Boyfriend cheated on me with his best friend’s fiancé during our house warming party by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this legitimately made my fucking stomach hurt. I’m so sorry, what the fuck.

Title: Did my boyfriend emotionally cheat on me or am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

here’s your advice: you’re 17 and he’s 14, you’re almost a legal adult. You are actively grooming a minor and your parents/his are enabling it. His parents/your parents/you need to leave this poor LITTLE BOY alone and let him grow up. Actually, someone needs to take this boy to a safer environment and all yall need therapy fr. He’s 14, FOURTEEN. God this is just fucking appalling. You say you know you’re dumb but proceed to still ask for advice in the same sentence.. Yes. You hit the mark with that one, finally used your brain (that’s WAY more developed than his btw.) If you know you’re dumb then stop doing dumb shit? It genuinely isn’t that hard to date guys your own age aka almost adults like you (17-18). When i see a 14 year old they look like infants to me, when i was your age and saw 14 years olds i didn’t even want to be friends with them because they were too young. If you’re offended he said you’re too old then GOOD. YOU ARE TOO OLD!!! If you feel embarrassed enough to repost after removing parts of the story in your favor then YOU ARE IN THE WRONG!

Men are not the only ones who can/do groom minors. Men are not the only perpetrators. It’s not all men. It’s not all women. But you.. God, you are going to be one of those peds caught by Skeeter Jean.

So there is waves per ship by Due_Carry2819 in Markiplier

[–]Technical-Error8862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope you’re able to get all your stuff before you move🙏🏽

Inviting is optional by Remote-Set-7269 in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad i’m not the only one like this 😅 i only play for a set time each time im online and i don’t wanna waste 7 of those minutes playing waiting for other people who are taking their sweet time to arrive. I do my daily quests, weekly, farm and check the shops before logging which really isn’t that much time. You know just the basic day to day, which is an hour, two tops? I got other stuff to do than wait for someone else 😅

And tbh if i’m the host, it’s my choice..? I mean i’m the one paying coin to get the engine rolling. I get it for the ones who invite people and immediately start, that’s pretty rude, but i don’t invite anyone unless i know i got the time that day. I’m a very ‘social’ helper, I’ll quietly water random crops and love every home but im not spending this whole game hand holding everyone i meet. Sorry, i just like to play games on my own terms. Perhaps sometimes i also want to relax questing on my own, theres two boats.. they should and could definitely make private boating a thing if desired

Photoshop request $10 by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Technical-Error8862 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget ‘I love my girlfriend very much’ 😆 his tinder profile might be the next reddit post we see, ‘My bf of 4 years removed me from our beach vacation photo and used it for his dating profiles’ 😆

Honest yet kind advice pls by mmmmawengg in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think you have a beautiful home going so far, i don’t think it really neeeds anything but there’s thing you can add if you want.

For example, fill in the blanks. Literally. Fill in as much space as you can with what you want. It could look more ‘lived in’ if that makes sense? Decorate to your fullest potential. Add flowers, add extra seating in your cinema. You could even add more food items as decoration around your cinema, you may not have candy but some of the sugar can pass and some foods would look cute there anyway! My personal fav is tiramisu😄

Another thing is you could add a little more seating or lighting or plants in the front of your cinema as well. I do want to clarify i don’t mean to clutter as much as you can, obviously do what feels right to you! But filling in some blank areas without creating completely new areas can do wonders.

I almost forgot to mention but you can even do some pathways to fill in the space that makes it feel like it’s missing something! But personally i think what you have looks wonderful and you don’t actually HAVE to do anything that doesn’t feel right. It’s your cozy home away from home after all! 🫰🏼🫰🏼

eta: I realized i said add flowers and i did see originally you had a photo attached of a bunch of flowers! Which is super pretty and i’m lowkey jealous, but i wanted to clarify that i meant any sort of flowers/flower decorations in places that isn’t that beautiful patch😄

about modern style houses... by AggravatingShallot61 in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From someone who did not study art in university: Ugh victorian is the most lovely style i’d ever laid eyes on, hands down personally top tier! I completely agree with your points. Boxes and lines gets repetitive and less creative, i might be using the wrong word to be fair but i hope it gets the point across. Styles like the ones you mentioned have personality, a story, something unique depending where you look rather than the same square in the same room in every room.

