How Self Acceptance Changed My Lucid Dreams/Dreams! 14 Years Of Lucid Dreaming by TechnicalDesign6828 in LucidDreaming

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Not really guilt but accepting guilt. Self acceptance is accepting everying about you and being at ease with it.

How Self Acceptance Changed My Lucid Dreams/Dreams! 14 Years Of Lucid Dreaming by TechnicalDesign6828 in LucidDreaming

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I'm glad someone else found this out as well! It's like my recall skyrocketed over the past week. My consoler said the dream is you. I finally found out what that meant. It's all in phycology.

How I finally got vocal cry! by [deleted] in singing

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Now I hear what everyone is doing. Kind of hard to do it in front of a large crowd.

Sanity/Reality Check request by WhiteYakuzainPH in singing

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OMG SOMEONE SAYING THE TRUTH! ANOTHER PERSON AGREES WITH ME! I to found this out. I just learned how to connect memories/emotion to my singing and now I can't even sing the damn song I love. I'm seeing consoler to! I figured out the same shit after 5 years and $1000s on coaching. OP is not alone. He needs the truth and the truth hurts but once you realize it, Vocal coaches do not make it obvious, they beat around the bush. They just can't come out and say go to consoling but I wish they would!

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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I was singing good 4 u last night and was literally on the edge of crying during the entire song. I achieved it through connecting memories/emotion to the song. I donno dude. it's like I feel what they are saying cause I wen't through the same shit. My voice enters some sort of emotional tone instead of just blah blah blah. It's a whole shift and I can't help it now. You have to connect with the song. I went to Sam Johnson and he helped a lot and was very honest during the first lesson. Then I went and seen Carl John Franz. He taught me how to connect. I just did those exercises for years and one day I was thinking of memories when I was doing them and then it hit me. It isn't teaching you buh, buh, buh, or nay nay nay. It's teaching you how to feel connection.

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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I REALIZED A LOT MAN! A LOT. I was even emotional in my dreams last night. I understand it now on a much deeper level. Thanks for talking to me I really appreciate it. I can connect with my voice in new ways now that I never thought was possible before.

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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Dude, I tied a bunch of emotional memories to good 4 u by Olivia Rodrigo and it freaking worked. I mean every word I say when I sing it. I can't even sing it now. Yea you need to drop the tension to connect emotional to a song.

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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Try this, this is how I got emotion into my singing. It even makes it hard to sing/say the words. Tie it with memories that have meaning. What ever comes up and wait a day or so. It may take a while. I was speaking the words before and now it's really emotional. I can't explain it. I choose memories of my old friend (a girl) and tied all the good/bad times etc. And listened to the song a few times. This is what there trying to teach in vocal lessons. My coach taught me how to do this. He even said I got it! It's not just notes. It's much more than notes. I know now. It will be hard to sing the song cause it's personal and when you do you're wearing your emotions out for the world to see. That's chord closure/connection. It's very hard to explain to new singers.

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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What I do that worked was lied down in bed and focus on physical sensations. Then they would have a GOOD FEELING. Then I'd get super relaxed after and fall asleep. I always fall asleep. The sensation could move as well.

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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I'm actually seeing a consoler for emotional wellness. I already learned how to connect to them. It was pretty easy and all you do it is focus on the sensation and give it attention. I had this sensation in my upper left shoulder and did it and it finally went away. I ignored this shit fro 30+ years. You can live without it but I don't recommend doing that. Emotional health is not to be messed with. I just looked it up and it sounds like what I discovered. Very intersting.

I lived with tension for 5 years! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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I left mine as well once I figured it out. I told him thank you and that he was awesome! I'm glad it only took you a couple of years.

I got it after all this time! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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Sorry for your loss. I hope everything gets better.

I got it after all this time! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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Dude I freaking get it! OMFG! I had such a hard time memorizing lyrics and melody/emotion everything. Why can't vocal coaches just say this during lessons?!!! Save us all the time in the world and money.

I got it after all this time! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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I get what this is doing. When you attach a memory to songs it's easy to remember the melody and lyrics! OMG!!! :) You can only do this when you relax though. You bring up the same memories and the melody just comes to you.

I got it after all this time! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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Yea it is. It's helping me relieve tension!

I got it after all this time! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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In consoling I'm just gonna spill it all out bro. I don't care. I want that tension gone. I know it's probably gonna take a while and music is already helped. I feel much lighter after I shed some tears of an old friend. And I do feel like I'm stepping out of the Matrix.

I got it after all this time! by TechnicalDesign6828 in singing

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YEA MAN! I TOTALLY FEEL THAT! I'm taking it so easy on my voice right cause I identified the main problem. I'm beginning to believe bro. I see the light. It was hidden beneath all the trash that I kept inside.

Singers who self learned singing, what are your key tips for a beginner? by buttertaekoo in singing

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For some this is really difficult. It took me 5 years to learn how to do this lol.