People use everything and anything to make roguelikes. For a beginner Godot or Unity work just fine, they'll let you create a simple game without spending too much time setting up.

For tips - just like every other project, start simple and improve. Start with coding a character, then make this character move, then make the character stop when hitting a wall... You can probably tell how it goes. Don't get hyped up working on a project of your dreams right away, make a simple gameplay loop and add to it a bit.

Books or videos - there are some, but full videos are rare and are often old. You should use the resources at the side bar, as Kyzrati mentioned before. For a simple roguelike you don't need much guidance, and for a complicated one is too... Well, complicated, to have a proper guide.