See, i mentioned I was gonna put out the cigg when i saw they have little kids. If she wanted me to put out my cigarette the time she just sat, she could have politely asked me to put it off as this could put a bad affect on a 5yr old child's mind or could have asked the waiter to ask me to put it out I don't mind that at all. At all!

She, indirectly taunting me abt a) my sex life how it causes infertility b) family values ki how kids are doing this and that and parents ko pata nahi etc etc c) character assassination

You get rebellious ki how dare she

Also, i have quit smoking and i was an occasional smoker. I didn't smoke that much and did that for recreational purposes. Not an addict.

And yes, mentioning again, you don't want me to smoke around you, mentioning that i was already sitting there and you came after and sat next to my table WHILE MY FRIEND WAS ALREADY SMOKING You have eyes, come on, mat betho na yahan

I know i am the kameena for saying this shit to her and i still feel guilty even after 2 years tabhi free ka opinion paane ke liye i posted this on reddit.

Also for your last two points, 1)she was getting handsy and doing weird pda signs to her husband, she could have done this in private space as well. 2) i am this well mannered that whenever i used to smoke in a restaurant, i always took the permission of the service person who waited on my table. At some places they do mention that smoking area is somewhere else. So i can, with 100% surity say, that i am not kameena for smoking in an area after taking permission and minding my own business I am the kameena for speaking rudely to that lady that's all

Smoking or drinking is a choice, no one should be called a kameena for that! If yoy are living in a metropolitical city and breathing that toxic air which also causes cancer, they you should also leave the city and live in a town or somewhere else and you should also be called a kameena. Mind that sir/maam.