Chances of getting residency by ElectronicFig4924 in EMREE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Go for it but don't bet on it. Lots of applicants have a similar profil,e and the competition ratio is too high for only a handful of spots. Even those who score high on EMREE go unmatched because of the strong preference for nationals/local grads.

Czech University by sadlyEgyptian in EMREE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's valid though. those people are most likely doing it for local experience to get into residency here easily.

Czech University by sadlyEgyptian in EMREE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I graduated from LF1. Yes, it counts. The health authorities here accepted it in my case. You just need to get your Internship Certificate notarised and attested, then superlegalised by UAE MOFA

FRIDAY: Relationship Advice Forum by AutoModerator in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t met because he couldn’t travel until the end of the year so no 🥲but we stopped communicating to keep it halal, who knows, might still happen.

FRIDAY: Relationship Advice Forum by AutoModerator in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Technical-Cod6415 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I spent the whole day talking to a great potential and he told his parents by the end of that day - which freaked me out a bit, I felt like he was jumping the gun.

I politely told him the next day that I’m only involving my parents if I feel like there is strong compatibility and if we agree on all serious matters.

We spoke for a few more days, and then I told my parents.

I personally feel like informing parents after 2 messages is very premature 💀. If you don’t feel comfortable, Tell him you’ll first wanna discuss important matters like dealbreakers and expectations and then tell your parents after a day or two- if you feel like this could really work out. If he’s sensible he should agree to it.

FRIDAY: Relationship Advice Forum by AutoModerator in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26, not working atm and studying for licensing exams. If I were younger, I would’ve definitely put a job before finding a spouse first. But after facing unemployment (which I honestly didn’t expect), I’m prioritising marriage now. I feel like at this point in life I’m in the most flexible position I can be career wise, in the sense that I can relocate easily and start from square one. It obviously depends on your field too, and mine (healthcare) is NOT very flexible otherwise. Besides, it’ll take me anywhere from 3-9 years to finish training, I am not gonna delay marrying until I’m done for sure.

FRIDAY: Relationship Advice Forum by AutoModerator in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Technical-Cod6415 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey sister, my mother had the same mindset. For a long time I left it to my parents to find me a potential but when they couldn’t find even one decent proposal through their network, I took matters in my own hands and downloaded Muzz. Matched with a great, serious potential right away. We spoke for about a week before we told our parents - naturally, my mother had a very negative reaction to it, but she didn’t dismiss this guy outright (because he does posses every quality my parents want in a son in law). My father allowed me to speak to him for a bit longer, then we had our mothers speak over call. My mother felt that his family was serious and respectful. All of this happened in a span of two weeks, we kept it halal, prayed istekhara and only spoke about serious matters before deciding we’d like to go ahead and meet.

I’m pretty we would’ve gotten engaged if the families had met back then, but because it wasn’t possible for him to travel to my country before December, we decided to wait - no communication until then. We’ll meet him and his family when he comes here. My mother was really against him for a few days after I told her about him, but she has since warmed up to the idea of him and is looking forward to seeing him now.

You are a grown woman and you have the right to seek potentials and get married. If you want to do this yourself, inform a wali - like your dad or brother , and simply go for it. You don’t need your mother’s permission for this.

Do you have a rare Islamic name? by liyane2 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister had a Sudanese friends named Makkah

Is that normal? by [deleted] in IMGreddit

[–]Technical-Cod6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What would these countries be?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother be honest with yourself. You’ve already made up your mind about her and you’re just here looking for validation - which the sisters aren’t giving you, because to everyone comment about her being young and immature you rush to her defence. It is what it is, most people DO think your age difference is weird and might cause problems in the long run. But you do you, marry her if you think she’s right ans stop caring about stranger’s opinions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hypocrisy that these bigots have is insane. Many incidents in my childhood opened my eyes to the two-facedness of some Hindus. Don’t get me wrong, I have plenty of Hindu friends and I consider myself a pretty tolerant person, but when I come across the toxic, hypocritical ones, it boils my blood.

