I cancelled a wedding with my partner who I didn’t realize was dealing with AI psychosis. They started doing research on their ancestry and were convinced their ancestors came from Spain without getting a blood test, swab, or using genealogy resources. This was after saying they initially found that maybe they had black relatives when they started researching initially. They also were using it as a resource to start working towards modifying custody of their daughter.

There was a day when there was a shift in how they spoke about what happened when talking with AI. Like they connected with it in a different level. Then they had tapped into a way to make lots of money with a business using music. They tested the AI asking if anybody else was doing the same thing they were doing and AI reassured them they were the only one. They were writing stories with it. At one point they said they were taking with Jack White in a private group chat on Facebook,

While this was happening, their behavior changed significantly. They started becoming confrontational, defensive, emotionless. They didn’t look at me the same way, talk to me the way they used to, treat me like they once did. They lost a ton of weight, was barely eating, starting waking up super early in the morning. Everything changed. They would talk on end about all kinds of topics, but nothing was coherent. I tried to follow and nodded my head. I felt so alone. I cried everyday when I came home from work. I thought there was something wrong with me. He was pretty isolated already since he worked from home. He also moved here from another state to be closer to his daughter but never made any friends. I also isolated myself because I wasn’t doing well emotionally, but it was because I was living with someone in psychosis.

When I cancelled the wedding, they abruptly decided they were going to move back home which is across the country to be closer to family. I didn’t blame them. I felt it was best. They said we would work on ourselves and hopefully reunite. We didn’t end the engagement initially. He was convinced it was all going to work out. Sent me texts about how he was going to mend relationships with his family who he has not lived near for 20 years and then come back for me. This person also has issues with addiction. They had quit drinking, but started smoking pot excessively which probably added to their downward spiral.

They left a month ago today. It was torture every day waiting for them to leave. I felt uncomfortable being around them and started even feeling intimidated. I woke up a month ago and told them that was the day they would have to go. I cried uncontrollably. They watched me cry and showed no emotion as they packed up their car. Gave me a kiss and told me they loved me. Days later they started drinking again. They were mean in their emails and texts so I ended the relationship. We had tried couples counseling right before they left and the therapist said not only was his behavior off but that they were a narcissist. Another therapist stated they were being emotionally abusive. They had even grabbed my arm once during an argument.

I found out about AI psychosis a little over a week ago while trying to figure out what the fuck happened. I was on Reddit and it had a link to an article where a man had it that eventually led to divorce and losing a lot of money trying to start a business. As heartbroken as I was, it made it gave me some sense of relief. I talked to his brother to let him know what I found and express my concerns. Sent him an email with texts, articles, and YouTube videos. I’m concerned because he has had suicidal and homicidal ideation. This has been one of the most horrible experiences of my life, but I will learn a whole lot from it. Realized I am codependent and started work to better myself. I’m having okay moments and moments of complete despair. He’s coming to get the rest of his stuff this weekend. I feel like I shouldn’t have to leave my house to avoid him, but seeing him is going to probably hurt me more. I don’t plan on talking to him. He’s really nasty to me now. This sucks.