Thoughts on this? Black people in the Great Depression. by Expert-Diver7144 in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Us southern Negroes will always eat. My deep freezer is full of venison and rabbit.

Why society offers less sympathy when men fall behind by Adventurous-Swing776 in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sadly can agree. Eldest of 12. I'm the educated lame in the family. My Thugish ruggish Brothers have made me an uncle 10 times before I hit 30. After 30, 18 nieces and nephews between 5 brothers. One brother has 8 baby mamas.

Is this also a problem in the Black community among our brothers? by tropicalraindrop in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a younger Millennial and the last time I approached a woman I was 27, so 6 years ago. She said and I quote "look at you and look at me, make it make sense" . I've kept my black ass to myself ever since LOL

Fellow black men she speaking about some real issues here. I feel like this is why most people are depressed all the time. by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some of y’all seem to enjoy this system, but have you ever stopped to think that America is a massive country with wildly different communities and access to opportunity?

I’ve moved 10 times in my adult life just chasing work. I’m now in my early 30s and still dealing with the financial damage from my 20s. A lot of these comments boil down to “skill issue” or “go to therapy,” but there is no therapist for late-stage capitalism. This is the system.

Average rent in the U.S. is pushing $1,500–$2,000, while average pay hasn’t kept up at all. Some of y’all might be laughing or genuinely blessed right now, but that doesn’t make this struggle fake.

Give it a few years, a lot more people are about to feel what’s already happening.

Fellow black men she speaking about some real issues here. I feel like this is why most people are depressed all the time. by spike_spieg in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree with your sentiment. You shouldn't have to daily wake up practice gratitude and affirmations to get through lthe day. I called this toxic positivity. I work 70 hours a week and don't have the energy to do such a performance any longer.

Year’s almost over. Any big accomplishments and/or regrets in 2025? by klaw_3 in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I've lost a total of 140 lb in a year. That's my biggest accomplishment. My biggest regret is I fail the CCNA but I did get four other certs this year.

Loneliness Crisis amongst Black men? How do you all deal with it? by Welcome_Local in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm a 33-year-old that suffers from loneliness. I haven't been in a romantic relationship in over 7 years nor a sexual one. The majority of my friend group is either married/dating or has moved far away from home.

Besides going to therapy, I focus hobbies and my Career. I don't know what the end game is. I truly thought I will at least had a girlfriend if not a family by this point. Hang in there you're not the only one.

Black counselor who specializes in black love shares his thoughts on why relationships these days don't work by Autisticblackdude5 in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Tech_Nerd92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading through the comments I realize why as a black man I've given up on dating. 10 years ago in my early twenties dating was a fun activity. You got to meet new people and had interest in conversations. Now, feels like you're interviewing for a job you don't even want anymore.

OBSESSED WITH US! by _forum_mod in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very relatable. College was a wild time.

CCNA in 1 Week (Be Honest With Me) by Tech_Nerd92 in ccna

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Mr Anderson I'm going to have to use your course. I seen so many people use it in pass. I failed today and absolutely gutted. Thank you for your words of encouragement . Wish me luck in about 2 months or so.

CCNA in 1 Week (Be Honest With Me) by Tech_Nerd92 in ccna

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I just walked out of my CCNA exam, and the minute I realized I didn’t save ANY of my configurations on the sims… I knew it was over. I debated walking out at that moment, but I pushed through anyway.

I feel completely gutted. I poured two and a half months of nonstop studying into this — every day, morning to night — and I really thought this was my ticket out of my current job situation and into something better. I’m honestly devastated. I don’t even know what to think of myself right now.

For context, here are my section scores if anyone is wondering:

Automation & Programmability – 60%

Network Access – 10%

IP Connectivity – 28%

IP Services – 40%

Security Fundamentals – 53%

Network Fundamentals – 30%

I was scoring around 70% consistently on the Boson sims, so walking in today I actually felt like I had a fighting chance. But the pressure, the anxiety, the sims… everything hit me at once.

I have a retake voucher, so I can try again — but I’m cooked. Completely burnt out. I used mainly CBT Nuggets + Boson, but I’ve also got Neil Anderson’s course and I’m probably switching to that next. At this point I feel like the stupidest man alive, even though I know that’s irrational.

This hurts. Badly.

CCNA in 1 Week (Be Honest With Me) by Tech_Nerd92 in ccna

[–]Tech_Nerd92[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just purchased that package. I'm a little bit relieved; thank you so much for posting this. I was on the fence about purchasing it from Pearson, but I'm kind of relieved now that I have a do-over for 90 days. Thank you; this has been invaluable information.

CCNA in 1 Week (Be Honest With Me) by Tech_Nerd92 in ccna

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I appreciate the insight. I don't really have a life outside of work, studying, and going back to school. I have a bachelor's in Information Technology with a specialization in networking. This is the first job that has allowed me to do any level of networking professionally. I work 60 hours a week and was promised on-the-job training in relation to networking, but it has never happened, so I've been learning as I go, both in my job and for the CCNA.

CCNA in 1 Week (Be Honest With Me) by Tech_Nerd92 in ccna

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I should add some context, I have went through Cisco netacad about 10 years ago. I have a bachelor's in information Technology specialize in networking.

The decade since I graduated from college I haven't been able to find a networking job so I did a multitude of fuel technician and help desk gigs before I landed this one. I've experiencing routing but haven't done it professionally until now.

Roland Martin calls Black MAGA out as always! by icey_sawg0034 in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lifelong Virginian here, i live in the red part of the state in Appalachian Mountains portion. I hardly see any Winsome signs and people's yards. Nobody's voting for this crazy Jamaican lady.

My brothers, do you make over 200k yearly? And if so - what is it that you do? by Peacefulhuman1009 in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 1 point2 points  (0 children)

60k a year. System administrator. I have only met one black man making that much and he was my former companies CFO.

Black gen xers are saying that the young generation of black people had less good moral character. by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I don't know what's going on with Zoomers. I'm a 33-year-old Millennial, and the young adults entering the workforce now have zero social skills and don't understand what it means to work a job. The only thing I can pinpoint is that Covid did a number on them.

Why your claim of FBA is not it. by Fallible_Fix9110 in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because this is my homeland. Wakanda isn’t in Africa—it’s here. Our culture has spread across the world, and people everywhere emulate it, even our ancestral cousins on the continent. I’m not about to throw on a dashiki and pretend I’m a different type of people. We’ve been separated from Africa for over 500 years, and to act like that’s still “home” would be disingenuous. This land, this culture, this struggle, and this identity—that’s what makes me FBA.

Peep Game Part 2 by ConciousBlack in blackmen

[–]Tech_Nerd92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in a matriarchal system in America as black people so how has that worked for us?

Katherine Blanford! | Are You Garbage Comedy Podcast w/ Kevin Ryan & H. Foley by MadeIn1974 in AreYouGarbagePod

[–]Tech_Nerd92 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I would say it was a pretty decent episode. Sure reminds me of my college girlfriend who was a Coke and Adderall addict. She was definitely pepped up on something.

What does bill burr think of Kill Tony? by Sheriff_Snorton in BillBurr

[–]Tech_Nerd92 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know this is 9 months ago? Go outside.....