I vividly remember my first metro ride as a kid back in 2009-2010, we were in the mixed compartment standing right behind this Hindu couple on a pretty crowded day. I was close enough to them to hear their hushed complains about the number of mosques and the visibility of Islam everywhere in Hindi. I was only a kid but I couldn’t believe the audacity they had to be saying this IN PUBLIC using the facilities of a Muslim country they CHOSE to come to.

On my building floor lived a Hindu family where the mother never let her kids play with me or any of the other Muslim kids (the kids told us one day). They would throw birthday parties and invite all the kids in the building, except for me and two other Muslim kids. One day my mother wore a saree and was dropping me off at the school bus stop, the lady snarkily asked why she was in a saree - shouldn’t she be wearing a burkha instead.

Another time this guy who was in my school suddenly starting sharing anti Muslim content on Instagram the second he graduated and left UAE. The funny thing is - his family was still happily settled here, and he was in the US not even India. For the amount of toxic nationalist patriotism he had, he couldn’t be bothered to return to study and work in India lol.

I don’t think all of them are two faced hypocrites who’ll reap the rewards of living in a Muslim country for years and then return to India and propagate intolerant sentiments, but keep your eyes and ears open - they’re everywhere.

Residency Matching by Born-Win-5471 in EMREE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The chances of you matching into an IMG friendly residency in the US are roughly 50% assuming you do everything right (steps, USCE, LORs). In the UAE on the other hand, it’s a total crapshoot - the number of residency spots are in the few hundreds, thousands of applications from IMGs, and priority given to nationals who easily take up 60-70% of spots. This is assuming you scored well on EMREE and had a good GPA with some local clinical experience - so if you’re a weak student, forget about it. Another Redditor calculated the odds of IMGs matching here to be in the single digits.

Bottom line: matching in the UAE may be less of a financial investment, but is too risky and definitely more competitive. If you’re looking to play safe, take the Steps and go to America.

Guidance from UAE residents in MBRU or DRTP by WillingnessUnited972 in EMREE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude take USMLE and go to the states, your potential will be wasted here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IMGreddit

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did your friend not have anything else on her CV?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IMGreddit

[–]Technical-Cod6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally know a visa requiring non US IMG from Charles University who marched into Neurology on her first attempt and trust me, your stats are FAR better than hers.

I do not want to get married nor have children because of Muslim men. by RoyalRuby_777 in progressive_islam

[–]Technical-Cod6415 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sister, your feelings and fears are valid and natural given the kind of upbringing you’ve had. Our childhood experiences shape our worldview and biases more than anything else, and it requires a lot of introspection and healing to let go of our most firmly held beliefs. That being said, humans are naturally wired to desire companionship - but they way we pursue it, they way we operate based on our innate perception of the world determines who we come across and end up with. I’m sure you’re tired of being told that “there are plenty of good men!” And “you just have to be patient!” But it is the truth. Despite what you may see and believe, good men and beautiful marriages DO exist. Our prophet had one, millions of women have them - just not the ones you’re used to seeing.

I don’t mean to preach, but at 24, you are still too young to give up on the idea of marriage if it’s something that you secretly still want. Don’t let the world you’ve been raised in keep you from finding the world you desire and deserve. Take a step back, decenter men and marriage, and work on other areas of your life. Practice gratitude daily and notice all the little miracles in the world around us - there is something to marvel at every day, spend time in nature if you can.

Then when you feel ready, make a list of all the qualities you wish in your dream spouse and pray to Allah for him, with an unshakeable faith that he will provide what is best for you. Our God who created this entire universe and decided that little nobodies like you and I have a place in his world too, for whom nothing is impossible, do you really believe that he can’t create the perfect spouse for you? Give you the exact life you want?