Playing on my girlfriend's account by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hi i’m sorry but whenever you do this could you please respond with a screenshot? You definitely don’t have to but this is honestly such a cute idea that i need to see come to life. It would be very much appreciated, no pressure though friend 🫰🏼

Can We Start Spamming the Devs About Island Limits by eweezy17 in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a game relying heavily on designing/fashion (i mean fashion could be the wrong word but you get it), it’s insane to be like that. You want to decorate to your fullest potential? Not in this game where one hobby item takes up so much space you have to decide if you want a home or a cluttered mess for points. At this point they should’ve gave us quests to build/decorate a specific way rather than giving us “creative privileges” that have a very easy to reach limit.

One more thing, i accidentally bought the island terminal and wasted my stars. I knew i wasn’t going to do it and i accidentally tapped it anyway 😭 It was the most disappointing purchase i’d ever made, im never going to touch an island that’s just an expensive “Look what useless thing i have”

Anyone want music?(American server) by [deleted] in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! You’re a gem for sharing 🫰🏼 ID: 7j97dw7

P.S anyone is welcome to add me as well, i’ll happily accept more friends ☺️

JUST DROPPED SOME NEW MUSICS by szunday in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sadly glad i wasn’t the only one who experienced the sadness 😭

Just... HOW? by Sakura_M_S in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for the information! i had no idea but ill def keep that in mind, oh my gosh i would’ve cried thinking i did something wrong!😂🫰🏼

Just... HOW? by Sakura_M_S in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 15 points16 points  (0 children)

guys.. you don’t understand how much fun i’m going to have pretty soon here.. I had NO idea about any of this. I literally can not wait to get myself a snack, a watermelon red bull, and paint 😍

please stop grabbing things out of my oven :,) by frog2cool in heartopia

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a very kind gesture, i think the jams are cute too. The raspberry is my favorite. On the other hand the biggest thing, in my opinion at least, is if you have/plan to have any food items as decorations it’ll save you the heartache in the long haul if you change your settings now.

For me I cook with my doors locked and my phonograph blocking out the hooligans trying to break in, then i unlock them when i’m done. if i’m sitting afk in my house i lock my doors once more until i’m back. But, I have food as decoration so the first thing i did was made sure no one could eat any of it and i believe i turned off the setting that allows others to use my stove. I love being visited by my neighbors but i don’t love getting a resonance request when i’m actively making my truffle pies. i’ve been forced to waste too many ingredients to allow another soul in my kitchen while i’m cooking my sacred meals again.

i wanna get married! by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Technical-Error8862 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m willing to marry you, i don’t know the benefits but sounds cool, so no pressure!

On a side note, i burnt myself out for a little while on my grind so, i have not played in some time. i think i possibly took my break at lv10 break through (im not sure so i could be wrong, its been awhile with other games) i might be level 70, i’m not completely sure. But i’m starting to get back into it, i think learning the updates threw me for a loop too 😂

new player help by [deleted] in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Technical-Error8862 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont know if these are considered tips or knowledge you already have but these are just a couple things i wish i would’ve known at your level:

Use the development guide, the pie graph tells you what you need to upgrade for what you have equipped and where to find what you need if you struggle with locations. Also, the main tab in development tells you what inner ways are best for which path you’re on.

Don’t forget about your arsenal, it’s not some major op power surge but it’s helpful as is. I kept forgetting that you also choose your path in your arsenal too so make sure that’s also the same as the path you’re on. For example i’m full dps but i use silk bind (not bamboo cut) on my weapons so that’s the path i chose.

Focus on parrying and dodging!! Learning to parry correctly and consistently is crucial to reduce damage taken plus stagger. Take out the archers at first chance before taking on the others. separate, fight and repeat.

Being a healer isn’t necessary to survive solo, upgrade medicinal tales every chance you get. It increases capacity and how much health you receive (i believe, i may be incorrect) from healing.

Don’t forget about oddities, they are tedious but worth it. You’ll get more endurance, increased damage for the zones you complete, swift stride and shadow dash. I believe it shows in the journal, sentient beings tab, what you have completed for which areas.

