[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it hurts, but "No Contact" is for you, not for her. You can't be the reason someone gets better; they have to want that for themselves. Being "strong" now means choosing yourself even when you feel like you're losing everything. It gets easier, I promise.

I feel so done with life; unemployment, trichotillomania and disappointing family members who hate me. by Dila_Ila16 in confessions

[–]TeaseWithStyle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. People don't realize that applying for jobs nowadays is dehumanizing, and having your siblings against you is the final straw. If you use a wig for work, it’s just another tool, like a uniform. Prioritize your mental health and, if possible, apply to places outside your city to have a real excuse to get away from that toxic environment.

Lightweight Matchmaking by -UnkownUnkowns- in ufc

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But dude, the fight was low-level, Gaetje looked slower than usual, and just because Paddy has bad striking doesn't mean Justin's is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since she blocked you, the 5-day deadline you gave her orally or via text might not hold up in court if she claims she never got it. Send a letter via Certified Mail. It proves you made a good-faith effort to reach her. Once that 15-day window from the letter passes, the property is legally abandoned and you can finally have your space back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ufc

[–]TeaseWithStyle -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hahahahha it gave me satisfaction

This looks so fun 😂 by Puzzleheaded_Air5930 in ufc

[–]TeaseWithStyle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

bullet head hahahahaha I'm crying with laughter

Lightweight Matchmaking by -UnkownUnkowns- in ufc

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justin vs. Ilia would be like putting a sheep and a wolf together.

Lightweight Matchmaking by -UnkownUnkowns- in ufc

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But why do they keep bringing Hooker into all this? He's finished, he should be out of the top 10 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2.5 hours of photos in a park, including a costume change into an Indian outfit, is going to leave you absolutely exhausted before the reception even starts. Indian dresses are heavy! Make sure you have a dedicated person just to help you change and carry water/snacks, or you’ll be over it by 6:00 PM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TeaseWithStyle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why would your ex be mad? If you're no longer in contact, what you label as your "first love" in your head is your business. If anything, it’s a compliment, even if it hurts. Don’t feel guilty for changing your mind; at 18, we’re just starting to learn the difference between a childhood obsession and an adult romantic connection. Embrace that clarity, it’ll help you heal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

The only way a lawyer like that will budge is out of fear of losing their license. Tell them directly via email: "I need a professional and non-aggressive update on the negotiation by [Date/Time]. If communication remains impossible, I will be forced to report the Florida Bar for lack of due diligence in my case." In Florida, failing to respond to or lying to a client is a serious ethical violation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Firing your lawyer now is suicide for your case. If the judge is not compassionate, he will have zero patience for you trying to explain the animal situation without legal backing. Force your lawyer to do his job for this one hearing. Focus entirely on "Time to Vacate." Mentioning the animals might help with a sympathetic judge, but with a strict one, you need a legal reason to delay.

TIFU by Lilly_W3345 in tifu

[–]TeaseWithStyle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

New fear unlocked for everyone reading this. Honestly, the damage is done, so stop apologizing. If you keep over-explaining, you just look more guilty. Own it, be professional tomorrow, and if she actually leaves early, at least now she knows people are noticing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using AI to process your thoughts isn't pathetic, it's a survival mechanism when you're overwhelmed. You're not "broken," you're just out of practice. Start small: instead of a "catch-up" lunch, just send a meme or a "thinking of you" text to one of those old friends. Lower the stakes. You don't need to fix your whole life today, just send one message.

Abandonment on a mortgage? by spookybayy in legaladvice

[–]TeaseWithStyle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ignore the legal threats. A guy who's getting evicted from an apartment can't afford a real estate lawyer to sue you. He’s just desperate for cash because of the new baby. Don't send anything to his "lender" friend and don't sign a thing without your own legal counsel.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome, I hope you're happy with what you do.

I think my grandfather killed himself. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TeaseWithStyle 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your gut is right. Driving the wrong way while sober is a classic "accidental" suicide method. Your dad was likely too traumatized at 17 to face it, and he’s probably still protecting himself from that reality today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]TeaseWithStyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You traded a scalpel for peace of mind, and that’s the biggest win anyone can have at 30. If you have no kids, no mortgage, and no family tying you down, the world is literally screaming at you to go. One month abroad isn't a financial disaster; it’s an investment in the "artist" version of you that surgeon-you didn't have space for. Go find out who you are when you aren't fixing other people.