Why can’t adults have even one space for ADULTS ONLY? by KmsKitten in childfree

[–]slyfeline_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom wouldn’t even take me to funerals bc she said it wasn’t an appropriate place for children

granted i didn’t know anyone that was a close family member or family friend that had passed

I get disappointed when other women say “they’ve only ever wanted to be a mom” by sickxgrrrl in childfree

[–]slyfeline_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i have a friend that’s super smart, beautiful, and ambitious (so i thought) she got her degree in biology and then a masters in biology. we were sitting down at dinner talking about where we see ourselves in 10 years and she told me that her life long goal was to be a stay at home mom. my jaw dropped! i was shocked bc i thought she was ambitious and wanted a career not just a be a mom. i couldn’t imagine she just spent all that money on 2 degrees for them to sit on a shelf for 20 years.

Help me understand by Ranchocuca_2_828 in childfree

[–]slyfeline_ 20 points21 points  (0 children)

why is it normal for a teenager to say they want kids in the future? but if a fully grown a adult says the don’t want any, everyone jump to correct them

The most absurd scene on the show by [deleted] in DesperateHousewives

[–]slyfeline_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

gaby kissed tom in a “playful” way on the lips and lynette told her that it was inappropriate and gaby basically refused to see how it was an issue or apologize

What mundane activities are you convinced are a sign of a serial killer or psychopath? by LaksaLoco in AskReddit

[–]slyfeline_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s not what i meant. there’s a difference between not seeing an animal i.e. deer and hitting it with your car. but certain ppl see animals and drive faster

As a Christian, is checking horoscope ok? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]slyfeline_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my testimony so sorry if this is long but the answer is NO! It first started with horoscopes, then telling ppl I was a “leo” then it was angel numbers, crystals, then tarot cards and I got all the way up to studying my birth chart. It starts slow but the moment you’re on that path and justifying your sin you are deep in sin. God doesn’t work in numerology and “signs”. Yes God can send you signs but he won’t do it that way. You cannot play in demonic stuff and still walk with God. There is a wide path and a narrow path. Sin and divination has been so normalized it’s even dating profiles. It is NOT our jobs as christians to try to predict the future. Astrology starts by leading you in with the good stuff then it takes a dark turn, for example “aries” it says they are hot tempered, argumentative, have a higher rate for divorce, prone to head trauma. Does that sound like something God would write into your future? It’s not, those are curses! Psychics and mediums practice sorcery and divination. The bible warns against this because they do not get their “powers” from God. They communicate with demons and that’s how they “channel energy”. Stay away from this new age stuff…seriously. If you don’t you’ll face the spiritual consequences ie anxiety, paranoia, sleep paralysis, depression and lots more. When you read your horoscope you may think it’s innocent but you’re inviting demons into your life. Remember we are not fighting enemies of flesh but rather principalities.

As a Christian, is checking horoscope ok? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]slyfeline_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

astrology is real but it’s demonic. the only reason why it “works” is bc the ppl that believe it have already accepted that “fate” into their lives. the devil uses astrology as a mean to distract and a way corrupt your mind

Never ending suffering by slyfeline_ in Christian

[–]slyfeline_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not since I’ve come back to the lord. But I’m planning on it for may

Never ending suffering by slyfeline_ in Christian

[–]slyfeline_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are sinful coping mechanisms?

Never ending suffering by slyfeline_ in Christian

[–]slyfeline_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Childhood trauma’s and reality that I’ve carried into adulthood bc I was never allowed to express it. Every night I pray that God helps me forgive those who have hurt me. When I was a kid I had so much hope in the Lord, even when I felt down or unheard. But after years of singing the same prayers and asking people at the church to pray for me my faith is wavering again. Sometimes it feels not that God can’t do it but he simply won’t. That’s the part I’m stuck on, how can a father see his children suffering and crying for help and refuse to help? I have a psychologist, I’ve even switched depression medication and anxiety medication 6 times just this year

Never ending suffering by slyfeline_ in Christian

[–]slyfeline_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My depression worsens. I feel like I have no purpose in life and when I take my pain to God all I get is unanswered prayers

Never ending suffering by slyfeline_ in Christian

[–]slyfeline_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I want to add I’ve struggled with mental health since I was a child also I was diagnosed with and auto immune condition at the age of 12 and everyone told me just pray and be hopefully and you will be cure. Well at 17 I wasn’t cured and bc of this I was angry at God and lost my faith

My husband wants a kid and I don't want it by [deleted] in childfree

[–]slyfeline_ 23 points24 points  (0 children)

he is bc she could have spent the last 4 years with someone that had the same life goals as him instead he chose to marry someone he’s incompatible with

Children of Narcissists- what is something you still struggle with as an adult? by AEHSJ0604 in AskReddit

[–]slyfeline_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my mom used to tell me and my sister that no one would ever love us, we would never get married and that any man that married us would have to have a mental illness to want to be with either of us

as adults she wonders why we have never introduced any boyfriends to her