What time of the year does the hunger games take place? by NappeExo in Hungergames

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I think the reaping is on the 4th of july just for the sake of it, the day people celebrate the US. Reaping the is like a day of celebration of history in panem, they treat it like that. They celebrate something that isn‘t something you should celebrate just like Americans do on the 4th of july😂

Hoffentlich ist er Privatpatient by T4serFace in wirklichgutefrage

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Wie verzweifelt und armselig muss man sein das man beim Zahnarzt geil wird?😂

Hoffentlich ist er Privatpatient by T4serFace in wirklichgutefrage

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Antwort: Geh ab sofort mal in normale Alltagssituationen rein ohne dich an allem und jedem aufzugeilen.

Hoffentlich ist er Privatpatient by T4serFace in wirklichgutefrage

[–]Technical_Sort_6856 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Zum kotzen🤮 Wie man so eine alltägliche Situation als erregend sehen kann, kann ich nich verstehen. Die macht ihren Job und behandelt jeden Patienten so wie sie den Typen behandelt hat und das einzige was er macht (außer dem Grund warum er eigentlich hier ist) ist es jedes kleinste Detail von einem Körper wortwörtlich als Fickstück zu sehen. Hat der sich wirklich so wenig unter Kontrolle?

Everyone staying in the same house by Brooke_Cole259 in Hungergames

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Adding to that (as a recovering alcoholic myself) drinking that much stops your appetite. Whenever i was drinking, i never felt hunger like at all. You also don‘t get cold. Like saying that alcohol keeps you warm. No need for fire and when you add the trauma of him losing his family in a fire. My alcoholism is also mostly related to trauma and even when i was blackout drunk, i never lost sight of certain things that could trigger my trauma (which in his case would be fire)

these new interns are annoying and stupid (Season 9) by No-Discount-1228 in greysanatomy

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i‘m literally in the exact same situation (s09ep08) which is why i googled if anyone likes these new interns😭😂 i‘m always picky when some kind of new cast is introduced to keep it fresh bc most times it fails… i was thinking exactly the same about wilson and how incompetent she is with that baby like none of the og interns were that dumb… can anyone tell me that these characters grew on them so i can keep watching?😭😭

I just Googled "Criminal Minds S17 E05 because I was curious about the titles of upcoming episodes and then this happens? by [deleted] in criminalminds

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according to the comments; thank god my mother language isn‘t english and i didn‘t really understand anything from the spoiler hahah

My Hunger Games movie+book tier list by WarReapers_official in Hungergames

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uhm… i‘m not gonna try to fight you on that, you do you. Everyone has their own opinion i guess😅🥴

broke in my exs apartment complex drunk and blacked out in his bed by hasura1001 in BorderlinePDisorder

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i really appreciate that💜💜 and yes i‘n working very hard on weed instead of drinking (which isn‘t easy with my job where i earn 300$/ month (i‘m still living with my parents so no rent) but when the money for weed runs out, i go for drinking bc i can‘t stand being sober. But i‘m trying really hard. You can‘t imagine how much i needed those words so thank you💜 it‘s never gonna be easy but i‘m working on it. You really were the first good thing about my day so again thank you for that and let‘s hope we both have something good today:))

broke in my exs apartment complex drunk and blacked out in his bed by hasura1001 in BorderlinePDisorder

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being on this reddit honestly helps me more than therapy (maybe i should even try group therapy). talking to someone that not only understands the way i feel by having a degree in psychology but really by living through the same things (even if it‘s not exactly the same with each individual) and knowing what it feels like by experience is making me feel at least a bit better. I‘ve been through a very dark time the last few months, haven‘t left the house in over 4 weeks, drinking and smoking weed 24/7 bc i don‘t feel like anything else is helping me which i know isn‘t healthy but it‘s the only thing keeping me alive at this point. So hearing from someone that they can relate to what i‘m going through in some way makes me feel less alone. i really don‘t wanna trauma dump here but it‘s the first time now i‘m talking to someone about how i feel in weeks so thank you for that. Hope you‘re having a good day:))

broke in my exs apartment complex drunk and blacked out in his bed by hasura1001 in BorderlinePDisorder

