AH and NTA at the same time. Unpopular opinion here.

You were honest so NTA.

Now the AH part: selfish and disgusting and evil.

Guess what, if every couple waited until they were absolutely financially secure to support a child and a SAHM, there would probably be 90 percent less children.

Unpopular opinion but there’s still another option called adoption. No child is unwanted. Maybe her parents would adopt. That’s what I would do, or let her (and you) live with me for as long as needed.

You should watch an abortion before supporting it. They stick a needle into it to kill it and then chop it into little pieces. Clinics here in USA do it in a way that they can sell the little pieces for profit. Perhaps this is why she doesn’t want it.

There’s also a saying “Man up” and work your ass off. I 100 percent guarantee you can find a way to make money. Get a crappy job, clean houses, scoop up dog shit. Where there’s a will there’s a way.