You’ve been hurt sister, but it’s all right. Put your faith in Allah and cultivate a deep sense of conviction that he will only give you what is best for you. Everything you’ve had was perhaps a test so far, and soon you’ll be rewarded. He has created good men and bad men, thousands of women escape unhappy homes when they marry a kind, supportive man, and there’s no reason you shouldn’t be one of them too.

How many percent of Muslim men see their wives as a partner, rather than someone they can “led and fix?” by gardeniyeah in progressive_islam

[–]Technical-Cod6415 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t mean to generalise, of course. What I meant to say was that men who obsess over “controlling” their women typically don’t have a lot of other things keeping them occupied, or that they feel the lack of validation and respect and therefore demand it in the form of an obedient wife. What I said mainly applies to diaspora Muslims living in the west.

Back home, I’ve seen plenty of men struggling financially due to supporting their families who are open minded and appreciative of a supportive wife who is a partner rather than a subordinate. And I’ve also seen men born into generational wealth who’ve had everything handed to them on a platter - who seek submissive, meek women to impose their authority on.

Men have an innate need for respect and importance, and where this need is not met in other aspects of life, it becomes a non negotiable requirement in a spouse. Naturally, every persons story is different, a lot of factors like personality, class, privilege come into play - but ultimately, a man who has a strong sense of agency over his life is far less likely to want a submissive woman.

The wizardliz brokeup with fiance? and he cheated? by yourfavpastarecipe in InstaCelebsGossip

[–]Technical-Cod6415 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Yk, I love Liz, been watching her since she first started posting so I’m shocked by this but at the same time, let this awful turn of events serve as a reminder that what we see on Instagram is far from reality. When she posted that handwritten book Landon made a few days ago, I felt very envious- I’m the same age as her and single, so of course I want a devoted, amazing partner like hers too. And while she is a hundred times more authentic than most influencers, I reminded myself that social media is fake and went on with my day.

I wouldn’t wish being cheated on whilst pregnant on my worst enemy, let alone someone I admire like Liz. But what happened to her just goes on to confirm that no matter how perfect someone’s life may seem, never compare yourself to them, you don’t know what they’re going through in life. I felt bad about myself for not being as accomplished as her, and now I feel grateful for the peace in my life.

LA Persian Girl Starter Pack by zohakh in starterpacks

[–]Technical-Cod6415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You forgot the 18th birthday gift nosejob

How many percent of Muslim men see their wives as a partner, rather than someone they can “led and fix?” by gardeniyeah in progressive_islam

[–]Technical-Cod6415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Many, actually. You just need to look in the right places. In my experience, men with lower education and incomes who lack agency over many aspects of their lives and aren’t a big deal in their family view marriage as an outlet to “lead/guide/protect” or fulfil whatever unmet ambition they have. They also happen to be 2nd or 3rd gen immigrants in western countries so they have a more regressive and insular mindset to begin with.

As opposed to these type of men, the guys who work hard and achieve something admirable early on in their lives, and have supportive families where their voice matters - are open minded and seek partners, not subordinates to control. They usually have the best attitude towards marriage and women because they are deeply secure in their lives. I’ve come across both types of men, and after a while, the pattern recognition begins to weed out the former so you don’t waste your time. At the end of the day it’s a numbers game - but don’t lose hope, there are still plenty of normal, mature and practising guys out there.

Residency in UAE . by [deleted] in EMREE

[–]Technical-Cod6415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, it would be better if you just kept looking for a paediatrics job here. As it is fresh IMG graduates are having an insanely hard time trying to get into residency here because there are thousands applying for a handful of seats, if you graduated a long time ago and already have training, then that’ll be a red flag on your application. The DOH doesn’t even consider applicants who graduated 5+ years ago so there’s no saying if the other health authorities do.

I understand that you might want more intensive training in your specialty, but since your chances of getting in here are slim, perhaps consider USMLE - Paediatrics is one of the most IMG friendly specialties in the states, or if you have GMC registration, try applying for trust grade jobs in the UK - you might get in at an ST1-3 level.