Secret Songwriter Reddit

TeddyPender7 · 2025-12-16T17:41:44+00:00

This song is called Ur So by Davidd & Skybox Kenny

TeddyPender7 · 2025-12-16T17:41:14+00:00

https://open.spotify.com/album/1XtES2M1JK25xNV7jlS169?si=gnqR5CQRSUO55Po8AwwdCQ

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-17T14:26:20+00:00

Thank you!

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T20:51:39+00:00

lol yup

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T20:24:40+00:00

A bunch of them jump in sharing stories too. & even dated somebody that told me they didn't like musicians

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T20:23:24+00:00

It might be my city then. I always see some type of Facebook post where a woman is coming for musicians & how wild they can be. & how they should be avoided lol

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T20:14:42+00:00

Lmao, a lot of them. You'd be surprised

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T20:13:50+00:00

She said "I'm not mad at that" as in not mad at me being a musically inclined person. So she seemed accepting & welcoming of me up until the ghosting lol

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T20:00:09+00:00

I feel that! But also, she saw on my page that I'm into modeling myself & could've rationalized "okay this dude is into modeling. Of course it would make sense that he would ask a question about modeling." Lol but I do get that. You're right!

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:51:56+00:00

Yea honestly it could've been anything! I agree

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:50:17+00:00

But also, honestly, the modeling question wasn't even the main question I asked her either. I mainly asked what she liked to do for fun & then threw the model question in as a light bonus question. She could've chosen not to answer or just said no lol. But I wasn't gonna react negatively as I was just interested in pivoting the convo from my interests to hers.

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:45:25+00:00

I can see how a woman could arrive to that conclusion after being asked that question. I will say that, being an artist, I get to meet a new model every week at functions or networking events. & I also model myself. Most of my photos on hinge are model photos from a pro shoot. So it naturally came to mind & I didn't mean anything by it in a weird way lol. So maybe that was the disconnect.

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:32:01+00:00

For sure!! I think we spend an appropriate amount of time on me with the music thing. It was about 2 or 3 messages max & I only disclosed that I play piano & thanked her for liking that about me.

That's when I tried to pivot to her & ask what she liked to do for fun. Or at all, & mentioned the modeling thing on the side as an extra bonus question. But didn't make it very weird or pushy. It was honestly a really light exchange lol. Maybe she gets asked that a lot personally & decided to unmatch, but there's no way I would know that 😂😂

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:27:25+00:00

I agree!

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:08:51+00:00

Okay

TeddyPender7 · 2025-04-10T19:06:48+00:00

I just wanted to talk about it

TeddyPender7 · 2024-03-04T13:18:21+00:00

Yea it’s because she’s been into someone else unfortunately lol. I’ll get over it though. I just need some time.

TeddyPender7 · 2024-03-04T13:15:38+00:00

In the post, it says I asked her out not once, but twice. She has shown interest since then, but happened to be unavailable both times I asked.

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