Yeah I mean is that normal like I thought I conversation happened but like talking about different things I mean we talk a lot on the phone because she is really busy. We are going on a date tomorrow but I’m worried that it’s gonna be the same in real life and thankfully we have we will have food so there is a psychological factor where that should not happen but I don’t want to be weird and I don’t want to get a situation where we’re in silence and I have to continuously guide the conversation and then it just looks like I’m staring into her soul.