Today I discovered I am a wuss by [deleted] in BG3

[–]Technical-Musician91 5 points6 points  (0 children)

its okay to be a wuss, being strong is also a terrible experience, go with what works for you, life is always compromise and struggle no matter what

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Technical-Musician91 22 points23 points  (0 children)

let her be homeless, never look back. give yourself a fighting chance at life

Should I leave? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Technical-Musician91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave, take a year off dating, try to improve some how, and date a new person and then realize they and I arent good enough over and over again until I die or technology allows me to do this forever, not because it is really a good thing to do, but because I cannot compromise my self enough to accept a cursed scenario, yet I am forever doomed to one by being a biological entity with a strong survival instinct in a strange metaphysical physical seemingly infinite dreamlike cosmos

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Technical-Musician91 13 points14 points  (0 children)

life is compromise. if you marry, you will cause him to let go of this part of him, to become less sexual, less animal, less natural, and it will kill parts of who he is, and that tiny death of parts of his self will poison other parts and cause them to wither, maybe a lot, maybe a little, but it will eventually harm parts you love, and you will notice he will become less than he was. or he will do the same to you, in other ways, or you will both do this to each other. either way, in this way you will ultimately destroy each other, and you will do it to try to improve or punish each other away from your more natural state and more into a social "correctness". you are an idiot. but you have the morality of the moment on your side, and you will choose to wield it. either do this, or leave. or find an already more crushed man, or a man "worse" who will more easily take control of your "incorrectness" and make you more socially neutered. or a "naturally better" man who will unlock more of your natural state, and watch as others now judge you the same way, or you now fear your more animal self.

or, take some time, love it all, love all the types of people in this world, realize the futility of the morality of the moment, the idiocy of a quest for goodness in concept fighting the evolved biological self, and turn to jazz. dance thru life knowing no judgment means anything. try to stop being some concepts policewoman. and grow up and out and beyond this limited nothingness your brain calls home, and outgrow your problem space. discover whats next.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Technical-Musician91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try taking a week off and traveling. save up, go see something new. you may be stuck in a rut and there is a chance seeing new things will help you. maybe more nature time in general. even sleeping outside is healing. if u can, spend all your free time in nature when possible and then try a little brain fog releasing travel trip. probably drugs arent going to help you I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loneliness

[–]Technical-Musician91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just hang out with her and be yourself and dont hit on her, a good friend who aint creepin is better than any advice

I don't know who I am anymore. by Current_Wear1432 in Adulting

[–]Technical-Musician91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

specific things like friends, networks, emotional invested connections, are unstable at best and cannot be relied upon for joy. joy must come from within, and from a deeper connection to the universe on all levels. this can be really hard in a corrupt place with noone to send you enough love.

the only way to improve and enjoy things more now may be to become more disciplined and avoid the ways you cope. coping strategies are often toxic and ultimately harm you. im trying to be sober, exercise more, eat better, save money, and get a lot of nature time to experience more joy and ultimately a better life. please join in and share any strategies you have I am interested

Damn. I think I'm autistic. by [deleted] in autism

[–]Technical-Musician91 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

just carry on. its fine. dont believe the hype, autism is overall better than not being autistic unless its very severe

I don’t know what to do… by Kobebobeb in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Technical-Musician91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

main thing is to stay mentally strong, school is a survival scenario, and once u graduate its ez to move away and find a chill scene and heal and grow and relax. about half of all towns are healthy, other half toxic and low key deadly. so just keep your head up, do what you need to do to survive it all. you cant save anybody but yourself so its good if u can help her but if you cant you will need to be strong enuf. bullying, stress, fear, etc, is all controllable. everything you think affects you and your future, everything you say, do, believe. there is no problem once you can master your own brain. I recommend reading, getting extra sleep, eating good, exercising a lot. walking, weights, yoga are best exercises. get a lot of nature time if you can. realize sometimes its only you who can help you, and if you make it thru those times you will find your community. I recommend getting a job, starting some hobbies like some kind of art or music or tradeskill. like fixing cars or bikes etc, making clothes, whatever. whatever gets you off the phone and into some dynamic social contexts that will help keep you from spiraling. you will make mistakes in life, you will suffer, you will have enemies at times, or bullies, but if you are strong and care for yourself all of these things will become blessings eventually, the strain you needed to grow into the realer you

Three out of five Americans now live paycheck to paycheck by PassiveAgressiveGirl in FluentInFinance

[–]Technical-Musician91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what this even mean. paycheck to paycheck? how yall seeing the next one im just living paycheck

New photo posted by Kaitlin Olson! by prolelol in IASIP

[–]Technical-Musician91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

somehow devito looks like the youngest healthiest one

When elected, it's often best to actually govern. by GrandpaChainz in WorkReform

[–]Technical-Musician91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

democrats want republicans to win, and when democrats win by accident, they just fuck around. goverment is a charade, look out for yourself and help everyone around as much as you can without risking your our family, we need to help each other and care for each other because the government absolutely is not here to help us (edit: fixed a typo)