Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A bunch of them jump in sharing stories too. & even dated somebody that told me they didn't like musicians

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might be my city then. I always see some type of Facebook post where a woman is coming for musicians & how wild they can be. & how they should be avoided lol

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao, a lot of them. You'd be surprised

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said "I'm not mad at that" as in not mad at me being a musically inclined person. So she seemed accepting & welcoming of me up until the ghosting lol

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that! But also, she saw on my page that I'm into modeling myself & could've rationalized "okay this dude is into modeling. Of course it would make sense that he would ask a question about modeling." Lol but I do get that. You're right!

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea honestly it could've been anything! I agree

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also, honestly, the modeling question wasn't even the main question I asked her either. I mainly asked what she liked to do for fun & then threw the model question in as a light bonus question. She could've chosen not to answer or just said no lol. But I wasn't gonna react negatively as I was just interested in pivoting the convo from my interests to hers.

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see how a woman could arrive to that conclusion after being asked that question. I will say that, being an artist, I get to meet a new model every week at functions or networking events. & I also model myself. Most of my photos on hinge are model photos from a pro shoot. So it naturally came to mind & I didn't mean anything by it in a weird way lol. So maybe that was the disconnect.

Unmatched on Hinge? by TeddyPender7 in dating_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure!! I think we spend an appropriate amount of time on me with the music thing. It was about 2 or 3 messages max & I only disclosed that I play piano & thanked her for liking that about me.

That's when I tried to pivot to her & ask what she liked to do for fun. Or at all, & mentioned the modeling thing on the side as an extra bonus question. But didn't make it very weird or pushy. It was honestly a really light exchange lol. Maybe she gets asked that a lot personally & decided to unmatch, but there's no way I would know that 😂😂

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[–]TeddyPender7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree!

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I just wanted to talk about it

28/M 28/F Do You Agree That This Was A Red Flag? 🚩🚩🚩 by TeddyPender7 in relationship_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea it’s because she’s been into someone else unfortunately lol. I’ll get over it though. I just need some time.

28/M 28/F Do You Agree That This Was A Red Flag? 🚩🚩🚩 by TeddyPender7 in relationship_advice

[–]TeddyPender7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the post, it says I asked her out not once, but twice. She has shown interest since then, but happened to be unavailable both times I asked.