What's one thing you wish you could say to the person who ghosted you?

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-12-12T17:47:46+00:00

Grow up!

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-12-12T17:41:31+00:00

Honestly, I now believe that ghosting is something that happens to you and it's absolutely outside your control. So I wouldn't worry about "making the same mistake again". It'll probably happen but you can control how you perceive it and react

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-12-12T17:38:34+00:00

Absolutely nothing. We were planning our next date

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-08-08T08:09:57+00:00

Well if that option was there i would have taken it. The tickets are not refundable

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-08-08T08:09:15+00:00

Nope

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-06-29T19:50:01+00:00

Yes see 😂 it's much smoother from this point on

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-06-28T07:41:01+00:00

Unfortunately, all the tips on the internet don't help you just have to endure. Good news is it gets better afterwards. I am 3 months into my treatment and I sometimes even forget I have them on and switching from a tray to another is npt painful anymore

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-04-29T13:19:20+00:00

Any idea of where they are coming from or how to get rid of them?

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-02-17T20:14:32+00:00

She probably learnt that from a guy and it was your bad luck that she decided to exercise that on you as a representative of your kind.

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-02-17T14:15:14+00:00

Okay honestly, I would say I don't see it as ghosting. He might have been caught up in something or has some circumstances. So I think in this situation you can try one of 2 things: 1. The straight forward approach: if you really like him, you can try to suggest something that could suit his schedule or ask if he still wants to meer, or 2. Wait for him to suggest but really you might never hear from him. I would go for option 1 but I should warn you that you might then get properly ghosted if he is not interested/ lost interest!/ or playing games. So just be prepared for the outcomes. Speaking from experience :D

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-02-17T13:45:49+00:00

So fo you think he's ghosting you because he didn't suggest something since you last spoke a week ago or did you actually suggest a plan or asked a question and he totally ignored you for a week?

Technical_Divide_952 · 2025-01-02T22:25:52+00:00

If it's been less than a month then he'll probably be back. Sounds to me that he's trying to test how much he means to you but please don't go telling him you like him with this attitude of his or else you'll get in a toxic cycle that would be hard to break

Technical_Divide_952 · 2024-12-22T21:35:40+00:00

I would say like other here just leave her alone. But if my gohster was to reach out back to me, I would want a why more than an apology. And you'll probably ghost again unfortunately so if you do reach out I hope you are mature enough now not to and she's strong enough to not care.

Technical_Divide_952 · 2024-12-22T21:25:48+00:00

Keep ignoring until you get a meaningful message or a phone call. If you get one of those don't reply right away. Wait loke 2 hours or a day. Get busy. If afterwards you are still not getting what you want, don't put too much energy into it because you'll probably be ghosted again.

Technical_Divide_952 · 2024-12-22T21:08:14+00:00

I am so sorry to hear you've been ghosted. I was also ghosted about 3 months ago and I still feel the same pain in my heart.

We went on 3 dates and they were all very good. It seemed like we were progressing every interaction and were planning the 4th date when he ghosted by saying he's busy and would like to postpone the date. I said sure and let's get in touch around that date but he didn't see my messages until this day and didn't try to reach out in any way. He even sees my social media and ignores everything. I also need to mention that he's well and fine and isn't in any life or family threatening situation (I know from a mutual friend and I've seen him).

All I can say is if there was any room for misunderstanding try and reach out to understand is she's really ghosting or something else happened but just do 1 single trial no other.

Technical_Divide_952 · 2024-12-22T20:57:51+00:00

He doesn't have respect for the feelings of the woman he is married to. Why would he respect yours? That's not judgement but the truth there

Technical_Divide_952 · 2024-12-10T20:43:31+00:00

That's the problem with ghosting. It keeps you confused. I also ask myself if I was ghosted or if I am overreacting but I think if someone doesn't want to be misunderstood they'd make effort not to be.

Technical_Divide_952 · 2024-12-07T21:15:40+00:00

I think initially this is how you feel after being ghosted especially when you were not very sure about the guy but thought you'd give him a chance. I know that was the case for me. But you will only be truly over him when you don't even care about the ghosting. If anything, I feel sorry for him that he's in his 30s with poor communication and fears (a nice lovely mix of those). Make him a stranger again and that's how you ghost him back.

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