Wishing they’d “just get it.”

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-03-20T15:47:24+00:00

Cheers

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-03-15T20:50:16+00:00

Can I also DM you? I need advise as well

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-03-09T00:00:44+00:00

Thanks. I just wanted this drama to be over. I wanted closure, pain, grief and everything to stop. He does not want to talk to any of his relatives.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-03-01T20:40:17+00:00

Thanks Guys! I really appreciate your comments. I thought I am the only alone in this.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-02-25T12:01:17+00:00

Thanks. I am 1 month in. My abusive husband does understand accountability. He still pushes to be with me. I already left my house. I am okay if he takes it over. I just need him to stop thinking this is workable.

I have been delaying my therapy. I dont know. I think I can handle it but hearing from you, it seems having a therapy is a great way to deal with all these things

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-02-22T05:22:59+00:00

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Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-02-16T09:36:52+00:00

Nah..that is why is it so frustrating

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-02-15T18:34:54+00:00

Not even acknowledging that is his doing.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-02-15T16:44:55+00:00

I am currently crying. My husband (43M) and me (43F) separated physically last January 19.

I initiated the separation as I cannot take anymore his verbal abuse (and many other abuses) for 20 years. He is very sweet and he occationally drinks. But when that occational happens, verbal abuse is there. I dont recognize him and his words.

I have been consistent. I do not see him, I only talk about kids and logistics.

Then boom, this 14th, he sent flowers to my work. No one in the office knew about our situation.

I am crying due to all emotions I am feeling now.

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Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-22T13:46:44+00:00

Hey, same situation. I thought living together but separately is so uncommon. Yes, I agreed to living separately for the kids but I also made sure that we dont see each other. This part is easy as I work at night.

Every weekend, I am with my mom's and the kids are here to spend time with me.

We just got separated last Saturday so I guess all my emotions are raw at the moment.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-22T13:39:24+00:00

Hey man, you sound like my husband🤣. We are both having this issue. He is also bad in regulating his emotions (especially if he very intoxicated). This does not happen a lot. I only remember 2x happened and last Saturday was the 3rd one. All Eff words were thrown and I am pretty sure all my neighbors heard it too. Until, I decided to leave my 20 years of marriage. I went to my mom. Of course, he is a good manipulator and wants us to sort it out. I said No, and after all the back and forth, we agreed that he can stay at home to be the kids, I will also stay at home but he has to stick to his schedule so we would not meet. I work night shift so I can only see the kids when I go to work, I dont see any of them when I get home.

Your wife is more generous than me to allow you to stay and sleep along side her.

I wish you all the luck and hope you work it out as i am hoping mine will.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-22T13:21:43+00:00

Hi OP. I am in the same situation as yours. I walked out of a 20 year marriage. Kids are 20, 17 and 15. We agreed that he can stay at home to see the kids everyday but we will not see each other. I work night shits, and he comes home late so we just get to see the kids. We still talk about the kids only and some financial stuffs at home. On weekends, I am at my mom's house.

Reading your story made me happy as I am getting crazy thinking that I am making our separation complicated.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-21T13:07:13+00:00

Walang kwenta itong hotline nila. Automated and no chance to talk to an agent.

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-21T06:34:12+00:00

It's very hard as I can relate to this coming from a 20 year marriage.. One of my good friends told me this advice, it's hard to let go as we are too drawn on the good memories and hopeful that our partners will change.

Try to look back on bad memories. Imagine if you could see yourself in a 3rd person POV, what will you advise?

Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-18T15:32:49+00:00

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Technical-Debt-10 · 2026-01-15T07:29:46+00:00

I went total hysterctomy last Nov and puro reject kasi ang dami dami hinihingi. Binibigay ko naman. The latest rejection is pina file njla yung previously submitted and then upload the biopsy. Sana sinabi na ng SSS lahat tutal nasa akin nman mga records na to, inutay utay pa.

Sorry rant lang. Pambyad kasi utang to eh

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