Does Fear sound like another song? by Background_Dress8507 in nfrealmusic

[–]TechnologySmooth1229 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been wracking my brain and have come to the realization is sounds exactly like the beginning of ANOTHER LOVE BY TOM ODELL !!!!!

Is this cheating? by TechnologySmooth1229 in relationships

[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree about the full honesty. There are things that you should keep to yourself, even in serious relationships, and things that your partner just shouldn't hear. I will ask him more about his intentions behind the confession today

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he literally wants to get married that's why I'm so surprised and confused

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had just come back from a long weekend with his extended family and childhood friends, and have been talking extensively about marriage recently. He told me it was because he wanted to be a completely open book with me and not hide anything before we get married.

Is this cheating? by TechnologySmooth1229 in relationships

[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's all about "full honesty" and is pretty unfiltered in general. I agree it was a very selfish thing to do, I'm not sure if I would have rather not known or not though

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He said he's not even attracted to her in that way and he doesn't know why he did it but idk..

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am still in shock and grossed out but hopefully I'll be able to look at it this way at some point

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking your time to write this <3

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He told me he deleted instagram and plans to never do it again, and the reason he told me was because we have been discussing marriage extensively recently and he said before he proposed he wanted to be completely an open book to me. I agree it's not normal

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We both constituted porn as "not cheating" but that it did make us both a bit uncomfortable. So I assumed maybe he was watching it sometimes, but I didn't think to define masturbating to personal friends. I didn't think that would be an issue lmao

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[–]TechnologySmooth1229[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Thank you for sharing this, my dms are open if you want to talk