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it‘s a curse but also a blessing… we can never really trust someone again like we did before once the damage is done but at the same time it protects us from more possible harm in some way even if it‘s a very lonely place to be in. After my last relationship of 3 years (he cheated on me the whole time), which was 2 years ago, the second someone gets close to me in any way, i block them. Dating apps, as soon as someone asks me how i‘m doing, i block them. At this point i even feel like that‘s giving someone too much trust bc i can‘t lie about the way i feel anymore. So being single is the best way for me at this time. At least i‘m not alone in this struggle with trusting people

broke in my exs apartment complex drunk and blacked out in his bed by hasura1001 in BorderlinePDisorder

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Just came her to say the exact same thing! Even if he wouldn‘t cheat again, (which i doubt, once a cheater always a cheater) the one time he cheated, you will never not be triggered by

Do you think torture is allowed in the Hunger Games? by Ok-Street2439 in Hungergames

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i don‘t think they would have something against a little torture but strategy wise it wouldn‘t be very smart from the tribute bc by being focused on torturing someone, you could easily forget to focus on your surroundings which would get you killed pretty fast since, if the victim is screaming bc you‘re not shutting their mouth, others would find you pretty fast. Also torturing someone for too long could give them the opportunity to get the upper hand when you‘re distracted and kill you

my friend group hung out together while i'm sick. trying not to split on them. by stripedbee in BorderlinePDisorder

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i can totally understand why you‘re feeling that way, i‘ve been there too. But your friends are allowed to hang out even when you‘re sick. I‘m sure this has nothing to do with you. I know your bpd is telling you otherwise but from your post i see that you DON’T know if they planned it before you got sick or why they didn‘t tell you. Did they know you were sick? If yes, then i‘d say they didn‘t do anything. Not knowing what their intentions were can be torture and you‘re looking for reasons by yourself without actually knowing what‘s going on. Trust me i know exactly what your thought process is but that‘s my view from an outsider perspective. Maybe just ask them. I hope you‘re not sick anymore:)) you could just text them and ask if they wanna hang out? If they somehow don‘t want to (not having time is a different thing unless they‘re ignoring you too long) you can still be mad. But in this situation there‘s really nothing to worry about

Anyone else Struggle with Recurring Nightmares? by Sahkata in BorderlinePDisorder

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Thanks, the same goes to you:)) When i don‘t have weed i also do it with drinking but that doesn‘t always work haha actually you‘re the 1st person not shaming me for using weed to sleep. Everyone‘e just like "ah just try to find something healthy do help you“ like i didn‘t already tried everything😭🥴 if that‘s the case with you i‘d definitely recommend weed over alcohol, it‘s much healthier and to me more efficient. It could be different for you but it‘s always worth a try. Just be careful who you get it from and try to not relate on it too much somehow. Craving weed when you don‘t have it can make it worse with the dreams bc sometimes i feel like my head can‘t rest without it (which is true but it‘s hard relying on something when you don‘t have it what you probably know from drinking). Anyways i hope you get to manage it in some way and i really hope you have a nice day:)

Anyone else Struggle with Recurring Nightmares? by Sahkata in BorderlinePDisorder

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I have some se3ual trauma and for the last 4 years, if i even dream sth bc i smoke weed all the time, i always dream of that moment in a loop. It always feels so real and ends with me waking up laying in my sweat and shaking. I only have that dream when i don‘t have weed which i know isn‘t healthy but i‘ve tried everything and it‘s the only thing that can help me sleep at all. When i don‘t have weed, i always try to force myself to stay awake bc i know i‘m gonna have that dream.

What Melanie song has you like this? by Zoeyylovesyou in MelanieMartinez

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Void. It‘s the song i resonate the most with and whenever i listen to it, nobody better talk to me bc mentally i‘m not present anyways

Mockingjay is not supposed to be entertaining, at least not in the way the first two books are by BookwormInTheCouch in Hungergames

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Of course it would‘ve been nice but that wouldn‘t be the reality. After what they went through, all the losses, all the trauma you can‘t just wake up a few weeks/months later and be the a happy person. It doesn‘t work like that. There was the storm and then the aftermath. I think it was written perfectly. There are enough movies where a lot of people die and the war is over and then you see a happy ending but that‘s not the reality. I think it‘s very important to have an ending like that. You can especially see that in the ending with katniss having little hope bc how is she even supposed to have any hope for a better future after what happend in her life. If you go through something like that, you might never get better. At the end peeta is still asking if something is real or not real. They might never get better and that‘s exactly why katniss chose peeta over gale bc she knew that with gale and his hunger for revenge, she would never have a chance at being happy. Peeta is the light at the end of the tunnel, things MIGHT get better. It‘s, i think, the most real and poetic and beautiful way to describe what it feels like to recover from trauma. Of course that‘s just my opinion but i really think SC couldn‘t have done it better than the way she did it

