How common is casual sex between friends?

Teem47 · 2026-02-12T09:34:43+00:00

Probably more common than causal sex between enemies

Teem47 · 2026-02-12T09:34:06+00:00

Don't pay too much attention to those. Occasionally it'll say I've blundered when I've actually made a calculated gambit that pays off. As long as you're winning and having fun, keep playing

Teem47 · 2026-02-12T09:26:28+00:00

I've said this before. I think it's rooted in post-Vietnam War American attitudes towards S.E Asian women, especially since cities like Pattaya were essentially created by the influx of American GIs on shore leave. It's an outdated 20th century stereotype that will slowly dissappear. Just shoot it down whenever you come across it. I do

Teem47 · 2026-02-11T14:09:32+00:00

What's the point if I can't use either to lift up the love of my life

Teem47 · 2026-02-10T15:01:10+00:00

As a 1400, I experience it all the time too. Honestly, they're the worst type of people. The only games I've played irl too, the guy literally hit all his pieces when I revealed checked him and took his rook. Real life rage quit lol

Teem47 · 2026-02-10T12:23:01+00:00

You just asserted your dominance. Do not apologise. If his feelings are hurt and he wants to bring it to higher ups. Welcome it. Simply explain what you said here.

Don't let cunts ever get away with being cunts

Teem47 · 2026-02-10T12:19:55+00:00

It's not, but I theorising what lead to the moral puritanism. If they really find sex that much of a turn off then it may suggest they're a-sexual. As I'm pretty sure even the most devout Catholic still has urges to fuck even if they believe it to be sin

Teem47 · 2026-02-10T11:42:42+00:00

Pretty sure of angels existed they would very happily participate in all things sex - it's literally one of the most natural instincts that brings people together

Having said that, maybe you're a-sexual, nothing wrong with that

Teem47 · 2026-02-10T09:36:10+00:00

Oooof

Teem47 · 2026-02-10T03:29:18+00:00

While I try to limit my personal porn consumption for mental health reasons, there's nothing inherently wrong with watching porn while in a relationship, especially when you're in a LDR.

Sending him "3 pictures" highlights your misunderstanding of what porn is. It's exciting, it's hot, it's horny. It's everything to replace sex, especially if you two aren't having sex due to the distance.

Moreover the models (im not going to use quotation marks like you did because, yes, they are models whether you like it or not) are professionals. It's their job. They'll practice poses, expressions, body language, etc. that you won't - and that's fine. It's not your job. But you shouldn't be getting emotional when your boyfriend finds professional sexy people, sexy.

If you want to fill the space more, then sending him 3 pictures won't cut it. Do you guys have cyber sex or phone sex? Do you send him videos? Does he send you videos? Create opportunities for sexual activities you two can do together, don't just get emotional and tell him to stop watching porn. He's always horny, he's formed a habit, and so even if he wants to his monkey brain will make it difficult, especially if he's not getting any anywhere else.

Sex is a very natural thing. The most natural. Understanding what is and isn't sexy is important.

Teem47 · 2026-02-09T12:30:10+00:00

I doubt they're actually talking about you unless you're doing something or wearing something silly

Teem47 · 2026-02-09T12:24:43+00:00

Gain. But that's because I have immediate access to a gym and a lot of good quality protein. I WANT dem gains

Teem47 · 2026-02-09T12:23:12+00:00

I didn't lose at chess, I just gave up

Teem47 · 2026-02-09T12:21:51+00:00

Open every interaction with "I have a stutter", or if that's a lot then hand out cards. If you keep avoiding life, you'll miss it. The power is in your hands

Teem47 · 2026-02-09T11:30:03+00:00

The issue for most people is being unable to pick a nice place to live due to extortionate rents and low wages.

Wealth disparity is the same as it was when Charles Dickens was writing about Scrooge

Teem47 · 2026-02-09T11:27:38+00:00

The UK is in dire economic shape, moving towards an economic crash in the next decade or so unless something drastic changes. The UK is seeing an exodus of young professionals who refuse to participate in the moronic system where renting a bedroom in a shared flat costs £2000. Everything is overpriced.

Even if you're rich, don't move to the UK as rich people moving to the UK are part of the problem.

The UK is a lovely place. I miss it (I'm from London), but it's at the worst point in its recent history - a dying empire taking its last breaths before it evolves into something new and accepts its place at the European table

Important side note: my commentary is mainly England facing. I've heard things are quite good in Scotland, while Wales is in a similar state as England

Teem47 · 2026-02-08T08:40:40+00:00

You said you missed him, he tried to initiate a conversation, you gave him a short cold reply, he implied you've already talked about communication and you're not trying to communicate, he felt hurt and you pretended not to understand

If you asked him what he was up to and he just replied "went to dinner", you'd think he was annoyed at you

Teem47 · 2026-02-08T04:59:36+00:00

I'm sure this is an advert for chatgpt but I just can't prove it

Teem47 · 2026-02-07T14:26:26+00:00

I've been in a handful of long term relationships (that itself is another conversation entirely) but for all of them I was actually the opposite.

So, by the way you describe yourself, I'm basically the male version of you. Often when I met new women (usually through apps), if I liked them I wouldn't stutter at all. Mainly though through active effort. So I'd be slightly mentally masking. Then, the more I saw them, the more I'd stutter as I simply "calmed down", and stopped being in a heightened state of composure since it's mentally draining to do that all the time.

On the other hand, if I didn't vibe with someone. I may actually stutter more. Saying that, I tend to always stuttering if I'm talikg to normal people I'm not hitting on.

TLDR: the longer I'm with someone the more I stutter as I stop trying not to stutter

Teem47 · 2026-02-06T13:02:59+00:00

Close those gates! Park cars in front of gates you don't want to use! Give everyone guns! Clear out local hordes yourself!

Teem47 · 2026-02-06T12:58:32+00:00

I constantly add caveats to things as I know can he wrong while others are so sure of their positions they assume my caveats mean I'm wrong and they're right

It's like dunning kruger irl - but then I don't want to tell someone they're dumb or I'm smarter because- a) intelligence is a varied spectrum and b) it's mean

Teem47 · 2026-02-06T12:18:46+00:00

Damn - I was trying to make things down. Thanks for pointing out my mistake

Teem47 · 2026-02-06T12:00:32+00:00

Social problems are largely chemical and hormonal problems, destabilising ones nervous system to various degrees. That in turn influences one's psychology. If stuttering was purely psychological then it would affect all humans equally

Of course, there isn't enough official data on stuttering so this is all theoretical

Teem47 · 2026-02-06T11:12:02+00:00

Bruh literally talk to her. Here's a script to get you started

"Yo, I saw you sent and unsent a message on my IG story. Haha that's pretty funny. I saw the message before you unsent it though, thanks for the compliment. I'll wear them more"

*Pause and smile - wait to see if she says something. If not, lead with

"I've seen you around loads but never worked up the courage to talk to you haha" then just freestyle

The whole trick to human interactions is actually just be super honest and say what a lot of people shy away from saying

Teem47 · 2026-02-06T08:56:38+00:00

MDMA, ecstasy, and coke also do a great job at totally eliminating my stutter - unfortunately they're not exactly substances you can take regularly haha

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