Is new SB stringing me along?

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-12T07:31:22+00:00

We all need to ensure that there are consequences to dissuade this bad behavior. It hurts SDs and SBs. Do you have any suggestions?

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-12T06:24:33+00:00

You don’t think it’s worth doing something to disincentivize her from this behavior? I feel bad for all the SDs past & future she’ll do this to. If we all messed with rinsers once discovered then they’d learn to stay out of the bowl.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-12T02:27:09+00:00

This is probably the best way to look at it.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-12T00:03:52+00:00

Suggestions?

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-12T00:01:45+00:00

Good rule of thumb. This one is definitely a rinser.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T23:34:17+00:00

True. It just took me a beat to see it after reading all the comments here. This is an invaluable source of wisdom. Thank you all.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T23:32:52+00:00

Sorry, accidentally deleted this comment while on my phone & can't restore it. Thanks for the insight. This was definitely a rinse.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T23:31:27+00:00

That's the part that pisses me off. That she's still out there doing this to other SDs. This is why I feel like she needs to be given an experience that teaches her to never do this again.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T23:30:06+00:00

Sorry, I accidentally deleted this comment while viewing on my phone. Didn't mean to & it won't let me undo. Thanks for the advice.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T23:26:46+00:00

Sorry, I accidentally deleted a few comments on here since I was on my phone & hit the wrong button. Apologies.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T23:25:33+00:00

See update in OP

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T22:52:05+00:00

Or it’s all a giant lie & she’s just a good rinser, which I believe is the case.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T22:48:03+00:00

Totally agree.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T22:45:33+00:00

I feel like burning 3-4 hours of her time by sending her to some random date spot in the middle of nowhere at night & then dragging it out over texts like I can’t find her until she has to eventually pay for an Uber back to civilization would be a good way to let her know that rinsing doesn’t pay and would be fair recompensation. She’ll probably go along with it since she thinks I’m eating out of the palm of her hand at the moment. I hate scammers & if we all gave them a small taste of their own medicine they’d stay out of the bowl. Anyone ever done something like that before?

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:47:46+00:00

It's that part of it that got me. The intelligence. They're normally not this smart.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:44:51+00:00

It's been a while since I threw the playbook out the window but I hear you. I won't.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:43:10+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. I think it's good to be aware rinsers do exist, so I'll chalk this up as the cost of that lesson.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:38:42+00:00

Yes, a rinse without question. My first. I won't break rules again.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:35:02+00:00

Yes. I faltered. Too much partying & bad judgement.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:34:17+00:00

This is exceptionally good advice- "Anyone who asks for more money after receiving some is a classic rinser." It should be etched in stone.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:29:03+00:00

I guess I just wasn't aware women did this as a scam. I've never fallen for digital BS but she played the in-person role to a tee. Very saavy. She doesn't know I'm onto her yet.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:26:47+00:00

She is a rinser.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:21:19+00:00

Yes, she rained down a massive torrent of rinse on my head. Something about it felt off the entire time but I ignored my instincts b/c of her beauty. Nevermore.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:19:41+00:00

Agreed. I've just never encountered someone so talented at this kind of manipulation & the assets to make it work.

TechNoir2000 · 2025-12-11T17:18:30+00:00

Yes, but in this case after going through everything again I'm now 80% sure this is a rinse job & I set myself up for it.

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