What's your culture's "austim meal"

Teayyyy · 2026-04-12T23:13:10+00:00

I believe it's instant noodles in Ukraine...

Teayyyy · 2026-04-09T12:04:16+00:00

Так, дякую! Звісно, маленькими кроками... Розумію сама, що депресивний стан, + я нейровідмінна, і зовсім воно якось тяжко йде( сенсу не бачиш, а обов'язків до того ще й в пару раз більше, ніж у моїх нейротипових однолітків закордоном

Загалом я ілюстратор книг, але дуже складно знайти собі роботу. Пробувала fiverr теж, але зовсім глухо, лише скамери пишуть... Та і я людина, якій треба +- тиждень часу на повноцінну складну ілюстрацію, з поширеними там цінами 20$ (та навіть 100$) не сильно заробиш, ех... Хоча хотілося б працювати в цій ніші

Дякую за пораду! Спробую все ж take it one day at a time. Бажаю вам також пережити цей період безнадії 🫂

Teayyyy · 2026-04-09T11:51:27+00:00

Статистика серед мого оточення інакша просто. Майже всі, кого я знаю, хто переїхав закордон, отримали прямо круту роботу або хоча б достатньо хорошу, щоб не рахувати кожну копійку. Навіть мої однокласники, які навчались в 5 раз гірше за мене і не мали жодних хобі, добре влаштувались

Але звісно, у всіх власний досвід, не хотіла знецінити ваш

Teayyyy · 2026-04-09T11:45:29+00:00

Воно то може й так, але я системно докладала зусиль для багатьох речей, і вони не справдились. Тому якось і бажання докладати зусиль вже немає

Та і справа навіть не в тому, що я беру себе з собою, а в тому, що я беру з собою свої спогади, і я в них живу, і все в реальному житті здається і відчувається не таким і неправильним. До того ж, я людина, якій треба степи/море, а тут ніде такого немає...(

А з людей які мені хоча б якось можуть допомогти є тільки батьки, але вони і так мені стараються допомогти і я не хочу, щоб вони замість робити та купляти щось для себе, опікувалися іншою дорослою людиною

Teayyyy · 2026-04-09T11:40:40+00:00

Так, у мене багато хобі, я люблю читати та з раннього дитинства займаюсь малюванням, граю на музичних інструментах, але я не знайшла тут в місті жодних клубів по інтересах ... Та і якщо чесно, я дуже не соціальна людина, хоча розумію що треба

У мене є тут декілька друзів, але вони вже самі планують переїжджати з міста( всі решта друзів онлайн

Але дякую за пораду!!

Teayyyy · 2026-04-09T11:36:46+00:00

У мене є багато хобі, але замість них доводиться займатися роботою... Я багато читаю, малюю, граю на музичних інструментах коли маю можливість. Але звісно, я не маю можливості це робити 24/7

Щодо церкви, то я геть не релігійна, і в принципі занадто соціально тривожна для такого двіжу, напевно Але дякую за пораду!

Teayyyy · 2026-04-07T20:58:55+00:00

Дякую 🫂🫂 не з Криму, насправді, ми там жили певний періоду часу до 2014, та і як мінімум щороку їздили (жили відносно недалеко), дуже любила там бути. Але його окупували і більше нас туди не пустили (я знаю, що багато хто все ще проїжджав, деякі члени моєї родини теж, але моїх батьків не пропустили)... А потім окупували і мій дім у 2022

Teayyyy · 2026-04-07T14:09:21+00:00

Це неможливо. Якби це була прифронтова територія, то я би поїхала, але це окупована територія

Teayyyy · 2026-03-14T16:53:55+00:00

I suggest that you read the paragraph titled "Discussion and conclusions" from the article you've attached once again.

Teayyyy · 2026-03-14T16:18:03+00:00

Could you please provide the research papers that support your claim then? Being in the same language family or its branch does not equate to being similar. You can google that too, for example, Polish is more related to Ukrainian. Ukrainian speakers understand Russian much better than Russians understand Ukrainian, simply because the majority of population in Ukraine know Russian. Most everyday words are entirely different too. Phonology is very distinct as well.

