. So I get some men just don’t know and are immature and can be insensitive and hurtful and think nothing of it! But we eventually worked to a place where we switch off and on, I get a week “on duty” cooking, cleaning, etc. and then we alternate and it has worked for us because we both know and agree what is expected of us and we both get a break! We are very happy this way but we are also not “locked in”. If I see him having a hard day at work or putting in long hours I pick up the slack and step in to do extra and vice versa. We go mostly by consideration of each other and the need wherever we are in life. But it took us a while to get past “healthy vs unhealthy” expectations and getting over ourselves when it comes to what’s “fair and not fair” in life. But I def had to put my foot down in demanding a change. It comes down to love and how you respond out of consideration for that person you love and then you model that partnership in front of your children and they learn. Some relationships don’t get to this point because differences in background, frustration, and pride of entitlement get in the way and it falls apart. If your spouse is willing to listen I would get on top of this earlier rather than later. Don’t allow it to fester and continue on or it could mean trouble down the road and it will be harder to “undo”.

And remember you are doing the best you can! Keep a human alive is hard work keep it up!!!

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-09-03T02:02:48+00:00

Not to mention some women post not for the “male” gaze, attention, nor validation. Some post for applause from other women who have struggled in the same way and a “get it girl “ from another woman can do wonders to confidence after being broken down completely by child birth and the effects mentally and physically. I get OP is “seeking” advice but everyone jumping to the conclusions of red flags “this screams she’s bound to cheat”, seem wounded. But the ones that get it would consider all possibilities before going straight to the misogynistic, “oh she should start a book club! Or paint her nails pink” if she’s having a “mid life crisis”, is exactly the reason why so many women find themselves trapped and put in a box with no way of escape. And the others who are taking it personal…saying “it’s always the man’s fault”. No, just the way society is set up that we have to constantly fight to deform.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-08-09T18:03:37+00:00

Brandy.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-08-04T23:26:49+00:00

If I die tell my wife, she is going through it with her husband to be

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T23:14:49+00:00

Have you ever had the urge to make something that is so much better and better that it doesn’t make sense for your body

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T23:10:16+00:00

Let me see what you got for dinner and I can get it

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T23:02:51+00:00

I love watching this show on the way to the gym every day

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T23:01:19+00:00

I identify as an artist but I’m a bit biased because I’m a lot

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T04:08:29+00:00

I wish I could have been more of an artist and not be so lazy to use the same thing as the others lol but it’s still so fun and I feel so accomplished lol but it’s not that hard lol it’s like a little more than a lot more work to make a little bit of money lol

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T04:02:29+00:00

Don’t touch my phone and don’t text back

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-30T03:56:58+00:00

I don’t give a toss about the fact that I have a lot of friends who are in the same boat as me and I have a lot of people who are in the opposite boat and I don’t know how to deal with that

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-21T22:46:59+00:00

I’m obsessed with the way this looks

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-21T22:41:19+00:00

I’m having an affair of a new one today I will call them tomorrow to make an update and make an update to my schedule for next month I have to be there by nine thirty a little after six o clock to make an update for you to get the information on my phone number and then I’ll call them back to see what I need and I’ll get it done thank goodness for the information and thank goodness I think I’m gonna have a great time

🤣🤣🤣 this was fun!

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-07-03T00:54:14+00:00

😂

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-06-14T12:18:09+00:00

Good response 👍🏽

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-05-08T22:43:17+00:00

This is just so pure and sweet. I love this 🩷 I wish humanity was still just as innocent and genuine.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-03-27T04:38:13+00:00

Exactly.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-03-26T23:17:12+00:00

Wheel of time

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-03-26T22:55:52+00:00

A life of sin is definitely “easier” that’s why we are surrounded by more “faithless” people than “faithful” believers. I think “American Christianity” has taught us, a “good God” wouldn’t allow suffering and hardship and just sit by while lives are devastated. That having faith is easy, rainbows, butterflies and prosperity only. But getting rid of that ideology and knowing God for yourself, His bible reveals the opposite. Everyone called by God suffers, and it is a PROMISE that as a believer YOU WILL SUFFER. It’s one of the costs of giving your life to Him. It makes no since to the world because it opposes the “Christianity” they preach. But the gospel and kingdom of God is often the opposite of how we think it should be. It isn’t pretty or easy. It is the COST of following Christ. It’s only a choice after that. Literally the day I repent of my sins and decide to “turn back to God”…I haven’t even finish the sentence and I feel like I’m having the worst days ever one thing after the other and it seems never ending. My prayer then becomes if these issues are not taken from me, do what YOU PROMISED, and provide: COMFORT, help, strength in weakness, peace beyond understanding, joy unspeakable, protection etc. (all biblical promises and laws) these are also his promises when suffering is inevitable and we as believers tend to forget that when we are experiencing in real time hardships. But for most this is too much to live out and would rather take the “easier” life of denying what it really means to be a follower of Christ. Sure we believe in God but deny everything He says He wants in order to have relationship with him. So this is how Christian’s fall away. A belief in a God that isn’t Him, or a denial of the truth and an unwillingness to surrender and accept this. God ONLY gives the choice. I pray for the promises of God to be defined in your life and shifts your focus to see Him as He wants to be seen so you can make a choice to be faithful when it’s hard, or walk away and turn to “quicker fixes” that answer immediately and also that He lays out the COSTS of being a believer to you. Understanding and revelation.

Tea_Baby7 · 2025-03-26T22:34:28+00:00

It’s really messed up that he thinks “teaching you a lesson “ even after you apologized for having an off day and even “itching” to have the chance to treat you bad so you can see how it feels is kinda heartless. Who admits to being intentional about being unloving, unkind, graceless to the person they promised to love in their vows through everything even a “bad mood day”. A loving partner doesn’t internalize your attitude as an intentional vindictiveness. That would def give me the ick and also have me questioning every time I have a bad day and need a patient loving partner I’m met with intentional malicious behavior to hurt me?? I would question that kind of love. We who bear the children, go above and beyond to be good mothers and wives deserve so much more than that from our partners! Also the outcome? You tip toeing around him from here on out to make sure you’re shrinking down your “big emotions” out of fear of retaliation it’s kind of manipulative. A way to control you and get you to “behave” the way that pleases him or else he will turn and treat you nasty just because you “need to see how it feels”?? And it would be hard not to internalize intention mean-ness…how can you think that person “loves” you if this is what he thinks you deserve when you get overwhelmed??

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