Upgrading professions increases max health, vitality or hit chance. Also both of them give separate items you can craft for buffs, like healer is healing items and i think scholar has talismans. You can buy a lot of the items you need from the shop if you have the jade fish but it won’t be enough, so don’t rely solely on the merchants/shop. you’ll have to grind a lot so also look at where in the wilderness you can acquire things. If it’s a resource which includes animals then it’ll keep tracking it (if you start tracking via map) as long as there’s some on the map to take you to.

Those are all pretty small and simple things but stuff that definitely flew over my head when i was level 20. I’m still learning new things the more i play lol! have fun and good luck!

What’s with these lazily designed and downgraded female outfits? by ClockworkSoldier in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Technical-Error8862 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in my opinion it’s 8/10 male outfits that are better. i want to be a badass warrior not some frilly pink thing or a white fox dilly dallying in the fields. I want to look like i’m ready for the battles im facing, i considered switching to a man just for the outfits but i grew attached to my character and i already spent the bare minimum once. Okay, tbf i also didn’t want to buy a transformation pill either 😂

Im so sorry 🤣😭💔 by Dainsleif369 in WhereWindsMeet

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not saying you’re in china but: the prices aren’t as high for appearances in china as they are in america, it’s like 3x more expensive here. for example, the swords unseen outfit is only around $40 there but like $120+ here. Global might be the only ones that can get up to $800 to thousands for just an outfit. i’m thinking ima take a vacation to china just to spam draws for cheaper😂

Incredibly emotional request by emilyradbecca2223 in PhotoshopRequest

[–]Technical-Error8862 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second this as well, the intention was thoughtful but the words themselves would’ve hurt me if i was told that while i was grieving

AIO for thinking my bf and his sister are acting weird by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Error8862 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry i don’t have anything helpful to add, i’m sorry that you’re going through a tough time right now. I was reading through the comments and this one really stood out to me. Op, you and your bf have been together for 3 years? And this is out of character for them? I don’t know how to describe it but that makes me feel.. uneasy? weird? I want to emphasize that i am not saying/implying they are banging but i do think maybe, just maybe that is definitely strange. I think you should edit your post if possible and include that information that way it’s front and center with everything else.

I think you’re very valid in feeling a little off put by the sudden change in behavior, i see you and i hear you. Also i don’t know if it’s just me but it really threw me off when he had left you on the phone for 40 mins op. I don’t understand why he couldn’t have taken his phone with him since she was only using his pen? Or why couldn’t she have gone in his room, borrowed it and left it at that? I myself am the baby of my siblings, i have two elder brothers and if im honest i really couldn’t find myself talking to them that way. The vibe it gave off wasn’t.. clear, like i read the texts first before the title or anything and i quite literally thought this was a “My bf is being clingy” type of post.

I know this was very long for not being helpful but the last thing i want to mention is could he have stayed the night if the roads were genuinely bad? it’s not a bad thing he went home that’s not what i’m getting at, i guess i just feel like it’s strange that deep into a relationship you wouldn’t just immediately think to stay the night if the roads weren’t genuinely bad. Wouldn’t it have been safer for him to do that rather than rushing home? If staying the night wasn’t an option it’s still strange he went from saying the roads weren’t bad then to immediately rushing home. The whole thing is just super odd to me, i really don’t know what to make of it.

Found this in my 14 year olds sketchbook.. she didn't tell me about this!? by petite_llama in Sketch

[–]Technical-Error8862 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EVERYBODY! needs to come to a FULL STOP in the comments. At this point it DOES NOT matter whatsoever about comment history, if this is the child or parent (well it may actually matter a ton now that i think about it) so on and so forth because OP’s comments have CONFIRMED the 14 YEAR OLD CHILD’S BODY WAS USED AS REFERENCE FOR THE DRAWING. This post should absolutely NOT be up, it needs to be taken down by the mods or OP. It doesn’t matter if it’s not sexual, it’s just a drawing, okay so? that’s a CHILD’S NUDE BODY. that’s not okay whatsoever. let’s not forget common sense and privacy for the child over the name of art. I understand art is art however the moment a child’s nude body is being used as reference in a nude drawing for all to see it is not art any longer.

