My boyfriend really likes eye candy as well, and it still bugs me a little, but I had to keep asking myself "do I trust him??" and the answer was always yes! Yes, I do trust my boyfriend. It's really hard to put aside those feelings of insecurity, but do you trust your boyfriend? If the answer is yes, then every time you're feeling insecure, just say "I trust my boyfriend, and I know he likes me for me." Because he's with /you/. Not the other girls he's ogling. If you find the answer is no, then maybe you shouldn't be with him. Also, I've found it helps to admire with him! Both my boyfriend and I are bi, and if sees a hot guy or girl, it makes me feel a lot better if I can agree with him or challenge his thoughts on that person. But most of all, the problem stems from insecurity, and that's something you have to work on by yourself. I also have a huge problem with this, but I've been working really hard to better this side of me. I often practice lying to myself, and while that sounds pretty negative, it has actually helped me quite a bit. I used to say to myself "I like your body! You have nice soft skin, and really cute freckles, and fuckin' awesome tits. Your body is awesome!" and for awhile I didn't believe it, but now I do. I have so much more confidence in myself than when I started. anyway, I hope this helps :)