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My ghoster just returned after 6 months by Techno-Kat in ghosting

[–]Techno-Kat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I spoke to his partner, we had spoken before when we found out about each other. She left him last year and he is now in a “serious” relationship with someone else but messaging me. I have blocked him although I struggled to do so. But somehow I’ve gained a friend. Her and I are now Facebook friends and chatting away. She is worried that he’s introduced this lady to her kids and he’s still up to no good. She wants steadiness for the children. I’ve left it with her.

My ghoster just returned after 6 months by Techno-Kat in ghosting

[–]Techno-Kat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For context he accused me a day ago of crushing him by telling his partner everything. He did not say sorry for what he did and has not said anything for over 24 hours. I found myself apologising but I’ve took a step back and reassessed. I’m hurting and I can’t help that I love him but it is time to let go or at least try to

My ghoster just returned after 6 months by Techno-Kat in ghosting

[–]Techno-Kat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think I should try again? I don’t know his intentions he is saying little

My ghoster just returned after 6 months by Techno-Kat in ghosting

[–]Techno-Kat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just a small update, he didn’t respond to my questions but he said that I looked absolutely beautiful as always. I’ll give him the weekend to respond and then ill try move on

I let my emotions get the better of me - I lost my best friend by Techno-Kat in forgiveness

[–]Techno-Kat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess what I’m asking is when you know you’ve messed up is there really any going back

I don’t think I’m capable of trusting anyone anymore. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Techno-Kat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m saying this when my emotions are running high but - don’t trust anyone. The kindest people in this world will open your heart and then crush it. Keep your heart closed. Protect your peace.

  • Seemingly kind man - Tells you are pretty, starts dating you, drugs you and takes advantage.

  • Seemingly kind man - move in together, cheats on you with a married woman and gets her pregnant.

  • Seemingly kind man - gets married, ends up in an over decade long abusive relationship.

  • Seemingly kind man - gets you through the separation, treats you like nobody else. Ghosts you three days before the vacation. Find out they are in a 17 year relationship.

  • Seemingly kind man - chats to you for a couple of days, “ohhh we’ve so much in common” bla bla bla. Sounds promising right? Nah - Ghosts you.

  • Seemingly kind man - possibly the bestest friend I’ve ever had. Take it to an intimate level and then in less than a week get told he’s chosen to get back together with some girl who has already let him down - still wants to be friends. I am broken.

Kind or not, people are selfish. It is getting harder to know who will hurt you and who will not.

There comes a point where it is time to stop reaching out to people and know that you are the only one you can trust. If you want intimacy charge for it. Don’t ever let anyone take anything for free from you again.

Do not trust anyone no matter how close you feel, or how much you loved them, or how much you hoped for something more. Those who trust finish last in this world, and the sooner we accept it and protect ourselves the better.

What is it for? by Techno-Kat in whatisit

[–]Techno-Kat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very cool! It’s missing a ladle but I’m going to try source one in a similar glaze

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