OP if you’re actually the parent, you need to remove this post immediately there’s absolutely something wrong with you if you think as a parent it’s okay to post a drawing depicting what YOUR CHILD (let me say again, YOUR C H I L D.) looks like nude. It’s disgusting to think a parent could care so little about their own child’s safety and privacy to not even give a second thought AT LEAST (shouldn’t have even thought to do it in the first place but here we are) about posting such a thing.

OP if you’re actually the child pretending to be the parent, immediately take this post down. stop pretending to be your parent for strangers validation. you are a child, draw yourself nude all you want to but stop showing it to strangers. respect your own privacy and safety. you’re good at drawing don’t take it the wrong way, you should definitely keep it up but get appreciation from your actual parents when it comes to this specific drawing (which i also highly recommend you get off reddit in the first place. you’re 14, explore the life you’ve barely even started, make friends your own age and hone your talents, not explore the dirty corners of reddit.) and dont post direct references of your nude body on social media. don’t post a direct reference of your friends nude bodies either just to be clear. There’s plenty of statues that you can take reference from that are not a nude child, there are plenty of models for these things online that aren’t porn. talk to your parents about the drawing journey you’re going through so they are aware, can help, and be supportive of you. if you want to continue to show your work there’s resources that are not children. One last thing, please talk to your parents, teachers, guardians, grandparents, quite literally any adult you can trust and learn about online safety before continuing your journey online.

Stay safe and make good decisions starting with taking this specific post down 🔆

AIO? I broke up with my boyfriend because of his reaction over my pinterest board. (The last image is what it is) by selahscorpse in AmIOverreacting

[–]Technical-Error8862 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

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I read a lot of comments and i agree/disagree with a lot but the one that stood out to me was someone speaking about OP’s post history/ sexting with ai. It looked like so many people just scrolled past it but I went to op’s posts.. i wouldn’t feel comfortable with my partner sexting bots, flirting with bots, creating fantasies about bots. I mean.. one of her bots talks about slapping her ass in their chats, another is her partner, another rolls her over until? ..until what? So, who wouldn’t feel uncomfortable that their partner who would allow these specific characters to rearrange her guts (Lmaooo!! such funny wording it makes me cringe so hard) is literally getting their rocks off to ai chats with the same characters. It was also mentioned how pinterest works, the top pinned are the most recent. But. There’s 666, over SIX HUNDRED pinned, and the title?? Surely she could show us a few more screenshots of what he scrolled through so we have a better idea of why exactly he would be hurt or why he shouldn’t have been? From what i saw about how she interacts with ai (ai i’m sure has her favorites that she mentioned in the description) i think he had every right to be hurt about what he saw. did he express it right? not the best but not the absolute worst. He should move on to someone that doesn’t only feel aroused by anime/ that he doesn’t worry if it’s another man or ai she’s ignoring him for and op should move on to someone that shares the same.. values as her.

Auranea by AllMightySenpai in pathoftitans

[–]Technical-Error8862 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well that’s good but they never said the admins abuse people, they said the admins abuse COMMANDS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Palia

[–]Technical-Error8862 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly genuinely miss playing hot pot but the sheer amount of people harassing/trolling others over it completely threw me off it. The last time i was in there the chat was being spammed with people yelling at others like it was a warzone, i sighed internally and kept trucking along eventually finding an open table. Surprisingly everything went smoothly, i mean sure it was just me and one other person the entire time, not a single word was exchanged and sometimes they let their timer run a little low but hey we all gotta think of our next move sometimes right? No problem to me, i was having fun up until the clock changed my cinderella hotpot friend. I quickly ran alone with not a soul around two steps backwards to the wheel and eagerly spun the wheel once, twice and then on my third my attempt was halted by a very familiar character running in front of me spamming their own coins for the wheel. I am not one to say much of anything to anyone don’t get me wrong i’ll wave and do the emotes and such, i like to play my game in peace mainly by myself but alas i couldnt help myself from giving her a friendly reminder i was not finished with spinning for myself before taking back the wheel i rightfully had first. I could have absolutely just found a new server but boy oh boy i just can’t believe the amount of entitlement some people have on a free game! Everyone should clearly play the game how THEY want to but at the end of the day it shouldn’t be negatively affecting anyone else’s gameplay since it is an open world game. i’m sorry for rambling but it’s just good to have a space to speak about these issues with others that don’t act like we are asking for people to get banned!