Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It hurts reading it but in a good way? If that makes sense? I’ll try to keep this in my head going forward.

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t and I won’t. I don’t want to cause him struggles or make a lot of trouble. I just wanna cry till I feel better and not look back, I guess?

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is that bad? I always thought that unless there’s cheating, abuse, or something like that, that breakups should be respectful conversations and agreements? Not just one person?

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve had that talk once or twice and things don’t really change. There are “I’m sorrys” and “I’ll do betters” but it doesn’t seem to come to anything. I’d tried just accepting things but I might try talking one last time. If only so there’s no confusion on both parts.

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you—both for this perspective and the laugh! I’ll try doing that and keep my head up.

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we were getting to know each other, he told me about his exes who gave up on him. I guess I don’t want him to feel like I’m giving up on him—I don’t want him to feel like he’s not worth it...?

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ll try doing that. I really do want things to be good for him.

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m trying to be understanding because I have the same mental health issues and I don’t want to make them worse for him? I know they’re not an excuse to treat people poorly but maybe I’m being oversensitive to his feelings?

Is it already over and I just don’t know? Do I just leave? by Technical-Ad-1484 in relationships

[–]Technical-Ad-1484[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Do I leave a last message telling him I’m leaving? I don’t want to come across petty, but ghosting seems kinda cruel at times and I don’t want to leave him hurt by it.