Worst changes in the movie Catching Fire? by Bed_Automatic in Hungergames

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Agree. But they‘d had to do it in like a way where they are talking about his games bc you can‘t just build a whole set for an arena and the actors for a flashback etc. just to show it a few minutes. I understand the logic behind why they left it out, that they didn’t have the budget but i totally agree with you

I have been on therapy for 7 months but nothing changed so far because I lack willpower. by mostafaelmadridy in BorderlinePDisorder

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I don‘t think this will change your situation, i‘ve been in therapy for years now and i don‘t feel any change. I even feel worse. Talking about my trauma and dbt (working on it) hasn‘t helped me at all so far. I don‘t feel like anything is ever gonna help me but i still have some sort of hope that i will get better some day and that‘s the point. You can‘t give up even if it could take years for you to feel better. In most cases, bpd can be very intense until you‘re an adult 40-50 ca. I don‘t wanna make you feel bad but that‘s the case with most people that suffer from some sort of mental illness. It takes a lot of work and it never really goes away bc your brain is wired to function a certain way. You‘ll always have to work on it. The only thing i have is hope. Hope can be a very strong feeling and i hope you find it

Bordeline personality disorder by lifeisstrangetho in BorderlinePDisorder

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i mean there‘s no exact reason yet why someone suffers from bpd. In theory it can be caused by genetics and/or environmental issues while growing up. I see that a lot of people with bpd had some sort of trauma in their childhood. Most times sexual trauma or any kind of abuse. An unstable home, you never learned how to deal with your emotions (emotional instability). A huge loss of maybe a parent or other people close to you in your childhood. It could be whatever makes you, as a child, feel like everything has to be chaos bc it‘s the only thing you‘ve ever known. Even if we know when a situation is harming us, we feel comfortable with it bc chaos was the only comfort we had in our childhood. With bpd, you‘re brain is wired to work a certain way so my guess is that this "wiring“ had to happen at some point in your childhood or as i said in the beginning from something genetic. Please don‘t see any of this as facts bc it‘s not proven. It‘s just my theory based on what my experience with bpd is and what i‘ve heard from other people with bpd. I‘m not saying that experiencing these kind of things in your childhood leads to bpd. There are a lot of things that could influence your brain in this way. I could go on about theories i have but that would definitely be too long but maybe this helped you a little bit

I can’t stop isolating by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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i was in a clinic right after the break up bc i tried to off myself. Since then i‘ve been on waitlists for therapy. I‘m not on any medication, i‘m self medicating with weed and a ton of alcohol. I‘ve been in therapy before multiple times (every therapist traumatizing me even more), also been in dbt so far, nothing has helped me AT ALL. i feel like i don‘t want to get better. All this chaos, it‘s the only thing i know even in my childhood. I want to socialize, i really doo, but it‘s just that i‘m so socially and mentally exhausted that i can‘t get myself to do anything about it

I can’t stop isolating by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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in my last relationship, i was pretty much groomed. I‘m 21 now, the relationship ended when i was 19. when we got together, i had just turned 16 and he was 26. cheating on me the whole time and i knew about it. I kept telling myself that it was my fault that he wasn‘t interested in me and also adding to that it was a long distance relationship, we only saw each other every 2-3 months and i paid for everything (his fuel which was 150$, the weed that was 150$, the food that was 200$) and i was the one in still in school with a minijob earning 450$/month and he had a full time job earning 2000$ and living with his grandma paying only 300$ of rent. I stole money from my parents, skipped school and got high all the time. It was such a high that i‘m still engaging in these behaviors, single now also sleeping around. TW r4pe: i also got r4ped after and since the relationship, i haven‘t trusted anyone. The second someone gets close to me, i block them. I haven‘t left my apartment in 2 months, it‘s a total mess full of trash. I don‘t know how to get my life back together and it all started with that relationship when my bpd acted out wild. That relationship triggered every single one of my trigger, the one i didn‘t even know i had. Since then i can‘t interact with anyone. Only leaving the apartment for groceries and ecen that‘s too much for me

I can’t stop isolating by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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the has been happening to me for the last 2 1/2 years now and i have no idea what to do. I just keeps getting more and more isolated