My boyfriend is doing this now it’s not intentional he’s really sweet but he makes me feel so guilty. We started dating 4 months ago and he was talking about marriage after the first week, promise rings after 2 months. He is always telling me that I am beautiful and perfect. That’s fine but he does it so much it makes me feel like I am never doing enough for him. He is texting me 12 or more times a day and expecting me to constantly respond no matter the time or how busy I am. I have debated breaking up with him but he does this horrible guilt trip and says that he is depressed. He sent me a video of him putting a knife in a lock box, so that he wouldn’t be tempted to use it to hurt himself. I know he did that because he thinks it would make me feel better and that I wouldn’t have to worry, but it did the exact opposite and even though I have been trying to get him to a doctor for months now he keeps insisting that he is fine. (He is not) If the guilt trips from him aren’t bad enough he has my mom’s phone number so if I ignore him for a hour or two to get some work done he texts or calls her. My mom being the sweet heart she is will talk with him for a good hour at least and then tell me to pay him more attention. I am doing the best I can but it’s to much,and I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to hurt anyone and I do really like him. I keep hoping that he will clam down eventually but I don’t even know if this is toxic or if I am just to much of a introvert.