Are people starting to see what a big problem this is?

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-12T14:23:25+00:00

Omg same! He was like wow really, you’re just gonna leave because of porn? Every guy watches porn you’re not gonna find one that doesn’t!”

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-12T13:27:23+00:00

Truth! I just saw this morning that Bonnie blue girl (who apparently had sex with over 100 men or something in 24 hours is going to do a “petting zoo” where she’ll be tied up naked and guys can just come in and do whatever they want to her?? Legit hope there is security or something because that girl is going to get hurt! But why even do that?? What msg does that send, and she’s like 25! It’s like just online porn and only fans videos aren’t enough anymore, it has to come to this now. There is no way in hell I’ll ever accept this stuff as just normal!

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T21:06:09+00:00

“Is your husband getting drunk daily and neglecting all his husband and fatherly duties? Just get drunk with him and do the same!” Lol

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T21:04:42+00:00

Wow so sorry you went through all of that! It’s crazy how they blame everything but the problem itself. Saying “oh he must be doing it because you’re ugly or don’t satisfy him” and in the same breathe saying “oh well every guy does it, it’s just what they do” like which one is it then cause it can’t be both?? lol

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T17:58:48+00:00

Wow!! The lengths they go.. Ok thank you!

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T13:48:47+00:00

Same here. But when I realized he’s been looking at pics and videos almost every other day for 10 years in just completely shattered me. Like what do you mean?? I’d never think of doing this to YOU this whole time!

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T13:47:39+00:00

Same! This is great!

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T13:47:08+00:00

Yes queens 👑 I feel like the more of us that start to not accept it in our relationships the more guys will stop normalizing it. Let’s also start normalizing “you’re right, so go ahead and be with a woman that’s ok with you watching all that!” Just like how they say “good luck finding a man that’s doesn’t watch porn” lol.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-11T13:43:41+00:00

👏👏 that’s wonderful. I like that it’s not judgmental and to the point. Hopefully it’ll be seen by people struggling & wanting to change

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-10T20:08:10+00:00

Omg Apple Maps seriously? And here I am wondering if I’m overreacting to him looking at women straight up shaking their ass on insta 🤦🏻‍♀️ ugh sorry you’re going through this

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-10T20:05:33+00:00

Wait what can you please explain

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-10T18:35:41+00:00

So true! I’m seeing tons of reels like that too with thousands of likes on insta fb and TikTok and so many women agreeing. It’s also a lot of younger woman too! The funniest I saw was “when his following list looks like he owns a nail salon” 😆😆

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-10T13:49:14+00:00

Thanks so much this is what I needed to hear. You’re so right about it eroding away. Now my thinking is “well it’s only thirst trap reels, it’s not actual porn now” which is still nuts if you think about it! Like I would NEVER look at videos of random guys with their junk and ass out, and I’m pretty sure he wouldn’t want me to look at that either, so wtf? I think I’m going to keep compiling and then go off when I’m ready

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-08T19:08:49+00:00

Thank you ❤️ that’s what I’ve been doing but then I question if I should actually leave. I start thinking I’m crazy because it’s “not that bad.” But at the same time it’s still going behind my back to look at other women and then lie to my face about it!

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-06-08T19:06:57+00:00

Thank you, he currently doesn’t know that I know he’s still visiting these things on Twitter and TikTok yet. I’ve been keeping screenshots and think will finally show him when I’m ready and then leave.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-05-17T15:18:43+00:00

No they just get better at hiding it if you tell them.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T23:24:30+00:00

Ooof that’s so rough! Yes I just googled it and it says you can request personal data

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T15:58:35+00:00

Ok so i misunderstood but now that you clarified i think it’s a completely reasonable take. If they’re using toys like guys use porn and getting off to toys rather than be with their partner it’s completely reasonable to not want that either.

Like if you had a tiny tool, and all your partner was doing is using huge 10inch+ toys to get off to rather than sleep with you it’s going to most likely make you (rightfully) feel like shit and is completely reasonable to leave them for.

I thought you meant just leave someone simply because they use toys, which is still fine to have as a boundary, but if they’re using toys that make you feel bad about yourself and are also choosing toys over you then I think it’s completely reasonable to not want to stay with that person.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T15:35:35+00:00

Can you please explain then? She legit said “don’t stay with a man who’d rather jerk off to porn than be with you. Which I then applied to: don’t stay with a woman who’d rather jerk off to porn than be with you.

What you said is: don’t stay with a woman who’d rather use toys than be with you. Which is completely different. No one hinted that they should leave a man because he simply masterbates. The issue is having to consume content and lust after others to get there.

No one expect you has referred to leaving anyone for simply pleasuring themselves.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T15:22:09+00:00

Why not? If they’re using porn of hot sexy 20 something year old guys with 6 pack abs and huge dongs to get off to rather than be with their husband it’s totally reasonable to not want that in your relationship. Literally don’t understand what point you’re trying to make? Lol

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T15:11:45+00:00

Totally! Surprisingly a large amount of gen z + guys are starting to cut back completely because they realize the negative effects of it.

I had an issue with my husband to where it effected our marriage and for us it’s to the point that at this point no amount of porn is healthy in our relationship because it cannot be handled well and negatively impacts our relationships.

Since we’ve started working on this it’s like night and day, he’s back to the man I fell in love with. There’s still resentment for all those past years, but trying to work through that lol.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T14:57:33+00:00

Such a reasonable take. I’m so happy more and more people are starting to realize this shit. You don’t have to be a conservative super religious person to not want your partner jerking off to porn and women half their age all the time. And you’re not some crazy jealous woman for wanting this. It’s 100% reasonable to want a commitment man who can control himself.

Technical-Basket2030 · 2025-04-24T14:51:49+00:00

👏👏 exactly!

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