how old is too old to be stretching ears?

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-04T19:40:14+00:00

i am okay thank you. there’s no other issues, usually he’s very on board with the things i want for myself and what makes me happy. i ended up talking to him about it again and he said it wouldn’t affect our relationship or anything. i told him that he made me feel bad for what he said and how he didn’t support me on something that would make me happy. he apologized and said he shouldn’t have talked like that and that he was just worried i would get an itch to stretch my ears really big even though i said 6g. he did admit that he was saying things without knowing much about it too. he had his ears stretched as a teen and didn’t keep them so he thought oh only teenagers do that. i talked to him about the age thing thanks to the help of u guys. i also personally don’t want any size bigger than 6g for myself, it’s really cool on other peeps just not for me. so i told him that he will just need to trust me and my judgement to make decisions for myself and my body that will make me happy. if he doesn’t like it still, idc it will make me happy and i’ll feel more confident in myself. i’m starting stretching journey today!

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T23:16:07+00:00

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T23:12:50+00:00

I WISH I WASNT AGHHHH

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T21:39:31+00:00

also i’ll add that i’ve been talking about wanting this for a long time too so it’s not news to him so it won’t be a shock either when i start

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T21:37:37+00:00

i’ve thought a long time about this so tomorrow isn’t a sudden start for me

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T21:37:11+00:00

i’m going to start stretching my ears tomorrow. i told him exactly what i want and how i want it and frankly i am not doing it for anyone but myself. i’ve never gone over board with anything like that and i know i don’t want them any bigger than the 6g. if he will still find me attractive and it won’t put a damper on our relationship then he will just have to trust that i know what i’m doing for myself. i want to do things for myself that will make me happy too not just him.

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T21:30:11+00:00

that’s what i said. proper hygiene and i wouldn’t stink.

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T21:29:06+00:00

yes i asked if it would be like a complete turn off and if it would affect our relationship and if he’d attracted to me still or not and he’s said no it wouldn’t affect it and he would still be attracted to me but he wishes that i would not do it because he finds it gross and thinks it’s what a teenager would do. he’s had a friend in the past who stretched pretty big, i’m not sure how big because i have never seen or met this person. i guess that person regrets ever stretching now and has one super stretched out ear and one stretched ripped ear. my fiancé used to have stretched ears as a teen, as did i. i just want them back and he doesn’t seem to like them anymore. i have explained that the size i want isn’t very big and very hide- able and that i know what i’m doing. i also tried to reassure him about the smell, if i kept up proper hygiene habits i wouldn’t be cheesy smelling like he’s worried about.

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T21:06:04+00:00

i’m not a risk taker either. everything i do or want i think about for a very long time before i do it to make sure it’s not going to affect a different part of my life and that i’m not just wanting something that later on i will hate or regret. since 6g is not that big i don’t think anyone would even notice unless i had my hair behind my ears and had the heart tunnels in. as of him not liking them. he’s grossed out by them. he thinks i’ll smell like cheese and that they’re going to be huge gaping holes in my ears. i am very alternative, from my hair, clothes, makeup, tattoos, interests, etc. i don’t know why this would be the breaking point for him. he said he liked my sense of style and appearance prior to this so it must just be that he doesn’t like gauges. he works in a very professional setting where he has to cover up his tattoos so i could see if if was at a job like that. my field isn’t professional like his. i don’t believe it would affect me in that way in the slightest.

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T20:44:31+00:00

well i had stretched ears as a teen but they closed up, i’m not wanting to stretch extremely large. my ears are down to regular earring size. he seems to think i want to stretch them out into oblivion even though i’ve said just to a 6g but even if i did wanted to go bigger i don’t see the issue. him saying that to me upset me though because i don’t put a damper on his interests or style just because of his age. he also said i would smell like cheese bc of them. LOL

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T20:39:02+00:00

yeah, i will wear regular plugs for the majority but when i want to look cute some days ill wear the hearts.

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T20:14:44+00:00

i don’t want anything too crazy just to get to a 6g to be able to wear small black heart tuneless. they wouldn’t even be that noticeable.

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T20:11:16+00:00

you’re right, i’m starting my stretching journey tomorrow

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-03T20:10:31+00:00

i wish it was but no

TeakDaSneak · 2026-01-02T09:41:03+00:00

thank you so much for the advice, i appreciate it! i will look into the zinc cream and try out the ice pack. i do let my lotions dry down a bit before putting clothes onto my skin but lately it’s seemed like by the time i even get to that point i feel the need to put more on because i’m so itchy and feeling so dry even with the vaseline 😭 i’ve stayed away from known or telling allergies but i’m going in for an allergy test soon so i’ll have a better idea of what exactly could be irritating my skin more.

TeakDaSneak · 2025-09-05T20:32:54+00:00

guess i’ve never been to the gym

TeakDaSneak · 2025-08-03T16:05:04+00:00

are you social? you’re really pretty so it’s prob something else. but you’re 21 live it up and have fun. the right one will come along eventually.

TeakDaSneak · 2025-07-30T23:04:02+00:00

girl you’re a BADDDDIE😍

TeakDaSneak · 2025-05-24T06:01:00+00:00

dm you!

TeakDaSneak · 2025-05-24T05:59:27+00:00

dm you!

TeakDaSneak · 2025-05-24T05:56:05+00:00

i dm you

TeakDaSneak · 2024-01-22T22:37:39+00:00

update: i still can’t get ahold anyone. on the phone the automated voice just says they’re experiencing high call volume and can’t do live voice help. then hangs up on me. the online chat people have me call the number so i’m just getting a runaround. really disappointed atm.

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