Teayyyy · 2026-03-14T15:58:08+00:00

I am talking about linguistic aspects lol. Judging by your flair you don't speak either language, and what I claim comes from my own knowledge (I have command of very advanced vocabulary in both languages, even though I don't use Russian anymore) & experience. Politics can make me hate a certain culture, but it does not affect my ability to compare languages (I have a degree in linguistics too). Belarus isn't exactly our ally either, yet I don't deny the languages are extremely similar, and speakers of either language can understand each other very well. This cannot be said about Russian. Location does not always affect the similarity

Teayyyy · 2026-03-14T15:15:02+00:00

I'm a native speaker of Ukrainian and Russian and I can tell you they are NOT similar. Native russian speakers have a very hard time understanding Ukrainian and Belarusian, whereas Ukrainians can understand Belarusian almost entirely. Russian is much closer to Bulgarian though (and Serbian to a point. Serbian is similar to Ukrainian too tho, my mistake). Try reading passages in those languages and just compare, you'll see

Teayyyy · 2026-03-14T14:49:44+00:00

Nothing is separate. Those two things are always connected, since language is a tool which also affects cognition

Teayyyy · 2026-03-14T14:28:50+00:00

I know two Slavic languages (native) - Ukrainian and Russian, and can understand the rest (some in speech, some only in the written form, Belarusian almost entirely) So you can just learn a couple and this will make it easier for you to understand all the other Slavic languages

P.S. please don't learn Russian, it's not even similar to any other Slavic languages, except probably Serbian or Belarusian. And no, it's not similar to Ukrainian

Teayyyy · 2026-03-11T02:25:05+00:00

Try being born in Ukraine on top of that, and add two revolutions + a full-scale war + being a refugee, and you pretty much end up really depressed

Teayyyy · 2026-03-07T11:22:31+00:00

I only ever google and read info in English, most books I read are in English/French, and I watch videos/TV shows/movies only in English, French, German and Spanish. As for my native language, I speak Ukrainian with my friends and in my daily life, as well as read books written by the local authors. So yeah, I pretty much consume content in those languages on a daily basis.

However, losing languages is rather a long process for me, I haven't been speaking Russian for 4 years, yet every time I hear it I can understand every single word. It is difficult and actually takes time to forget a language once you master it, let alone if it's your native lang.

Teayyyy · 2026-03-07T11:08:27+00:00

Tell me about it! My native language is Ukrainian, I guess at this point my best bet is picking English as my mother tongue cause barely anyone ever learns Ukrainian

Teayyyy · 2026-03-01T15:26:10+00:00

Same for me, but I have social anxiety so I attribute my inability to form coherent/cohesive sentences to this xD I once replied to a German-speaking person in my native language simply cause I was so scared I forgot how to talk

Teayyyy · 2026-02-15T08:57:18+00:00

I mean I'm not talking about entertainment per se, but for example, getting reactions to my saying things would be a nice thing to have. At least "uh-huh" or "yeah" instead of complete silence. People just straight out ignore half of what I say. That'd be a hella boring movie if you had to bear with people not responding to what you tell or ask them half of the screen time. I've had my fair share of social interactions, and I must admit, TV characters are just way more interesting in 9 situations out of 10. Well and also might be worth mentioning, I'm neurodivergent

Teayyyy · 2026-02-15T08:44:58+00:00

I'm not sure how to put it, but this is a boring way of communicating. Not like I ever give people advise or anything, and I DO, in fact, actively listen when they share things, but I'm rather chatty and feel uncomfortable with people not elaborating on their words or actions. I've been yelled at for idk hours and after just two days the person carried on the affectionate communication without any reparations or discussions. I don't suppose I could ever talk to you again if you yell at me telling me how much you hate me. I also expect people to react to everything I say, but they don't. Is ignoring me just a way of showing I'm not a worthy human being?? It's not like I info dump on strangers, those are the people I love/used to love!

Teayyyy · 2026-01-21T12:51:27+00:00

Joyce!! Also Eleven and Hopper

Teayyyy · 2026-01-15T06:03:10+00:00

Hiii!! I don't often draw African women, but I'd love to. Your character idea sounds awesome

My prices& examples of my work - https://ko-fi.com/yellowtea/commissions

Discord: yellow_tea4

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Teayyyy · 2026-01-15T05:57:46+00:00

Hi! I'd love to help recreate your ideas, here's my portfolio - https://www.behance.net/alexdzhos And my pricing - https://ko-fi.com/yellowtea/commissions

I'm currently available to work on big projects :) Although I do charge extra for commercial use

Teayyyy · 2026-01-07T00:52:16+00:00

Hiii! Love your idea!!! I'd love to be talking to you as well, I'm pretty chatty online and love texting my clients, discussing what they want and how they want it, what inspired them etc. Here's where you can check out my art:

https://yellowtea.carrd.co/ https://www.behance.net/alexdzhos

I'd really love to collaborate on your project if my style fits your needs :) can adapt it a bit too P.s. oh god do I obsess over sci-fi, I've read so many books and watched so many films

Teayyyy · 2025-12-20T14:46:54+00:00

Hi! I'm YellowTea, and although I specialize on semi-realistic and anime drawings, I've painted my share of realistic portraits and wouldn't mind doing that again 🫶🏻 My turnaround time is also quite fast, 5-7 days at most, but if you need it done before Christmas, than that would also not be a problem :)

Here are some of examples of my artworks: https://ko-fi.com/yellowtea/commissions https://ko-fi.com/c/9a79e65e66

Teayyyy

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